Here Comes the Drama with Christa Innis

• 47: The MOH Who Quit by Text, Tough Truths, and Vendor Confessions with Bethy Abdissa

  Not all wedding horror stories start at the altar… some start with a “best friend” and a suspicious text message. This week, Christa sits down (again!) with wedding planner Bethy Abdissa for a raw, honest, and slightly unhinged look at what really happens behind the scenes… and yes, they dive headfirst into another jaw-dropping story that had them both saying: I’m sorry… WHAT?  From timeline disasters to emotional design moments (sticky note love letters on cocktail napkins?!) Bethy gives the inside scoop on what couples get right, and where things spiral fast. And when Christa reads a listener’s submission about a maid of honor who drops out via text? Let’s just say… the tea is piping hot. JOIN ME IN GREECE OCTOBER 2026! My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live! Get the book! Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments MOH Drops It Like A Hot Potato – A maid of honor quits via text and the bride’s friendship spiral gets put under the microscope. Vendor Confessions From Hell – Real stories of photographers missing key moments and caterers showing up painfully late. Stress vs Preparedness – Why the brides who feel a little stressed are usually the most on top of their planning. Overstepping vs Support – When “helpful” bridesmaids cross the line and create more tension than peace. Emotional Design Done Right – From recreated love notes on napkins to guest experiences that hit straight in the feels. The 45-Wedding Summer – Bethy’s busiest season yet and the chaos that comes with it. Why You NEED a Coordinator – The forgotten hero who keeps your wedding from imploding in real time. Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode “That should be a T-shirt: DJs are my best friends and my worst enemies.” - Christa Innis “If they’re a little too calm, I start getting nervous.” - Christa Innis “People always need something to pick at. It’s emotional support cheese.” - Christa Innis “You never notice delays… until you’re cold and starving at your table.” - Christa Innis “Those extra set of hands come very handy.” - Christa Innis “If the caterer is two hours late, you just start praying.” - Bethy Abdissa “No stop means I can get you to 125K real quick.” - Bethy Abdissa “Flexibility matters, but boundaries matter more.” - Bethy Abdissa “I avoided that DJ like the plague.” - Bethy Abdissa “You’d rather lose a vendor than lose your coordinator.” - Bethy Abdissa About Bethy Bethy Abdissa is a dynamic wedding planner, content creator, and entrepreneur with a passion for storytelling and cultural inclusivity. Originally from Ethiopia, she moved to the United States 15 years ago and began her professional journey in finance and accounting. After realizing the corporate world wasn’t her calling, Bethy took a bold leap in 2022 to pursue her true passion: event planning. With over three years of experience as a wedding planner and a lifelong love for party planning, Bethy now specializes in coordinating weddings across the U.S., particularly in the DC, Maryland, Virginia, and Minneapolis areas. She’s also diving into the world of content creation—sharing makeup tips, hair styling, wedding insights, and self-development reflections through her TikTok channel, @Bethy_Creates. Long term, Bethy is working toward becoming a therapist, bringing her full-circle journey of creativity, empathy, and purpose to life. Follow Bethy Tiktok *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation. Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It! Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it. Submit your story today: Story Submission Form Follow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share! A Team Dklutr Production

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• 46: Rules of Engagement, Hot Takes, and A Sister Rivalry with Lucette Brown

  Ever been caught in sibling competition over life milestones? In this episode, Christa Innis and Lucette Brown dive into one listener’s wild tale of wedding conflicts. They cover topics such as handling toxic relationships, sibling rivalry, and balancing personal happiness with family expectations. The episode also includes unpopular opinions on wedding traditions, a humorous take on wedding speeches gone wrong, and the pressures of planning events. The episode ends with a rapid-fire Q&A about event planning and a heartfelt discussion on maintaining supportive family relationships. Join Christa and Lucette Brown as they unpack jealousy, toxicity, and the importance of support in family dynamics—plus, discover how to survive wedding chaos without losing your sanity. JOIN ME IN GREECE OCTOBER 2026! My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live! Get the book! Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments Engagement Jealousy – Listener feels overlooked as her sister gets proposed to first despite being “less established.” Diamond Drama – Comparison of a real diamond versus an Etsy ring sparks tension and hurt feelings. Dress Appointment Feuds – Fat-phobic comments create conflict between sisters during bridesmaid dress shopping. Wedding Route Differences – One sister chooses Vegas elopement while the other plans a traditional wedding, escalating rivalry. Maid of Honor Dispute – Listener isn’t chosen as sister’s maid of honor, highlighting boundary and favoritism issues. Family Dynamics & Toxicity – Pent-up anger and competition reveal deeper familial struggles. Lesson in Support – Christa and Lucette discuss the importance of healthy boundaries and emotional support. Wedding Speech Nightmares – Confessions of inappropriate, cringe-worthy wedding speeches illustrate common wedding missteps. Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode “Everyone has different boxes to check, don't compare your journey to theirs.” - Lucette Brown “Your feelings are always valid, but toxicity isn’t excusable just because it’s family.”  - Lucette Brown “Let them be, sometimes you can’t force people into your bubble.” - Lucette Brown “If you’re unhappy with someone, either hash it out or step back.” - Lucette Brown “Just because someone’s your sister doesn’t mean they get a free pass to hurt you.” - Lucette Brown “If they can’t handle celebrating each other, just be guests at the wedding.” - Christa Innis “Pent-up anger doesn’t mix well with a bridal party; it's a recipe for disaster.” - Christa Innis “It’s not about the diamond or the dress, it's about who makes you feel supported.” - Christa Innis “Don’t hold resentment on your wedding day. Life’s too short for that.” - Christa Innis “Sometimes, cutting ties temporarily is the healthiest choice for both sides.” - Christa Innis “Not inviting toxic family members is self-care, not drama.” - Christa Innis About Lucette Lucette Brown is a marketing professional with over 15 years of experience in the industry, focusing on digital and interactive channels. She has worked with senior staff members to achieve record sales, company growth, and strategic objectives. Lucette has extensive experience in wedding and event planning, which she translates into creative content through her TikTok and Instagram account. She also has training from Second City and iO Theater in Chicago, where she developed her storytelling skills. Currently based in Australia, Lucette continues to work in marketing and create content about the wedding and events industry. Follow Lucette Instagram Tiktok *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation. Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It! Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it. Submit your story today: Story Submission Form Follow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share! A Team Dklutr Production

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• 45: Thanksgiving Special: Gratitude, Growth & Empowering Moments

  What have weddings taught me after 45 episodes? More than I ever expected. From runaway brides to mothers-in-law who weaponize place cards, this past year has been filled with stories that cracked me open, lifted me up, and changed the way I see relationships entirely. In today’s special Thanksgiving episode, I’m bringing you the most heartfelt, jaw-dropping, empowering moments from the show — the ones that made me pause, tear up, rethink, and laugh out loud. These are the stories that reminded me why I started HCTD in the first place. Whether it’s choosing yourself, challenging tradition, or surviving the wildly unexpected, these moments will stick with you the way they stuck with me. JOIN ME IN GREECE OCTOBER 2026! My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live! Get the book! Check out the full featured episodes here: Education Hot Seats, Reality Checks & a Red Flag Romance — with Colleen Borgert Hired Bridesmaids, Fake Weddings, and a Parking Lot Party with Jen Glantz Baby Bumps, Brawls & Breaking the System with Payal Desai Sister Betrayal, Blood on the Dress & Wedding Regrets with My Best Friend, Ivette Bracken Queer Fashion, Wedding Etiquette and a SIL Showdown with Kati Kons Dress Codes, Divided Families & Day-Of Disasters With Lisa Pontius Career Pivots, Friendship Red Flags, and a Trashed Groomsuite — with Rebecca Rogers The Mental Load, Modern Motherhood & Drama That Sent Someone Packing — with Paige Connell Relationship Red Flags, Family Dynamics, and a Shocking ICU Revelation with Kate Gray, LMFT Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments The Real-Life Rom-Com – A wedding party meet-cute turns into a love story that proves fate sometimes shows up exactly when it should. The “I Don’t Want to Do This” Bride – Minutes before walking down the aisle, a bride confesses she hates the groom… and the solution is unlike anything you’ve heard. Internalized Misogyny in Marriage – A candid conversation about gender roles, cooking, and the pressure women still feel to “perform” domestic duties. The Dress Fitting Disaster – My own wedding dress nightmare involving blood, chaos, and an unexpectedly emotional hug. Fighting for Nontraditional Fashion – How one stylist is helping brides and grooms redefine what wedding attire should look like. Listener Story: When “Next of Kin” Turns Toxic – A partner is shut out of the ICU by her boyfriend’s mother after a tragic accident — and the fallout is heartbreaking. Listener Story: MIL Wedding Takeover – A mother-in-law forces half the guest list to be cut… for her tennis buddies. Yes, really. Listener Story: The Pocket Money Getaway – When a bride jokes about needing “escape cash,” the truth behind the humor becomes painfully real. Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode "If you’re wearing white to a wedding and you’re not the bride, you KNOW what you’re doing." - Christa "Cutting someone from your guest list isn’t personal—it’s practical. It’s your day, not a family reunion." - Christa "Traditions are great, but they shouldn’t hold you hostage. Your wedding should feel like YOU." - Christa "Weddings are about celebrating love, not throwing a party to impress people you barely talk to." - Ivette "If you have to choose between keeping the peace and keeping your boundaries—choose YOU." - Ivette *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation. Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It! Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it. Submit your story today: Story Submission Form Follow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share! A Team Dklutr Production

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• 44: MILs, Feuds & Furry Guests — From the Vault with My MOH Ivette

  When "I do" turns into "I don't know what to do." Wild. From unexpected guest list debates to a mother-in-law meltdown that left everyone speechless, Me and my best friend Ivette dive into the wild world of wedding chaos. This episode is packed with hot takes, emotional moments, and wedding horror stories you won’t believe! Should couples feel obligated to invite family? Is banning kids a crime? And why are so many in-laws acting like it’s THEIR big day? Listen in as I and my BFF and MOH Ivette spill the tea, share our own experiences, and remind you—it’s YOUR wedding, your rules. JOIN ME IN GREECE OCTOBER 2026! My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live! Get the book! Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments Me and Ivette’s friendship journey—how we met and became inseparable Wedding guest list debates: Obligation vs. personal preference Mother-in-law horror stories: When family feuds take center stage Unpopular wedding opinions: Kids at weddings, guests wearing white, and more The pressure of tradition: When “that’s how it’s always been done” doesn’t work for you Wedding planning vs. Marriage preparation—what really matters? Bridesmaids & boundaries: What’s fair to expect from your wedding party? The most shocking wedding confessions submitted by listeners Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode "If you’re wearing white to a wedding and you’re not the bride, you KNOW what you’re doing." - Christa "Cutting someone from your guest list isn’t personal—it’s practical. It’s your day, not a family reunion." - Christa "Traditions are great, but they shouldn’t hold you hostage. Your wedding should feel like YOU." - Christa "Weddings are about celebrating love, not throwing a party to impress people you barely talk to." - Ivette "If you have to choose between keeping the peace and keeping your boundaries—choose YOU." - Ivette About Ivette Ivette is not just a special guest—she’s one of my closest friends and the matron of honor from my own wedding. As a supportive friend who has been part of my journey long before Here Comes the Drama was even an idea, Ivette brings warmth, humor, and thoughtful insights to the conversation. With a deep appreciation for meaningful relationships and personal growth, she shares her take on wedding traditions, family dynamics, and setting boundaries in the chaos of wedding planning. Whether reflecting on her own experiences or reacting to jaw-dropping wedding drama, Ivette keeps it real with heart and honesty. *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation. Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It! Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it. Submit your story today: Story Submission Form Follow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share! A Team Dklutr Production

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• 43: Toxic Friends, Controlling Moms & Vendor Nightmares: Behind the Wedding Curtain

  Ever heard of a maid of honor who made the entire wedding about herself? This episode features one of the wildest maid of honor stories ever submitted — from crashing bridal appointments to sabotaging the shower and stirring up chaos on the big day. Her behavior had everyone on edge. We’re also diving into stories about controlling parents putting financial pressure on young couples, vendors who ghost or show up late, and wedding speeches so cringe you’ll feel secondhand embarrassment. Get ready for jaw-dropping confessions, real talk, and a few laughs to help you survive the wedding madness without losing your mind. JOIN ME IN GREECE OCTOBER 2026! My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live! Get the book! Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments Rogue Maid of Honor – From stealing attention at bridal appointments to sabotaging the shower, Megan’s jealousy wreaks havoc on the bride’s big moments. Controlling Parents – Navigating financial stress and overbearing advice from family during engagement and wedding planning. Vendor Nightmares – Photographers, makeup artists, and florists causing stress with miscommunications or mistakes. Wedding Speech Fails – Cringeworthy, inappropriate, and backhanded speeches that leave guests shocked. Bachelorette Party Chaos – Territorial bridesmaids, random guests, and drama that escalates tensions. Red Flags & Green Flags – Spotting warning signs in friends, family, and vendors to protect your day. Friendship Breakups – Weddings bring out everyone’s real personality — red flags just show up in heels. Therapy & Support Systems – Leaning on your partner and friends to endure drama while keeping wedding planning joyful. Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode “Some people just can’t let you shine, and it’s okay to snip them out of your life.” — Christa Innis “Red flags at weddings are everywhere, from sketchy vendors to toxic bridesmaids.” — Christa Innis “Chaos loves company, but misery loves company even more.” — Christa Innis “You don’t give a microphone to someone who obviously hates you.” — Christa Innis “True colors always come out during big life moments, and that’s a gift in disguise.” — Christa Innis *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation. Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It! Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it. Submit your story today: Story Submission Form Follow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share! A Team Dklutr Production

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