Authentic

Steve’s turning 50. I just turned turning 40.
This isn’t a “new decade, new me” episode. It’s more tender than that. 
For me, there’s been grief. Grieving parts of myself from the past. Versions of me that won’t be coming forward into this next chapter, and if I’m really honest, even pre-mourning what’s to come.
Sadness has been the emotion I’ve been honouring this week. I've just let it be there.
For Steve, it’s different. He’s more aware of time, how he’s spending it, how joyful his life actually feels and how he could inject more joy into whatever time he has left.
We’re both asking: What matters now? What needs to be let go? What needs to be chosen more intentionally?
This episode is a very honest reflection of where we’re at. No big answers. Just two people in transition, supporting each other, looking at time, identity, joy, and meaning a little more closely.
If you’re in a season of change, this will feel familiar.
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In this solo episode, I share a personal reflection on what it means to live as a sovereign woman. Not in defiance, not from ego, but in true, grounded devotion to your own rhythm, your own knowing, your own life.
This is for the woman who’s done hustling for worth.
Who’s tired of fragmenting herself to be liked, seen, or accepted.
Who’s exhausted from being led by urgency and is ready to return to a deeper truth.
If you’ve been feeling the pull to come home to yourself, to rest, to trust, to let go of who you think you should be, this episode is for you.
You are not late. You are right on time.
This is your invitation to take your seat at the centre of your own life.
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Stevie B and I talk about limbo land,  that murky space so many people end up in early on in dating. The situationship. Not quite together. Not quite nothing.
We talk about how any interaction between two people is a relationship, whether you label it or not. And how often one person is being clear about what they want, while the other is quietly hoping it’ll turn into something more.
We get into wishful thinking. Reading into moments. Convincing yourself that chemistry, closeness, or intimacy means commitment even when the words say otherwise.
I share honestly about our early days and how easy it is to override what’s being said because you want a different outcome.
This episode is about:
The cost of staying in the grey
Why clarity matters more than potential
How self-respect gets eroded in limbo
And why honest communication is the only way out
If you’ve ever found yourself waiting, hoping, or trying to make something become what it isn’t this one will land.

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In this episode I share a very human, very imperfect moment I had with a traffic control guy outside my house, one of those interactions where two egos meet, both think they’re right, and things go downhill fast.
He was frustrated. I was frustrated. And instead of choosing kindness, clarity, or calm, went high and mighty. Righteous. Chest out. Ego leading the charge.
And he did the same. Two strangers, both convinced we were justified, making each other’s day crap within 30 seconds.
That’s the work of living authentically, catching yourself when you’ve acted out of alignment, owning it, and doing something about it. And as Steve and I went for our walk, I knew exactly what I needed to do: apologise.
Not because I was “wrong.” Not because he “deserved it.” But because I know how I want to show up in this world and that moment wasn’t it.
This episode is a reminder that authenticity isn’t perfection, it’s repair. It’s self-awareness put into action. It’s choosing who you want to be, even after an ego slip.
Have a listen. It’s a good one.
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This episode is exactly what it sounds like. No love. No light. 
The other day, Steve and I were driving in the car airing our annoyances, the stuff that grinds our gears and halfway through we looked at each other and thought, why not share this? Because this is what relationships look like too.
It’s not always kissing and cuddling and smooching. It’s not always conscious communication and being hyper-aware. Sometimes it’s just getting things off your chest, laughing about it, and moving on.
This one’s light, funny and very human. If you’re in a relationship and thought you were doing it wrong because it isn’t all rosy all the time, you’re not, it's just life.
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