The Road to Wisdom Podcast

• Birth, Loss & Love: Lucette Romy’s Journey Through the Unthinkable

  In Episode 87 of The Road to Wisdom Podcast, Chloe and Keshia have a deeply moving conversation with Lucette Romy as she courageously shares the story of her pregnancy, birth, and the unimaginable loss of her baby, Dash Ra, just hours after he entered the world. Lucette reflects on her pregnancy—one that was filled with ease and trust in her body—and explains her decision to free birth at home, supported by a birth keeper rather than a hospital setting. She takes us through her labor, the intensity and triumph of birth, and the moments that followed, leading to the heartbreaking loss of her and her partner Tom’s baby boy. In this conversation, Lucette bravely recounts the devastating aftermath—navigating grief, the painful uncertainty of waiting months for answers, and the deeply traumatic experience of an autopsy. She opens up about the emotional and logistical challenges that come with losing a baby, shedding light on the often-overlooked complexities of postpartum loss. We also explore the vital roles of doulas, midwives, and birth keepers in supporting birthing mothers and discuss the importance of informed choices in all birth settings. Through her own heartbreaking experience, Lucette has found purpose in creating a resource for other mothers—offering guidance, support, and knowledge for those who may experience a similar loss or simply want to understand their options should the unthinkable happen. This is a tender and powerful episode that honors the depth of a mother’s love, the pain of loss, and the resilience of the human spirit. Lucette can be found on Ig @lucetteromy and on her podcast @sanamama_ Loved what you heard in this episode? Your support means the world. Make sure to hit that subscribe button, spread the word with your pals, and drop us a review. By doing so, you're not just tuning in – you're fueling our community's growth and paving the way for more incredible guests to grace our show. As the week rolls by, we're already cooking up more tantalizing content for your hungry ears. Keen to stay in the loop with the latest episode releases? Follow our journey on Instagram at @theroadtowisdom.podcast and catch behind-the-scenes action on our YouTube channel @theroadtowisdompodcast. Don't miss out on a thing – also, snag the freshest updates straight to your inbox by subscribing to our newsletter over at ⁠⁠https://www.theroadtowisdompodcast.com/⁠⁠. It's your VIP ticket to all things The Road To Wisdom

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• Fire Ants: Fear, Propaganda and Reality with Simon Mulvaney From Save The Bees

  In episode 86 of the Road to Wisdom podcast, Keshia and Chloe sit down with Simon Mulvany from Save the Bees to explore the contentious fire ant eradication program in Queensland. This conversation dives into the ecological, social, and political complexities surrounding the program, shedding light on the propaganda used to instil fear about fire ants and the government’s reliance on chemical solutions. Simon critiques the narrow approach to pest control, emphasizing the need for non-toxic alternatives like diatomaceous earth and the role native ants can play in managing fire ant populations naturally. The deeper implications of the eradication program are explored, including its impact on native bee populations and the broader organic farming industry. Simon highlights how the poisoning program has become an industry in itself, raising concerns about transparency and vested interests. He also discusses the legal rights of homeowners who resist forced chemical use, advocating for empowerment and informed decision-making within communities. Chloe, Keshia, and Simon delve into how media narratives and fear campaigns influence public perception of invasive species and pest control. They explore the environmental consequences of heavy chemical use, the introduction of controversial technologies like GMO mosquitoes, and the often-overlooked importance of native bees in maintaining biodiversity. Emphasizing the power of grassroots action and community-led solutions to environmental challenges, Simon underscores the value of organic, local approaches and the importance of public awareness in holding governments and organizations accountable. By prioritizing transparency, biodiversity, and sustainable methods, individuals can push back against harmful policies and advocate for healthier ecosystems. This episode serves as a call to action, reminding listeners of the vital role they play in protecting public health, biodiversity, and the integrity of the natural world. Simon and his work can be found at https://www.beethecure.com.au and on IG: @savethebeesaustralia Loved what you heard in this episode? Your support means the world. Make sure to hit that subscribe button, spread the word with your pals, and drop us a review. By doing so, you're not just tuning in – you're fueling our community's growth and paving the way for more incredible guests to grace our show. As the week rolls by, we're already cooking up more tantalizing content for your hungry ears. Keen to stay in the loop with the latest episode releases? Follow our journey on Instagram at @theroadtowisdom.podcast and catch behind-the-scenes action on our YouTube channel @theroadtowisdompodcast. Don't miss out on a thing – also, snag the freshest updates straight to your inbox by subscribing to our newsletter over at ⁠⁠https://www.theroadtowisdompodcast.com/⁠⁠. It's your VIP ticket to all things The Road To Wisdom

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• Bringing Out The Best In Our Men with Queens Code Author Alison Armstrong

  In episode 85 of The Road to Wisdom Podcast Chloe & Keshia invite the amazing Alison Armstrong to explore the intricate dynamics of modern relationships, drawing insights from Alison's transformative work and one of her many books *The Queen's Code*. They discuss the differences between masculine and feminine energies, the societal consequences of emasculation, and the ways in which behaviors modeled in relationships can shape healthier interactions. Alison emphasizes the need for understanding and empathy as the foundation for meaningful connections, particularly in navigating the complexities of attraction, communication, and intimacy.   A central theme of the discussion is the importance of embracing the unique qualities of both genders. Alison highlights how women can reconnect with their femininity and how recognizing men’s strengths fosters harmony and balance. They delve into the societal shifts that have blurred traditional roles, pointing out that the fight for equality has sometimes led to misunderstandings and friction in relationships. Men and women are naturally complementary, and appreciating these differences can pave the way for deeper emotional connections and mutual respect.   The conversation also examines the challenges of modern relationships, where traditional courtship dynamics have often been replaced by less intentional interactions. Alison explains how storytelling can effectively convey lessons about gender dynamics and the ways emotional and physical attraction contribute to intimacy. Sex, as she notes, is not just a physical act but a deeply emotional experience that can strengthen bonds when approached with intention and understanding.   Listening and communication are emphasized as vital tools for connection, as is the need for awareness of how societal conditioning may influence behaviors. Women, for instance, may reject help from men due to a strong sense of independence, while men naturally seek to provide and protect in relationships. Alison also touches on how motherhood shifts perspectives on gender roles, adding another layer to the complexities of partnership.   Ultimately, the conversation underscores the transformative power of empathy, awareness, and mutual growth in relationships. By understanding the interplay between masculine and feminine energies and addressing the emotional and physical aspects of attraction, couples can cultivate deeper intimacy and forge lasting, fulfilling partnerships. Alison can be found at AlisonArmstrong.com Loved what you heard in this episode? Your support means the world. Make sure to hit that subscribe button, spread the word with your pals, and drop us a review. By doing so, you're not just tuning in – you're fueling our community's growth and paving the way for more incredible guests to grace our show. As the week rolls by, we're already cooking up more tantalizing content for your hungry ears. Keen to stay in the loop with the latest episode releases? Follow our journey on Instagram at @theroadtowisdom.podcast and catch behind-the-scenes action on our YouTube channel @theroadtowisdompodcast. Don't miss out on a thing – also, snag the freshest updates straight to your inbox by subscribing to our newsletter over at ⁠⁠https://www.theroadtowisdompodcast.com/⁠⁠. It's your VIP ticket to all things The Road To Wisdom  

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• Becoming Anti-Fragile With Dr Paige Williams

  In episode 84 of The Road to Wisdom Podcast Chloe & Keshia speak to Author Public Speaker & researcher Dr Paige Williams. We invited Paige on after coming across her book "Becoming Anti-Fragile". Anti-fragility is about embracing challenges as opportunities to grow stronger. Dr. Paige Williams explains how small, everyday struggles can build our resilience over time. These "paper cuts" might feel overwhelming in the moment, but they prepare us to handle larger disruptions with greater ease.   Self-compassion is a vital part of parenting. Many parents feel the weight of societal pressures and expectations, leading to feelings of inadequacy or anxiety. Dr. Williams emphasizes the importance of being kind to ourselves and recognizing that parenting is a journey of learning and growth. By focusing on our choices and reconnecting with what truly matters, we can navigate this journey with greater confidence and intentionality.   Parenting is not meant to be done alone. Collective support plays a crucial role in building resilience for both parents and children. Dr. Williams encourages creating a strong community where parents can share their challenges and support one another. Practical tools like the circles of control can also help parents focus on what they can influence, reducing overwhelm and fostering a sense of control.   Flexibility is essential when navigating the gap between expectations and reality. Holding expectations loosely allows parents to adapt to the unpredictability of family life without unnecessary stress. At the same time, drawing on intergenerational wisdom can provide valuable guidance, blending the lessons of the past with the demands of modern parenting.   Dr. Williams highlights the importance of breaking harmful societal norms, such as the "good girl syndrome," which affects both boys and girls. By challenging these stereotypes and modeling healthy behaviors, parents can lead their children toward a more resilient and empowered future. Parenting is a form of leadership, requiring boundaries, intentionality, and a commitment to raising emotionally healthy individuals.   In essence, this conversation reminds us that while parenting can feel overwhelming at times, it also offers countless opportunities for personal growth, connection, and transformation. By embracing these principles, parents can not only navigate the challenges of today but also shape a stronger, more resilient next generation.     Dr Paige can be found at drpaige.au Loved what you heard in this episode? Your support means the world. Make sure to hit that subscribe button, spread the word with your pals, and drop us a review. By doing so, you're not just tuning in – you're fueling our community's growth and paving the way for more incredible guests to grace our show. As the week rolls by, we're already cooking up more tantalizing content for your hungry ears. Keen to stay in the loop with the latest episode releases? Follow our journey on Instagram at @theroadtowisdom.podcast and catch behind-the-scenes action on our YouTube channel @theroadtowisdompodcast. Don't miss out on a thing – also, snag the freshest updates straight to your inbox by subscribing to our newsletter over at ⁠⁠https://www.theroadtowisdompodcast.com/⁠⁠. It's your VIP ticket to all things The Road To Wisdom

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• Late-Term Abortions, the Birth Equality Bill, and the Importance of Informed Choices with Dr. Joanna Howe

  In episode 83 of The Road to Wisdom Podcast Chloe & Keshia discuss a polarising, and at times difficulty to tackle, topic: Abortion. The aim is to shine a light on the current situation taking place in Australia that we, personally, didn't know anything about. Dr. Joanna Howe who courageously speaks on failed abortions and the side of abortion many of us do not know about, was introduced to us and has made a huge impact on us both. Dr Joanna Howe is a Professor of Law at the University of Adelaide and a consultant with Harmers Workplace Lawyers. She holds a Doctorate of Philosophy in Law from the University of Oxford where she studied as a Rhodes Scholar. We delve into the deeply complex and controversial issue of late-term abortion and the implications of Australia’s proposed Birth Equality Bill. She sheds light on the realities surrounding failed abortions, the laws that govern them, and the ethical questions they raise. Dr. Howe also shares real-life cases that reveal the emotional and medical complexities of abortion, emphasizing the need for compassion, informed choice, and a deeper recognition of the humanity of unborn babies. This discussion explores the care that should be required for newborns who survive abortion procedures, the psychological toll on mothers, and the cultural and systemic factors contributing to the prevalence of abortion. Dr. Howe advocates for open communication, education, and support systems to empower women and reduce the number of abortions through awareness and informed decision-making.   Key Takeaways: - Abortion, particularly in the second and third trimesters, can sometimes fail, resulting in babies being born alive.   - The **Birth Equality Bill** seeks to ensure that these babies receive the same medical care as any other newborn.   - Laws governing late-term abortion vary across Australia, with all states permitting abortion up to birth for psychosocial reasons.   - Many late-term abortions are performed on healthy babies, and the procedures can be distressing for both medical staff and mothers.   - Informed consent is crucial, yet many women are not fully aware of the possibility of their baby being born alive or the details of the procedure.   - Dr. Howe highlights the need for cultural change and education to address misconceptions and provide women with better support during crisis pregnancies.   - Providing care and dignity to newborns born alive during abortion procedures is essential.   - Societal recognition of the responsibilities of parenthood, starting at conception, is necessary to foster a culture of respect for life.   - Education about abortion methods and their implications is vital to empower young people to make informed decisions.   This conversation challenges polarizing narratives and underscores the importance of nuanced, empathetic discussions about abortion, women’s rights, and societal responsibilities. Dr. Howe’s insights provide a compassionate and balanced perspective on a sensitive issue, encouraging dialogue and reflection.   Joanna can be found at https://www.drjoannahowe.com and on Instagram @drjoannahowe. If you would like to support Dr Howes work, you will find all you need at https://www.drjoannahowe.com/join Loved what you heard in this episode? Your support means the world. Make sure to hit that subscribe button, spread the word with your pals, and drop us a review. By doing so, you're not just tuning in – you're fueling our community's growth and paving the way for more incredible guests to grace our show. As the week rolls by, we're already cooking up more tantalizing content for your hungry ears. Keen to stay in the loop with the latest episode releases? Follow our journey on Instagram at @theroadtowisdom.podcast and catch behind-the-scenes action on our YouTube channel @theroadtowisdompodcast. Don't miss out on a thing – also, snag the freshest updates straight to your inbox by subscribing to our newsletter over at ⁠⁠https://www.theroadtowisdompodcast.com/⁠⁠. It's your VIP ticket to all things The Road To Wisdom

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