Who Even Are We?

We’re digging up our very first Facebook and Instagram posts and honestly, some of them should have stayed buried. We talk about the trends that come and go at lightning speed, the things that have somehow stuck with us for years, and why maybe we all need to stop chasing the next big thing. Plus, 90s R&B, pasta guilt, Sizzler nostalgia and a debate over who is actually the bigger germaphobe.
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From haircuts and skincare to weight, clothes and spending money on ourselves, we unpack what “letting yourself go” really means in your 40s. Is it actually about how we look or is it about self worth, priorities and finally giving ourselves permission to invest a little time, money and energy back into ourselves?
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One of us is sending her girls to Schoolies and trying not to panic. The other has already started bribing hers with trips so they never go.
In this episode, we talk about our own Schoolies experiences, how much trust comes into parenting teenagers, the horror stories that make us nervous, and the uncomfortable reality that eventually you have to let your kids step into the next phase of growing up.
Would you let your kids go to Schoolies?
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In this episode, we have a very personal conversation about relationships, red flags and the things you sometimes only recognise years later.
Katie shares the story of a relationship she was in at 21 the jealousy, control, gaslighting and ultimately physical violence, and why, for years, she never allowed herself to call it domestic violence. We talk about why it can be so hard to leave, the shame that can come with looking back, and how much of it comes down to self worth.
It’s a confronting conversation, but an important one and a reminder of just how powerful sharing our stories can be.
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Why does desire seem to disappear in your 40s? In this episode we unpack hormones, mental load, exhaustion, body confidence, feeling “touched out” and why sex can start to feel like another item on the to do list. Plus, things take a very unexpected turn into the sex lives of ducks, bush turkeys and the octopus “penis arm.”
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