Broken Fathers Podcast

• Episode 22 - Pauline Hanson - Children need their Fathers

  Send us a textEpisode 22 Guest – Pauline HansonOn our next episode of the broken fathers podcast I sit speak with someone who’s not only seen the pain, but spoken out about it—in Parliament, on national television, and in the face of fierce opposition. She’s a a federal senator, the founder of One Nation, and one of the few politicians who’s dared to publicly call the family court system for what many of us know it to be “BROKEN”. A strong independent woman, Senator Pauline Hanson.Senator Hanson’s first marriage was in the 1970s and after it ended, she found herself a single mother at the age of 33. She didn’t claim child support or other assets. She worked diligently to support herself and her child. She later married a second time and had two more children. This marriage also ended, there no property settlement as Pauline walked out and left the house and plumbing business to her ex. but Pauline’s hardest battle was trying to get the children's father to be involved in their kid’s lives because she knows how important it is for the children to have a father in their lives. Pauline was flat out trying to get $20 a week. When Senator Hanson joined parliament in 1996, the biggest issue that came across Senator’s desk was issues about family law system. She has personal experience with the family court system, as two of her sons have gone through it. She has witnessed firsthand the pain it caused them and felt that pain herself, how unfair and broken the system is especially knowing how much her sons love their children.Senator Hanson argues that the courts and both parents should prioritize what is best for the children, rather than engaging in abusive, hurtful actions or using children as pawns. Pauline believes children have a right to be with their parents. Pauline grew up with amazing male role models like her amazing father and loving brothers. She’s not anti-male but she’s not joining some me2 movement and she makes a reminder to all those mothers out there you reap what you sow, that may be being spiteful and using the kids as pawns that It might be your sons being denied their children form a grandmother one day later in life. We delved into comments made by former Parramatta family court judge David Collier, who, after 14 years on the bench, observed a significant amount of false evidence presented in domestic violence and sexual abuse cases, noting that perjury always went unaddressed. We question why charges were not laid in such instances. Our conversation also touched on the perceived influence of "woke" ideologies in parliament, particularly regarding women's rights, and how the current Child Support system can be viewed as a "cash cow." We both agree that child support payments should be managed through a receipted bank account to ensure funds are exclusively used for the child's benefit. We believe that reforming child support could lead to greater accountability. Pauline suggests that all domestic violence allegations should first be heard in a magistrate's court to determine their veracity before proceeding to family court. Furthermore, these allegations should not be admissible in family court unless proven factual. Pauline mentioned that domestic violence cases consume 75% of the Queensland Police Service's resources, leading to frustration among officers who feel the system needs to be re-evaluated. Additionally, we discussed a perceived lack of courage among many politicians, attributing it to the need to adhere to party lines. The misuse of the domestic violence system as a legal weapon, often facilitated by unaddressed perjury, was another point of concern. We reflected on the powerful display of 2,400 single boots on the lawns of Parliament, representing men and boysSupport the show

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• Episode 21 - Tracey McMillan - The Family Court System is Broken

  Send us a textEpisode 21Guest – Tracey McMillanOn our next episode, I’m joined by Tracey McMillan, CEO of Queensland Family Law Practice (QFLP), to unpack everything about the Family Court system. Tracey is a highly experienced family lawyer and mediator with over 25 years in practice. She’s frequently sought by media outlets and community organisations for her clear, practical advice on family law — always with a strong focus on the well-being of children.Tracey’s expertise spans parenting arrangements, domestic violence, divorce, and property settlements. She is known for providing plain-English advice, early risk assessments, and practical strategies to minimise conflict and cost. Through mediation and parenting coordination, she helps parents reduce disputes and protect children from ongoing conflict.She is also the founder of No Lawyers — an innovative online family law platform that helps people represent themselves and save thousands of dollars. Designed for individuals navigating separation without legal representation, No Lawyers makes it easier to negotiate property and parenting agreements and generate ready-to-lodge consent orders, all without the usual legal fees.A proud Brisbane local and the youngest of four, Tracey discovered her calling early — torn between becoming a barrister or a psychologist. After completing her Bachelor of Laws and Practical Legal Training, she was admitted as a lawyer of the Supreme Court of Queensland. She went on to complete the Bar Practice Course — a nine-week, full-time intensive program that forms the final step in qualifying as a barrister — and was admitted to the Queensland Bar soon after. In our conversation, Tracey reflects on the dedication and resilience required to reach that point and shares how her early years in practice shaped the compassionate, outcome-focused approach she brings to her clients today. Tracey also speaks candidly about the stresses of running a law firm, the importance of maintaining boundaries, and her concept of a “third space” — a transition between work and home to prevent emotional spillover.She explains how some legal professionals unknowingly bring courtroom energy home, affecting their families, and describes her coping strategies — such as not learning clients’ children’s names to maintain professional distance. Tracey highlights the importance of law firms properly preparing cases before briefing barristers, recalling numerous instances of receiving poorly drafted affidavits. Tracey founded No Lawyers in 2020. Although still developing, the site has already attracted over 25,000 visitors. It helps people who haven’t yet entered court proceedings to negotiate, create property pools, generate offers, and prepare consent orders. One of its most innovative tools is the “abuse tone meter”, which flags and prevents the exchange of abusive messages between parties.In our discussion, we also explored key issues in family law — from the “uplift” in Keenan & Keenan (now embedded in written law) to the domestic-violence-leave provisions that allow 10 days off work without requiring evidence. We discussed why small businesses shouldn’t have to absorb this cost and how government support is needed. Tracey believes that while the current system is deeply flawed, there are solutions. Drawing on international examples, she proposed amending the Marriage Act to follow South Africa’s “communal property” approach, where couples agree on asset ownership before marriage.We closed the episode with audience-submitted questions — including a case where a judge took three years to deliver a decision. Tracey also shared details of her upcoming book, due out in December – “Divorce is F*ed: A No-Bullshit SSupport the show

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• Episode 20 - Vanessa Allen - How Easy it is to Ruin a Mans Life

  Send us a textEpisode 20Guest – Vanessa AllenI sit down with mother of two, she’s also broken daughter who was robbed with a relationship with her father when she was taken to New Zealand when she was only three years old after she found out her father had cheated on her.She is also the founder of Men’s Emotions matter Movement advocating for men’s and fathers right the movement has plans for stages of development nationally going to male dominated industries sports schools helping empowering men and letting them know they are supported. Vanessa was Born in Perth but brought up in NZ and had a rough trot in growing up. Have been taken from her father out of spite because her mother wanted to get pay pack to her father for cheating has played a part in how she came about making her movement for men. Vanessa has done a lot of self-work to not resent her mother and advises other mother not to do the same spiteful acts as it only leaves the children with lifelong issues. Vanessa has recently got a petition over the line with parliament to reform on child support, the bias against men in the family lay system and perjury being used against false allegations which is now sitting with the attorney general.She is also currently working on the constitution and creating a ACN & ACNC for her charity. She talks about the ridiculous amount of money (180 billion) being designated to women but only 4.3 billion to men. Vanessa aims to dedicate her Charity to creating safe houses for men, including24 hour DV lines open for men.Email 28th august got an email from attorney general is currently reviewing the petition and will respond within 90 daysWe also pick apart the current DV bubble, and how EVERYTHING is a form of DV these days. Having banter with your partner is extinct as that can be used as DV. We address how shit is to be a man/father in this country as the reward vs risk outweighs any win for a male to happen. In this country as a man, you’ll lose your house, super and kids.We address how terrible the child support system is, and that mothers need to take responsibility finically when deciding to have a child and not to have to rely on a man if the relationships end.Vanessa mentions Karma and warns other mothers if you use your child as a pawn, you’ll have a child that will never Wholey love you as you denyied them a relationship with their father because you took something from them you didn’t need to.We conclude on how young men are taking their lives because videos of their mothers on OF getting jack hammered are being passed around on the phone and how some police officers are leaving the force because there sick of dealing with the constant false DV allegations yet still having to attend residences to serve a DVO .If you are a father struggling and would like to seek Counselling, Vannesa is a qualified counsellor offering sessions to any father that may be seeing help. Support the show

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• Episode 19 - Chris & Gem Ward - She had the Silver Bullet, our Truth was the Smoking Gun

  Send us a textEpisode 19Guest – Chris & Gem WardOn our upcoming episode of the Broken Fathers Podcast, I sit down with Chris, a 35-year-old father from Tasmania who works in the Federal Government. He'll be joined by his fiancée, Gem Ward, a nurse. Chris was raised by both his parents, who are still together today. He met his ex-partner in 2008 and, looking back, he recalls early signs of her questioning his every move. For example, when he helped her friend, who was too intoxicated to walk, into a cab, she accused Chris of cheating.Chris joined the Army in 2007 at 17, moving off barracks and in with his ex-partner shortly after meeting. In 2010, Chris was first deployed to Afghanistan, and then again in 2011. Chris recalls listening to other diggers on the phone during his deployments, hearing about the problems they were having back home due to the immense pressure of being away.In 2012, Chris applied for special forces. His psychological assessments identified extreme stubbornness as a character trait. Chris acknowledges that his perception of his ex enduring his deployments, led him to propose to her. In early 2015, Chris married his ex-partner. In 2016, Chris deployed to Iraq with a good friend who later took his own life. This was a wake-up call for Chris, leading to his discharge from the army. Not long after the suicide, there was an inquest into his death. In mid-2018, Chris's ex-partner became pregnant, and in February 2019, their beautiful son was born. He recalls holding his son for the first time as a life-changing moment.Not long after his then-wife returned to work, he noticed a change in her behaviour. His ex began working at an employment agency and began spending time with male work colleagues for coffee outside of work hours. Chris noticed she started getting her nails done, and then this work colleague began coming to their house to pick her up. When Chris questioned her about who he was, she simply replied, "he's just a friend." The next time he came over, his ex-brought him into the house and introduced him to their son. Soon after, she started going on late night walks and would seek to spend time socialising with these colleagues of an evening on the justification that Chris would be working one night a week as an Army reservist.Chris recounts the shocking experience of his property settlement, early in the separation, which (in hindsight) signalled his ex-partner’s intent. The Real Estate agent employed to sell the house was identified by his ex, and after signing him on, this agent refused to communicate with him, despite him being the one occupying the property. The agent would conduct inspections of the property without Chris’ knowledge, and when Chris identified missing items, he was left with no choice but to chain lock the door and sneak out of the bathroom window to leave his home.Gem opens up about her difficult upbringing in a broken home, including her mother's attempts to blackmail her against her father and making outrageous claims in court, such as stating he was a threat because he was a firefighter and knew how to light fires. She also shares her experience with a physically abusive ex and how one of Chris's most admirable traits when they met was his refusal to speak negatively about his ex. Gem's unwavering support for Chris through family court, however, inadvertently brought up her own childhood trauma.The episode delves into the family court's apparent disregard for Chris's care of Gem's children whom he cared for 12 nights per fortnight. Chris also shares a disturbing incident where his son split his head at childcare, and when he sought answers, he was shockingly informed he was no longer on the enroSupport the show

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• Episode 18 – Peter John - Parental Alienation is Coercive Control

  Send us a textEpisode 18Guest – Peter EllisTune in to today's Broken Fathers Podcast, where I sit down with Peter, a 36-year-old father from Brisbane who works in construction. Peter's story begins in Liverpool, UK, where he grew up in a hardworking council estate. He joined the British army in 2004 and left after the tragic loss of his mother in 2009.  In 2011, Peter moved to Sydney with his then-partner. Six weeks later, she became pregnant. Peter honestly shares that their relationship was more of a best friendship, and cracks soon began to show. After securing his permanent residency, work became scarce in Sydney, leading Peter to work in Canberra for six days a week, a three-hour drive away, only returning to Sydney on Sundays to see his family.While Peter worked tirelessly to provide, his partner decided they should downgrade to a smaller place. During his next day off, Peter helped move everything, cleaned the old house, and then asked for a spare set of keys for the new rental before driving back to Canberra. To his shock, she refused, revealing she had only used him to move everything and that their relationship was now over. That three-hour drive back to Canberra was the longest of his life.Living in a garage in Canberra and paying $300 a week in child support, Peter continued his weekly Sunday trips to Sydney to see his daughter, but the strain was taking its toll. In 2017, he met his now-wife and eventually introduced her to his daughter. Things were going well until his ex-partner discovered his new relationship. Plans for his daughter to be a flower girl were ruined by his ex, who would whisper in the background during his phone calls with their daughter, controlling their conversations. His ex even sent threatening text messages, stating he would never see his daughter again because he was getting married. Just as Peter was getting his life on track, his new partner became pregnant. Soon after, he broke his hand at work, leading to six months off and further impacting his ability to see his daughter. Struggling with these challenges, Peter reached a breaking point and attempted to take his own life in his garage. Thankfully, his partner and in-laws found him and rushed him to the hospital. This harrowing experience became a turning point, prompting Peter to seek help, reset, and re-educate himself as his hand healed.Peter talks about fighting the DVO battle driven by fabricated allegations and also shared a poignant memory of a Christmas when his then thirteen-year-old daughter visited for seven days. Despite his excitement and detailed plans, the connection between them had unfortunately faded, which he attributes to negative influences from his ex. In closing, Peter openly discusses his battle with depression and emphasizes the importance of learning from our mistakes. He believes the court system needs to expedite its processes. While he knows rebuilding the connection with his teenage daughter will take time, he is committed to being the best version of himself, ready and waiting for when she comes back into his life. For now, Peter is focused on raising his two young boys, aged five and three. He also shared that he almost turned back on his way to record the podcast but is glad he persevered to tell his story and move forward.Support the show

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