Become New with John Ortberg

Most of us think we’re pretty good at reading people. Research says… we’re not.
In today’s teaching, we explore the powerful and often overlooked skill of social intelligence, the ability to understand your own emotions and accurately read what’s happening in others. 

From facial expressions to tone of voice to body language, this skill shapes every relationship you have. Through biblical insight (including the story of Joseph), practical exercises, and a powerful reflection practice, you’ll learn how to grow in awareness, ask better questions, and become someone who truly sees people.

Because when you learn to read faces…you learn to love people better.

📚 Today's Resources:
The Opposite of Depression by David M. Carreon MD
Spiritual practice of the Examen Prayer, from Ignatius of Loyola
Research from Martin Seligman

ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 8.15.23

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Life doesn’t always give you the path you would choose...

There’s a race set before you, shaped by your circumstances, your story, and the challenges you didn’t ask for. The question isn’t whether you chose it… the question is: will you run it with perseverance?

In this powerful teaching, we explore what it really means to persevere—not just through willpower, but through purpose. Drawing from Scripture, philosophy, and real-life stories of suffering and resilience, this message shows how perseverance is fueled by hope, vision, and a deep sense that your life matters.

If you’re tired, discouraged, or wondering if it’s worth it to keep going… this is for you.
Because sometimes the most spiritual thing you can do is just to take the next step.

📚 Today's Resources:
The Strengths of a Christian — Robert C. Roberts
Writings of Søren Kierkegaard (commitment, maturity)
Reflections on Bertrand Russell (contrast in perseverance and commitment)

Original Air Date: 8/10/23

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What if the key to real character growth isn’t fixing your weaknesses… but fully living into your strengths?

In today’s teaching, Dr. John Ortberg explores the idea of signature character strengths — those unique qualities God has wired into you that, when used intentionally, can transform your life and the lives of others. Drawing from research in positive psychology and the example of Barnabas, the “son of encouragement,” this message invites you to discover how you’re uniquely designed to grow and make an impact.

You’ll hear a powerful story of quiet encouragement, learn how your daily choices shape who you are becoming, and be challenged to take one simple step: start using your God-given strengths on purpose today.
Because change doesn’t happen someday. Change starts today.

ORIGINAL AIR DATE: July 24, 2023

📚 Today's Resources:
VIA Character Strengths Survey (via VIA Institute on Character)
https://www.viacharacter.org/survey
Work of Martin Seligman
Mention of C. S. Lewis (idea of becoming something glorious or monstrous)

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What if the biggest problem was never “them”… but what happens in us?

In this final episode of the No Condemnation series, John brings us to a powerful turning point in Romans 1–2. Paul builds a case against “them” — their sin, their failure, their corruption — until the reader is fully on board.

And then he turns it: “You, therefore, have no excuse—you who pass judgment…”

In this episode, you’ll learn:
the difference between moral discernment and condemnation
why labeling people as “them” distorts the heart
how contempt quietly takes root in everyday life
why humility is the starting point for real change
how to live with curiosity instead of judgment

This isn’t about ignoring sin. It’s about refusing to let condemnation shape your soul. As the series ends, the invitation remains:

See people as individuals.
Release the need to judge.
Choose curiosity.
Practice love.

...because there is now no condemnation.

📚 Today's Resources:
Anne Lamott, Traveling Mercies: Some Thoughts on Faith 

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