Spiritual Shit

2025 wasn’t a punishment year — it was a preparation year.In this episode of Spiritual Shit, I break down why so many people felt cracked open, exhausted, and stripped of old identities in 2025 — and why that breakdown was necessary for what comes next.This year forced a shedding: people-pleasing, fear of being judged, silencing yourself to belong, and waiting for permission to speak. Not because you were doing it wrong — but because the version of you that hides can’t carry the light you’re meant to bring forward.We talk about:Why fear of being seen is the biggest block to intuitionHow your external voice and inner voice are directly connectedWhy intuition doesn’t get louder when you think more — but when you express moreHow losing approval rewires self-trustWhy the people who struggled most in 2025 are often the ones meant to lead, create, speak, and illuminate nextThis episode is for anyone who feels like they’ve stopped caring what others think — not because they’re numb, but because something truer is finally emerging.Work with me, your host,  here: Thelovelyalea.comOrder MEANINGFUL MANIFESTATION thelovelyalea.com/bookGet spiritual 1-on-1 Coaching thelovelyalea.com/servicesFollow me on Instagram instagram.com/thelovelyalea ( Remember I will never DM you for readings - watch out for Scammers ! )

🎙️ Are you tired of attracting narcissists and emotional vampires who drain your energy and distort your sense of self? Use and abuse your kindness and leave you feeling drained and rejected? This podcast pulls back the curtain on the “Chosen Myth” — the false belief that being endlessly empathetic, forgiving, or spiritually evolved somehow will get you the love you desire, but instead makes you a magnet for broken people. Spoiler: it’s not divine selection; it’s conditioning.Hosted by Alea Lovely, spiritual teacher and author of Meaningful Manifestation, this series breaks down the energetic and psychological patterns that keep you locked in these cycles. This episode unpacks how narcissists and adjacent types sense and exploit emotional gaps — and how you can close them by reclaiming your boundaries, your intuition, and your power.Raw. Insightful. Liberating. This isn’t about blaming or shaming — it’s about waking up. It’s time to stop being the chosen one for chaos and start being the chooser of peace.Find this workshop ( November 8th + 15th 1:00pm CST Replay available ) at thelovelyalea.com/workshopWork with me, your host,  here: Thelovelyalea.comOrder MEANINGFUL MANIFESTATION thelovelyalea.com/bookGet spiritual 1-on-1 Coaching thelovelyalea.com/servicesBecome a Love Society Member to get workshops every week , extra content, and community hellolovesociety.comFollow me on Instagram instagram.com/thelovelyalea ( Remember I will never DM you for readings - watch out for Scammers ! )

What if life isn’t a cosmic classroom full of tests, but a multidimensional game of vibration, resonance, and self-mastery? In this episode of Spiritual Shit we flip the old “Earth school” narrative on its head and explore a radical new paradigm: you’re not here to pass exams or prove your worth — you’re here to play with frequency. We’ll break down how the universe mirrors your energetic broadcast, why recurring “life lessons” are really vibrational echoes, and how to stop living like you’re being graded. If you’ve ever felt stuck in endless karmic cycles, wondering why the same struggles repeat, this conversation reframes the entire journey into one of conscious choice and freedom.Together we’ll unpack the myth of worthiness tests, the Hermetic Principle of Vibration, and how to re-author your personal frequency so you can level up — or level out — by design. Expect practical tools like story audits, somatic release, boundary setting, and frequency casting to shift your reality without waiting for “graduation day.” We’ll also explore relationships as resonance fields, energy dynamics that drain creatives and empaths, and how to step out of the old matrix rules to create a life driven by self-sovereignty. Perfect for seekers, spiritual entrepreneurs, and anyone ready to stop proving and start playing the game of life on their own terms.Work with me, your host,  here: Thelovelyalea.comOrder MEANINGFUL MANIFESTATION thelovelyalea.com/bookGet spiritual 1-on-1 Coaching thelovelyalea.com/servicesBecome a Love Society Member to get workshops every week , extra content, and community hellolovesociety.comFollow me on Instagram instagram.com/thelovelyalea ( Remember I will never DM you for readings - watch out for Scammers ! )

In this episode, Intuition vs. Proof: Why We Struggle to Trust Ourselves, we explore why intuition can’t—and shouldn’t—be forced into the realm of proof. Intuition isn’t a genie that delivers evidence on demand; it’s a language of resonance, guidance, and embodied truth. When we pressure it to “perform” under the rules of science and logic, it goes quiet.We’ll uncover the deeper roots of this struggle: how colonization dismissed indigenous and earth-based ways of knowing, how patriarchy suppressed embodied and intuitive wisdom, and how the modern obsession with data and evidence narrowed our definition of truth. Along the way, you’ll learn why so many of us second-guess ourselves, outsource decisions, and feel shame when we can’t “prove” our inner voice.This conversation is a call to shift from proof-based living to trust-based living—where intuition guides and evidence follows in its own time. By reclaiming intuition as your birthright, you can step into greater freedom, authenticity, and alignment, and remember what your soul has known all along: proof always follows intuition, but it never leads.This lesson was first shared inside Love Society, my private spiritual community where we explore intuition, healing, and soul growth together every month. If you’ve been curious about joining, now’s the perfect time—you can get half off your first month with the code HALFOFF at hellolovesociety.com. And if you’re ready to go even deeper, I’ve just launched a brand-new coaching program all about developing your intuition, designed to help you move from doubt to clarity and truly hear your inner voice. You can learn more and apply at thelovelyalea.com/coaching.

In this soul-deep episode, we explore the difference between the pain event and the pain story—the narrative we carry long after the moment has passed. Through spiritual insight and reflective prompts, you’ll learn how to identify the looping beliefs keeping you stuck, uncover the hidden emotional payoffs, and begin the process of releasing the story so your energy can flow freely again. This is an invitation to step out of survival mode and reclaim your wholeness, one truth at a time. Please share this episode with anyone you believe it can help. Work with me, your host,  here: Thelovelyalea.comOrder MEANINGFUL MANIFESTATION thelovelyalea.com/bookGet spiritual 1-on-1 Coaching thelovelyalea.com/servicesBecome a Love Society Member to get workshops every week , extra content, and community hellolovesociety.comFollow me on Instagram instagram.com/thelovelyalea ( Remember I will never DM you for readings - watch out for Scammers ! )#pain #wounding #healing #quantumjumping #surrender #spirituality