Eden and the Pink Dress: Learning Self Control
Eden had been looking forward to her grandparents’ 50th wedding anniversary party for weeks. She had her outfit ready, her heart set on jumping castles and dancing with cousins, and a head full of excitement. But when her mum tells her to change clothes just minutes before leaving — without time to explain how much her outfit mattered to her — Eden’s big feelings boil over into a meltdown.This calming, relatable episode helps girls aged 6–10 process the experience of disappointment, explore the importance of self-control, and learn how to communicate respectfully when emotions run high. We gently guide listeners through Eden’s story as she reflects on what went wrong, and what kind of person she wants to become — someone who can feel big feelings and choose obedience, patience, and kindness.Perfect for parents navigating tantrums, power struggles, or emotional outbursts, this episode encourages emotional regulation, respectful communication, and the lifelong skill of choosing self-control — even when it’s hard. “Eden and the Pink Dress” is a warm and affirming tool to help your daughter grow into someone trustworthy, wise, and kind-hearted, no matter what the day brings.Parent Conversation Guide:Conversation Starters“Have you ever felt really excited about something, and then it didn’t go the way you hoped?”“What do you do when someone tells you to do something you don’t want to do?”“Can you remember a time you were so upset, it felt like your body took over?”“What helps you calm down when your feelings feel really big?”“Why do you think it’s hard to stay calm when something feels unfair?”“What kind of person do you want to be when things don’t go your way?”Connect and Coach“It looks like you were really excited, and when things changed suddenly, your body and feelings felt out of control. That makes sense.”“Your feelings are totally valid. It’s okay to feel disappointed — what matters is how we act when we feel that way.”“You didn’t want to yell. You were trying to be heard. That shows me this was really important to you.”“You’re learning something so grown-up: how to feel big emotions and still make good choices.”“Sometimes obedience means trusting Mum or Dad’s decision, even if it’s not what you want — and that takes strength.”“You can be honest and respectful at the same time. Want to practice how we can do that together?”How to Model This as a ParentPause before reacting: When your child is upset, respond with curiosity rather than control. “Tell me what’s going on” opens more growth than “That’s enough.”Narrate your own process: Let your child hear your inner dialogue when you're disappointed or frustrated. “I really wanted something different, but I’m going to take a breath and listen first.”Repair after rupture: If you rushed your child or didn’t listen, circle back. “I realise I didn’t give you a chance to explain. I’m sorry. Let’s talk now.”Praise wise obedience: Highlight when your child obeys even when it’s hard. “That was a hard moment, and you still chose to listen. T💛 Enjoying the podcast? Support the show and help Laura keep creating free resources for mums and daughters by “buying me a coffee” buymeacoffee.com/everwonder. OR please take a moment to leave a rating and review. It is so encouraging hearing how your daughter is growing, learning and connecting with those around her. Both help other families find the show and reminds us that these gentle conversations really do matter. For more information, or to get in touch privately, please head to www.everwonderpodcast.com Thanks for listening — we’re so glad you’re here.
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