The Surprising Habits of Emotionally Resilient (unstressable) People /w Military Psychologist Steven Stein
What if the stories we tell about stress and adversity are holding us back? What if the most resilient people are not the strongest, but the most adaptable?
This episode is an invitation to rethink resilience. Dr. Steven Stein shares how the hardiness mindset shifts our relationship with challenge. A concept born in military research but relevant to artists, entrepreneurs, and everyday heroes.
It’s not about stoicism or sheer willpower; it’s about seeing meaning in difficulty, embracing uncertainty, and committing to a journey bigger than the immediate obstacle. T
You’ll discover how small shifts in thinking can ripple into profound changes in how you live, work, and connect.
Actionable takeaways:
Cultivate challenge as a lens for growth, not a reason to retreat.
Practice focusing your efforts where you have influence, not where you feel powerless.
Let your commitments guide you beyond temporary discomfort.
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00:00 Introduction to Hardiness Concept
01:57 Hardiness: The Three Cs
08:11 Positive Thinking vs Reframing
09:20 Hardiness in Acute vs Chronic Stress
12:03 Writing habits and hardiness
15:40 Does Hardiness Grow over time
15:44 Hardiness: The Three Cs
21:15 Weird Memories
22:32 Kindest Thing
24:30 Moments of Wonder
26:02 Send Off
26:15 Wrap up
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Loud Thoughts: Depression, Anxiety, ADHD and the Default Mode Network [Archive]
We revisit a classic episode to understand the circuitry of the self as we uncover the neurological pathways behind the Ego and explain what the Default Mode Network is.
Topics covered:
What the hell is the Default Mode Network
The Brain Pathways of Anxiety and Depression
The imbalances causing ADHD
How modern medicines interact with the brain
The effect of meditation and psilocybin on the DMN
Starting with Hans Berger's pioneering work with EEG this episode covers the history of Default Mode Network discovery, its role in ADHD symptoms, and the impact of Default Mode Network on depression.
We also explore the connection between DMN and anxiety disorders and discuss the benefits of therapeutic interventions targeting the Default Mode Network.
Learn how modern neuroscience uses DMN insights to enhance psychiatric treatments and the overall understanding of mental health.
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Further Reading
Default Mode Network on Wikipedia
Where is the Default mode network
Paper: The Brains Default Mode Network
Paper: Schizophrenia and DMN
Paper: Autism and DMN
Theory of Mind
Related Episodes
How to Stop Catastrophizing
Science of Psilocybin Therapy w/ Gabriel Charalambides
Psilocybin Therapy
John Hopkins Research
Legal treatment in the USA - Odyssey
Meditation Retreats
Paper: Meditation effect on the DMN
Book: Why Buddism is True (Evolutionary Psychology of Meditation)
10 day Vipassana (free) - Dhamma.org
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction to the Default Mode Network
02:04 Hans Berger and history of EEG and brain mapping
04:49 Discovery of the Default mode network
06:14 What is the default mode network?
06:33 #1 Self-referential thought
07:00 #2 Theory of mind
07:43 #3 Autobiographical memory
08:12 #4 Envisioning future scenarios
08:32 #5 Mind wandering and daydreaming
09:16 #6 Creativity
10:21 Depression and the brain
11:28 Anti Depressant medication and the DMN
12:41 Anxiety
14:08 Anti Anxiety medication and Benzodiazepines
15:27 ADHD
16:16 ADHD medication and stimulants
18:03 How Meditation Regulates the DMN
20:34 Psilocybin impact on the DMN
22:41 Wrap up
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How to Create Perspective and Get Out of Your Own Way
Ever tried surfing and ended up just swallowing seawater? That’s what life feels like when you’re glued to the problem and forget to look up.
In this episode, I share how learning to surf taught me more about perspective than any self-help book ever could. We’ll break down why your brain loves to panic, how focusing on the wrong thing can make you fall (literally and metaphorically), and the simple hacks that help you zoom out when you’re stuck in the weeds.
Think of it as a manual for getting out of your own way—using surfboards, driving lessons, and a dash of Bob Marley.
Takeaways:
Use physical cues or mantras to trigger perspective shifts.
Schedule regular “look up” moments—weekly reviews, coaching, or just a walk.
Reframe panic as a signal to check your focus, not a reason to double down.
Ready to stop face-planting into your own problems? Hit play and start steering toward the horizon.
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction
00:32 The problem learning to surf
02:54 Don't look up
04:25 Surfing is like driving
05:39 Surfing and driving is just like any sport
05:52 Life analogy
06:21 Running a business analogy
07:49 Get some perspective
09:25 Outro
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The Creative Act: Rick Rubin's 12 Rules for Creativity and Being Yourself
Ever feel like creativity is reserved for “real” artists? Rick Rubin’s 12 rules say otherwise. They’re for anyone who wants to live and create with more honesty.
Rubin, the legendary producer who can’t play an instrument, built his career by helping others strip away what’s fake and tune into what’s real. His rules aren’t about being clever; they’re about noticing, subtracting, and getting comfortable with discomfort.
I’ll share how Rubin’s approach helped me stop overthinking and start making things that actually felt like me. Think of creativity as tuning a radio: your job isn’t to invent the music, it’s to find the right frequency.
Notice inspiration everywhere—train yourself to be amazed by the ordinary.
Make a mess first, judge later—let ideas breathe before you kill them.
Change your environment to change your mind—move your desk, move your thoughts.
Tune in to discover how to make your work (and life) feel more like you.
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Creativity
00:41 Who is Rick Rubin?
01:49 Lessons from Rick Rubin's Book - The Creative Act
02:53 Lesson 1: You Are a Receiver, Not a Creator
05:02 Lesson 2: Inspiration is Everywhere
07:32 Lesson 3: Vary Your Inputs
09:55 Lesson 4: Make Something Without Judging It
11:01 Lesson 5: Discomfort is a Creative Compass
13:30 Lesson 6: The Work Reflects the State of the Maker
15:25 Lesson 7: Reduce Until Only the Truth Remains
18:30 Lesson 8: The Audience Comes Last
19:29 Lesson 9: Nothing is Ever Finished
22:23 Lesson 10: Be a Beginner Always
24:04 Lesson 11: Create Your Environment with Intention
25:49 Lesson 12: The Artist's Job is to Be Open
28:13 Summary of 12 Lessons
28:53 Final Thoughts on Creativity
30:57 Supplementary Stories and Recommendations
31:28 Wrapping Up and Challenge for the Week
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Lessons Across Time: How to teach yourself, remember more and grow wiser
The best lessons don't come from others, but from yourself.
As Socrates said, "The unexamined life is not worth living". This episode invites you to rethink how you engage with your past and future selves as a continuous dialogue of growth.
Journaling, sending future emails, and revisiting your old favourites aren’t just nostalgia trips — they’re time machines for your brain.
I share my own cringe-worthy stories from my own teenage journal flipped my self-doubt into confidence. Science backs it up: writing boosts memory and emotional clarity, and connecting with your future self helps you make smarter choices.
The best way to preserve the memories of your favourite people
How to capture your feelings and goals for the future
Easy habits that teach you the most important lessons in life
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Chapter:
00:00 Introduction: Conversations Across Time
01:24 #1 - The Power of Journaling
02:18 Personal Story: Sailing Adventures
04:21 #2 - Sending Messages to Your Future Self
07:18 #3 - The Impact of Revisiting Old Favorites
10:19 #4 - Recording Conversations with Loved Ones
12:46 #5 - The Concept of Life Reviews
12:56 Experimenting with 12-Week Sprints
15:41 #6 - Revisiting Your Own Work
18:31 #7 - Mentoring Yourself Across Time
20:00 - Bonus - Building a Life Library
21:34 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
22:09 Engage with the Community
22:25 Preview of Next Week's Episode
22:35 Closing Remarks
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About Growth Mindset Psychology: The Science of Self-Improvement
There are a lot of opinions on how to master your mind, but then there’s PSYCHOLOGY.
We’re all stuck with the brain we’re born with, but we aren’t stuck with how we use it.
Learn science-backed answers to make the most of your mind and your life.
CURIOUS?
Growth Mindset Psychology is the "self-help sceptic" podcast for the curious.
Whether you want to improve performance, navigate setbacks, or know who you are.
We find answers to the true science of self-improvement.
So put down the astrology chart and start working with your mind, instead of against it.
With over 8 million downloads and 60,000 monthly listeners, you’re invited to join.
PROCESS
Instead of telling you what to think, we discuss how thinking works.
Armed with a stack of science journals, textbooks and a boatload of curiosity, we uncover the mechanics of the mind.
Why? >>> Success is personal!
You might want to make the most of your neurodiverse strengths, start a business, or simply find more reasons to smile.
Hone your ability for independent thinking and growth with mental models to pursue your definition of success.
HOST
I’m Sam Webster Harris, a lifelong learner with ADHD, a raging curiosity, and an obsession with finding answers to hard questions.
After launching several businesses, travelling the world and nearly dying a few times I concluded that science and Psychology are where it’s at.
What actually makes people happy? What’s the best way to treat a brain? How can I get more done?
Studying the answers we find that changing behaviours requires building mindsets, mental models, and a healthy relationship with failure.
I run the show to help listeners enjoy nutritious content that feeds their minds (and I needed a legitimate excuse to cover for my reading addiction).
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Past series:
— Psychology vs Stoicism
— Time Management for busy mortals
— Independence and knowing yourself
— Cognitive biases and rational thinking
— Psychology of connection
— Carol Dweck and the Multiverse of Mindsets
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