7 Quick Breakthroughs to Help You Say No (Without The Guilt)
Are you constantly overcommitting, people-pleasing, or feeling drained — but don’t know how to stop? These 7 quick breakthrough moments will help you finally learn how to say “no” without the guilt … so you can protect your energy, set better boundaries, and reclaim your time.This isn’t just advice - it’s a compilation of real, raw moments from past episodes that hit deep and shift your mindset fast.🎯 If you’ve ever: ✔️ Said “yes” when you really meant “no” ✔️ Felt guilty for putting yourself first ✔️ Struggled to hold boundaries with work, family, or friends…this video is for you.Watch this and feel empowered to start saying no — with confidence, clarity, and zero guilt.TIME STAMPS & FEATURED EPISODES:(00:00) Lesson 1 - Annalie Howling(02:44) Lesson 2- Najwa Zebian(05:27) Lesson 3 - Nimi Mehta(08:58) Lesson 4 - Erika De Pellegrin(10:38) Lesson 5 - Kelsey Wells(11:41) Lesson 6 - Davina Rankin(13:21) Lesson 7 - Erika De PellegrinLONDON DAIRYThank you to London Dairy, the sponsors of today's episode. This is your reminder to carve out a moment just for you today! Join me and my London Dairy ice cream tub on the couch for that self-care mmmm moment.WHO AM I?My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG!RESOURCES▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge▶︎ Goal Setting System E-BookLET’S BE FRIENDS📸 Instagram📱TiktokMY FAVOURITE STUFF💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% offSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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5 Lessons To Unlock Your FULL Potential (Must KNOW!)
Feeling stuck — but not sure why?Sometimes it’s not the big fears or loud doubts holding us back… it’s the hidden limits we don’t even realize are shaping our choices, confidence, and mindset.In this special moment-compilation episode, we revisit powerful guest insights that reveal 5 key lessons to help you break free from self-imposed limitations and unlock your next level — personally and professionally.✨ Whether you’re striving for more in life, work, or self-growth, these moments will give you the shift in perspective you didn’t know you needed.You’ll walk away with:✔️ A deeper awareness of what’s actually holding you back✔️ A reminder that you are capable of more✔️ Practical takeaways to step into your full potential🎧 Tap play — your breakthrough might just be in one of these lessons.TIME STAMPS(00:00) Lesson 1 - Chantale Marie - full episode here(06:12) Lesson 2- Georgie Stevenson - full episode here(09:51) Lesson 3 - Rochelle Fox - full episode here(12:54) Lesson 4 - Nimi Mehta - full episode here (17:16) Lesson 5 - Najwa Zebian - full episode hereLONDON DAIRYThank you to London Dairy, the sponsors of today's episode. This is your reminder to carve out a moment just for you today! Join me and my London Dairy ice cream tub on the couch for that self-care mmmm moment.WHO AM I?My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG!RESOURCES▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge▶︎ Goal Setting System E-BookLET’S BE FRIENDS📸 Instagram📱TiktokMY FAVOURITE STUFF💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% offSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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How to Stop Losing Yourself in Relationships | Haifa Beseisso
If you’ve ever found yourself shrinking to fit into love, questioning if you’re too much, or feeling lost in your relationships — this episode with Haifa Beseisso will hit home. ❤️🔥We unpack how real self love isn’t just about bubble baths or affirmations — it’s about choosing yourself even when it’s uncomfortable. Haifa shares her powerful story of unlearning cultural conditioning, redefining self-worth, and how that inner work transformed her relationships.👉 In this episode:Why we lose ourselves in love — and how to stopWhat self love really looks like (and the biggest misconceptions)Dating with clarity, standards, and self-awarenessBeing “too much,” being “picky,” and being fully youHow to open up without abandoning yourselfIf you’ve been stuck in relationship patterns that drain you or are afraid to take up space in love — this conversation will help you reconnect with your truth.CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST👉 InstagramTIME STAMPS(01:08) Introduction(05:49) Why did you remove your scarf?(10:53) How has self love shifted for you over the years?(13:58) How important is the work for when you’re dating?(26:02) Timelines & Dating(27:48) How do you stay authentic when opening up to others?LONDON DAIRYThank you to London Dairy, the sponsors of today's episode. This is your reminder to carve out a moment just for you today! Join me and my London Dairy ice cream tub on the couch for that self-care mmmm moment.WHO AM I?My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome! 📸 Connect with me on IG!RESOURCES▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge▶︎ Goal Setting System E-BookLET’S BE FRIENDS📸 Instagram📱TiktokMY FAVOURITE STUFF💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% offSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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When You Feel the Call to Do More, Here's How to Listen with Layla Kardan
Have you ever felt a quiet (or not-so-quiet) nudge that you’re meant for something more ... but don’t know what to do about it?In this empowering episode, I sit down with award-winning artist, entrepreneur, and mum Layla Kardan, who shares her powerful story of breaking cultural expectations, walking away from the “safe” path, and choosing a life aligned with her true calling.We talk about:✨ How to recognize and trust the call for more✨ What it really takes to pivot, even when you’re scared✨ The truth about manifesting vs. doing the work✨ Redefining success, motherhood, and building a life that fits youThis episode is for anyone feeling unfulfilled, stuck, or afraid to make a change — but knows deep down that more is meant for them.TIMESTAMPS(01:34) Introduction(08:18) How did culture impact what you were expected to do?(13:16) How did you actually make a pivot to your greater calling?(20:39) How she funded her dream(22:03) How do you define success?(23:48) Creating a business for the life you want(28:39) Has Self Care changed since motherhood?(33:14) Does manifesting create your dream life?(37:44) You won’t change if you don’t do thisConnect with our guest on InstagramNUTRAORGANICSToday's episode is brought to you by my current daily go-to brand for all things wellness, supplements, vitamins and whole foods. I am currently LOVING the collagen powder and bone broth range.✨ GET 15% OFF USING CODE: THEBALANCETHEORYwww.nutraorganics.com.auLONDON DAIRYThank you to London Dairy, the sponsors of today's episode. This is your reminder to carve out a moment just for you today! Join me and my London Dairy ice cream tub on the couch for that self-care mmmm moment.WHO AM I?My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome! 📸 Connect with me on IG!RESOURCES▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge▶︎ Goal Setting System E-BookLET’S BE FRIENDS📸 Instagram📱TiktokMY FAVOURITE STUFF💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% offSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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5 Easy Systems That Bring Instant Order to Your Life
Feel like you're constantly juggling a million things but still falling behind? You're not alone — and you're not disorganised, you're just missing systems. In this episode, Erika shares 5 easy-to-implement systems that will bring instant order to your life — no complicated planners, fancy tech, or extreme routines required.These aren't hacks — they're foundational frameworks that take the mental load off your plate and help you wake up with clarity, purpose, and peace of mind. Whether you're overwhelmed by daily chaos, buried under to-do lists, or just craving more structure — this episode will show you exactly where to start.🎯 Perfect for:✔️ A-type personalities✔️ Busy professionals✔️ Anyone craving more control and less chaosThis is the episode that will kick your organisation into gear!TIME STAMPS(00:00) Introduction(01:15) System 1(03:35) System 2(06:30) System 3(09:44) System 4(12:07) System 5(13:47) BONUS TIPNUTRAORGANICSToday's episode is brought to you by my current daily go-to brand for all things wellness, supplements, vitamins and whole foods. I am currently LOVING the collagen powder and bone broth range.✨ GET 15% OFF USING CODE: THEBALANCETHEORYwww.nutraorganics.com.auIN THIS EPISODE✨ Goal Setting System E-Book✨ Episode with Dr Saliha Afridi on Productivity✨ NUTRA ORGANICS GET 15% OFF USING CODE: THEBALANCETHEORY👉🏽 My FREE Work Life Balance WorkshopWHO AM I?My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG!RESOURCES▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge▶︎ Goal Setting System E-BookLET’S BE FRIENDS📸 Instagram📱TiktokMY FAVOURITE STUFF💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trialSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Struggling to find balance in your life and achieve your goals? Join Erika De Pellegrin on The Balance Theory, a self development podcast packed with actionable strategies to build confidence, crush your goals, unlock the life you want and transform your mindset in the process. As a lawyer who’s conquered burnout, she shares powerful tips on self-growth, productivity, and unlocking your true potential—without the guilt, overwhelm & stress that comes from trying to juggle different areas of life. The Balance Theory is a powerful approach to reframing life balance, so you can build the life you are dreaming of without compromising what matters most. Join us weekly for practical and personal tools and insights to help find your unique balance, to be inspired by guests like Kayla Itsines, Kelsey Wells, Steph Claire Smith, Laura Henshaw, KIC Founders, Sarah Davidson, Chontel Duncan, Georgie Stevenson and more.Tune in to break through barriers and start living the life you deserve!Spotify Playlists:Mindset PlaylistSelf Awareness Playlist Health + Fitness PlaylistHead on over and connect with us on our TikTok, YouTube & Instagram!Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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