263: She Got Her PhD in Purity Culture with Ashley Hudson
Purity culture shaped a lot of us… but what happens when those old messages start showing up in your marriage? In this episode, therapist Ashley Hudson breaks down how shame, fear, and performance pressure sneak into intimacy and what healing can actually look like. If you’ve ever wondered why sex still feels complicated even though you’re married, this one’s going to hit home.
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My Counselor Online (Christian sex therapy): You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link
Ashley’s book
Pearl In Process Website
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262: Can One Weekend Transform Your Marriage?
Tune in as we share our experience from the Weekend to Remember marriage retreat! We answer the questions you sent in on Instagram like:
- what actually happens at a retreat?
- how much does it cost?,
- what if your spouse doesn't want to go?
- how were our marriages impacted from this weekend away?
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Resources:
Weekend To Remember: Use our code KINGOM for $100 off
Family Life website
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261: How Often Are Couples Having Sex?
In this episode, we’re tackling one of the biggest questions couples ask: how often should we be having sex? We’ll break down what research actually says about sexual frequency, why comparison steals joy, and how to find a healthy rhythm that fits your marriage and season of life. This conversation will help you let go of “normal” and focus instead on connection, communication, and grace.
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Episodes:
Opposites: Wants
Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire
Scheduled vs Spontaneous Sex
Sex & Stress episode
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260: Surrendering Sexuality with Dr. Juli Slattery
In this episode, Dr. Juli Slattery joins Alana and Tiera to talk about what it really means to surrender our sexuality to God. They unpack why so many Christians struggle to trust Him with their desires, how intimacy points to something deeper, and what surrender looks like in everyday life.
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Episodes:
Previous episode with Juli
Resources:
Authentic Intimacy website
Java With Juli Podcast
Surrendered Sexuality book
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259: How Stress Impacts Your Sex Life
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Can stress really kill your sex life? Yep- but the flip side might surprise you. We’re breaking down the science of stress, the power of intimacy, and God’s design for connection in hard seasons.
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Episodes:
Sleep & Sex Episode
Our Products:
30 Prayer For Your Spouse bundle
Resources:
Awaken Love
Men are from Mars Women are from Venus
Garden City
Ruthless Elimination of Hurry
Habits of the Household
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You’ve found the Kingdom Sexuality podcast!
We are Alana, Kyle, and Tiera -- three friends who are taking Christian married couples on a journey of transforming your sex life. We tackle the questions the church forgot to answer - like:
• Why did no one prepare us for this part of marriage?
• How can we keep passion alive years later?
• What does God think about oral sex, orgasm, and that would kind of intimacy you both want?
With interviews, “sex-timonies,” listener Q+As, and real talk from our own marriages, we’re here to help you grow a thriving, fulfilling, and God-honoring sex life.
Because yes - Christians can talk about sex too.
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