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Extra Effort + Everyday Moments = Massive Growth (Staying Close in the Chaos, 4/5)
02/10/2026 | 25 mins.Many couples fall into the trap of thinking big date nights and grand gestures are what will keep their marriage strong. Today, we unpack how tiny, everyday moments can have a huge impact on your relationship.
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https://facebook.com/selena.frederick- Many couples think intimacy should just happen on its own — but what if that belief is harming your marriage? Today we dig into what the Bible actually says about consistency, connection, and why "spontaneous" might not be the correct goal.
• Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com
• Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com
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If this content helps you, please consider subscribing. New marriage and parenting videos weekly.
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More marriage content: https://fiercemarriage.com
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https://facebook.com/selena.frederick Warm Regard: How Tiny Reactions Make a Huge Impact (Staying Close in the Chaos, 2/5)
17/09/2026 | 25 mins.Marriages don't only fall apart from big blowups — they can also crumble from a hundred small moments nobody ever addresses. Today we unpack one habit we call "keeping short accounts," a practice that's helped carry our marriage through 23 years.
• Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com
• Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com
• Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com
To learn more about becoming a Christian: https://thenewsisgood.com
If this content helps you, please consider subscribing. New marriage and parenting videos weekly.
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More marriage content: https://fiercemarriage.com
Our books and devotionals: https://shop.fiercemarriage.com
Take online marriage courses: https://gospelcenteredmarriage.com
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https://facebook.com/selena.frederick"Coffee Time": The Habit that Changes Everything (Staying Close in the Chaos, 1/5)
09/09/2026 | 45 mins.How can you protect your connection with your spouse despite being busy? Today, Ryan and Selena Frederick share the one practical daily habit they believe has the highest return on investment for staying connected as a couple.
• Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com
• Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com
• Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com
To learn more about becoming a Christian: https://thenewsisgood.com
If this content helps you, please consider subscribing. New marriage and parenting videos weekly.
Support: https://fiercemarriage.com/partner
Subscribe to audio: https://fiercemarriage.com/podcast
Socials: https://instagram.com/fiercemarriage, https://facebook.com/fiercemarriage
More marriage content: https://fiercemarriage.com
Our books and devotionals: https://shop.fiercemarriage.com
Take online marriage courses: https://gospelcenteredmarriage.com
For parenting resources and content, visit https://FierceParenting.com
Let’s be friends! Find Ryan and Selena on their personal socials.
Ryan:
https://instagram.com/ryan_fred
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Selena:
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https://facebook.com/selena.frederick- Today we unpack the difference between healthy emotions and something far more dangerous: emotionalism. From the silent treatment to storming off to feeling "unloved" even when your spouse is trying, we break down where feelings cross the line from real to ruling, and what Scripture says about putting them back in their place.
• Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com
• Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com
• Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com
To learn more about becoming a Christian: https://thenewsisgood.com
If this content helps you, please consider subscribing. New marriage and parenting videos weekly.
Support: https://fiercemarriage.com/partner
Subscribe to audio: https://fiercemarriage.com/podcast
Socials: https://instagram.com/fiercemarriage, https://facebook.com/fiercemarriage
More marriage content: https://fiercemarriage.com
Our books and devotionals: https://shop.fiercemarriage.com
Take online marriage courses: https://gospelcenteredmarriage.com
For parenting resources and content, visit https://FierceParenting.com
Let’s be friends! Find Ryan and Selena on their personal socials.
Ryan:
https://instagram.com/ryan_fred
https://twitter.com/ryanfred
https://facebook.com/ryanfred
Selena:
https://instagram.com/selenafred
https://facebook.com/selena.frederick
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