Peace and Parenting: How to Parent without Punishments
Michelle Kenney, M. Ed
Are you sick of parenting with the ideas of yelling and shame and looking for something that feels better, is different, but still has a sense of boundaries and...
Case Study: Why "Leave Me Alone" Really Means "Help Me"
Ever feel lost in how to respond when your child gets aggressive during tantrums? You're not alone, and it's definitely a tough spot to be in. This week, we're tackling the challenge of aggressive tantrums and how to navigate them with connection, not punishment. Afra joins me today, struggling when her 6-year-old gets physical with her during tantrums. Together, we'll explore why connection is key, even when it feels counterintuitive, and how to keep everyone safe during those intense moments.We dive into understanding the root of aggressive tantrums and why they happen, especially when kids say they want to be left alone. We also discuss how our own experiences can shape our reactions and explore healthier ways to respond. I’ll provide strategies for maintaining safety for both you and your child during these episodes. We'll also cover the importance of modeling self-regulation and the long-term benefits it has for our children.If you're ready to shift your perspective on tantrums and build a stronger connection with your child, this episode offers some compassionate guidance and practical tools. You’re doing great, and there is a better way!In This EpisodeHow to stay present through the tantrumPrioritizing safety for everyoneHow to model self-regulation calmlyDon’t expect immediate apologiesWhy you need to be consistent with your limits========Links Mentioned:🔗 Interested in group or 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call today.💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:YouTube: @peaceandparentinglaInstagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupJoin my Connected Parent Mastermind and become the parent you want to be: https://peaceandparentingla.com/connected-parent
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Transform Your Parenting by Ditching the Lectures
Are you tired of feeling like you're always lecturing your kids, but it just doesn't seem to make a difference? Do you find yourself caught in a cycle of reasoning and explaining, only to see the same behaviors repeat? I get it, because I’ve been there too. This week, I’m diving into why those well-intentioned lectures often fall flat and how they can even be perceived as punishment by our children. But don't worry, because I’ll also share some effective strategies for guiding our children towards better behavior, fostering genuine connection and self-correction without relying on lectures.If you're ready to transform your approach to discipline and cultivate a more peaceful and connected relationship with your children, this episode is a must-listen. Trust me, you've got this, and I'm here to support you every step of the way.In This EpisodeRecognizing why lectures may feel like punishmentAvoiding shaming your childWhy we should let kids express themselves fullyFocus on problem-solving togetherHolding space for your child’s feelingsSee mistakes as opportunities to learn========🔗 Interested in group or 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call today.💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:YouTube: @peaceandparentinglaInstagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupJoin my Connected Parent Mastermind and become the parent you want to be: https://peaceandparentingla.com/connected-parent
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Case Study: How to End Middle-of-the-Night Wake-Ups
Sleep deprivation is real, and when your child won’t sleep without you, it can feel overwhelming. If you're exhausted from middle-of-the-night wake-ups, desperate for just a few hours of uninterrupted rest, and wondering if you’ll ever get your evenings back, today’s episode is for you.In this heartfelt coaching session, I talk with Polina, a loving mother navigating the difficult challenge of nighttime separation. We explore why young children struggle with independent sleep, how connection impacts bedtime battles, and why setting limits with empathy is the key to long-term success.If you’ve ever taken your child’s sleep struggles personally or wondered if you’re "doing it wrong," I promise you’re not alone. Together, we discuss a practical plan to help Polina’s daughter feel safe and secure at night while also giving Polina the rest she desperately needs.You don’t have to choose between connection and sleep. Listen in to discover how to meet your child’s emotional needs while also honoring your own.In This EpisodeWhy kids resist sleeping aloneHow to handle nighttime wake-ups with empathySetting loving limits without creating fearWhy tantrums can actually improve sleepThe role of connection in bedtime successHow to create a supportive nighttime routine========🔗 Help your child move through their emotions with meaningful gameplay using this FREE download🔗 Interested in group or 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call today.💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:YouTube: @peaceandparentinglaInstagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupJoin my Connected Parent Mastermind and become the parent you want to be: https://peaceandparentingla.com/connected-parent
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Are helicopter and bulldozer parenting mistakenly being labeled as gentle parenting by some? Today I uncover the myths around connective parenting and share the truth about what it really means to foster deep connections with our children.In this episode, I tackle a common misconception about gentle or connective parenting, that it's all about speaking in a soft voice and gently reasoning with your kids. But as you’ll discover, it’s so much more. Connective parenting isn't about permissive attitudes or shielding kids from life's challenges. Rather, it's about equipping them to navigate obstacles with empathy and resilience.Join me as I unpack what connective parenting really involves: prioritizing relationships, setting firm yet empathetic limits, and allowing the natural consequences of life to teach valuable lessons.In This EpisodeMisconceptions of gentle and connective parentingUsing empathy, not lectures or punishmentsLimits and consequences as teaching toolsHelicopter parenting versus resilience-buildingThe power of play and special time========🔗 Interested in group or 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call today.💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:YouTube: @peaceandparentinglaInstagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupJoin my Connected Parent Mastermind and become the parent you want to be: https://peaceandparentingla.com/connected-parent
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Case Study: Why Punishment Makes Sibling Aggression Worse
How can parents navigate the chaos when sibling rivalry turns into a hair-pulling standoff? What if sibling rivalry wasn't just a battle between your kids but an opportunity to deepen your connection with them? In today’s episode, we dive into the dynamics of sibling relationships and discuss how shifting your perspective can bring peace to your parenting journey.I’m joined by Shannon, a mother of two from Canada, who shares her experience with sibling rivalry. We unravel the complexities of these interactions and explore how our own responses, often shaped by past influences, can either quell or perpetuate conflict. Listen in as we discuss the pivotal role of empathy in navigating these challenging moments and how prioritizing connection over correction can foster a harmonious environment.In This EpisodeApproaching sibling fights with neutralityViewing aggression as a sign of fearConnection as a tool for impulse controlModeling conflict resolution for partnersUnpacking personal triggers in parentingCheck out my FREE Sibling Rivalry Protocol, I guide you through 12 steps to help transform anger and frustration from quarreling into a calm, constructive resolution without yelling or punishments.🔗 Interested in group or 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call today.💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:YouTube: @peaceandparentinglaInstagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupJoin my Connected Parent Mastermind and become the parent you want to be: https://peaceandparentingla.com/connected-parent
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About Peace and Parenting: How to Parent without Punishments
Are you sick of parenting with the ideas of yelling and shame and looking for something that feels better, is different, but still has a sense of boundaries and limits?Welcome to Peace and Parenting! Michelle is a former teacher, counselor, certified parenting coach, mom of two teens, recovering yeller, and perfectionist who parents without using punishments altogether. And guess what? It works! On this show, you’ll learn the how behind having kids who are entirely UNPUNISHED but who are also successful, kind, loving, and know how to follow directions. Twice a week, Michelle shares her insights and expertise on connective parenting through solo episodes and interviews with experts and other struggling parents. If you have exhausted all other options and don't know what to do next, this could be the parenting strategy you've been searching for.
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