The Intentional Parents Podcast

What are we passing on to those who come after us? In this episode, we explore the powerful and often overlooked role of grandparents, who are called not to be spectators but bridge-builders between generations. At the heart of the conversation is the Hebrew phrase L’dor V’dor (לְדוֹר וָדוֹר), meaning “from generation to generation,” a beautiful picture of faith, wisdom, and legacy being intentionally passed down.

We discuss the tension many grandparents feel between stepping back too much and overstepping their role, and how healthy involvement can be one of the greatest gifts they offer their families. Investing in children and grandchildren often requires sacrifice, flexibility, and generosity, but it also creates opportunities to leave a lasting spiritual legacy. Grandparents have a unique opportunity to encourage their adult children while helping shape the faith and character of future generations.

Three Key Roles of Grandparents:
Rememberers: Passing down stories of God’s faithfulness and the lessons learned through both successes and failures.
Blessers: Speaking life, truth, encouragement, and identity into the lives of children and grandchildren.
Embodiers: Modeling a lifelong walk with Jesus through the way they live, love, and persevere.

Ultimately, grandparents have the opportunity to become living proof of the gospel, not through perfection, but through lives that demonstrate that faith can endure hardship, mistakes can be redeemed, relationships can be restored, and following God is worth it. This episode invites listeners to consider the kind of legacy they are building today and what it means to faithfully pass on something of lasting value from generation to generation.

Scripture Mentioned: Luke 6:38, Acts 20:35, Psalm 78:1-8, Hebrews 11, 2 Peter 3:1, Deuteronomy 4:9-10, Psalm 105:5, Psalm 103:2, Psalm 92:12-15 + Romans 12:2

Books Mentioned: It's Not About Me by Max Lucado + The Blessing by John Trent

Previous Episodes Mentioned: Your Children Will Become Who You Tell Them You See Them Becoming: The Blessing Part 1 (Spotify + Apple Podcasts) + Your Children Will Become Who You Tell Them You See Them Becoming: The Blessing Part 2 (Spotify + Apple Podcasts)

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In this episode, we explore the history of purity culture, how it emerged as a response to the sexual revolution of the 1960s and 70s, and the lasting impact it has had on a generation of Christians now raising their own kids. While many parents and church leaders were motivated by a genuine desire to protect young people and uphold biblical values, purity culture often reduced purity to virginity and communicated messages rooted in fear, shame, and performance rather than grace.

We discuss how these teachings affected both men and women, the pressure and responsibility often placed on women, and the ways purity culture shaped how many people view sex, relationships, and their own worth. We also talk about the challenges it created for those who carried shame from their past, as well as those who struggled to embrace sexuality as a good gift from God after years of hearing that desire itself was dangerous.

Most importantly, this conversation is about hope. The gospel reminds us that our identity is not defined by our failures and that God's grace is greater than any mistake we have made. We discuss how the church can move toward a healthier, more biblical understanding of sexuality, one that honors God's design while making room for grace, healing, and honest conversations.

We close with three practical takeaways:

Give your kids a theology of the body, not just a list of rules. Teach them that their bodies are good, desire is healthy, attraction is normal, and intimacy is sacred.
Give your kids a view of grace that is bigger than their failures. Help them understand that they are not defined by their worst decisions and are never beyond God's forgiveness and redemption.
Give them wisdom instead of formulas. Equip them with discernment and the ability to navigate life's complexities rather than relying on simple rules or guarantees.

Scripture Mentioned: Colossians 3:1-17, Matthew 5:8 + Mark 9:24

Previous Episode Mentioned: 20 Years From Now: What You'll Wish You Focused On As a Parent (w/ Sally Lemos, MS, LPC) (YouTube, Spotify + Apple Podcasts)

Intentional Motherhood Retreat: October 15-17, 2026 in Portland, OR

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In this episode, we’re joined by Laurie Krieg, author, speaker, podcast host, and Director of Parent Programs & Discipleship at The Center for Faith, Sexuality, and Gender. Laurie shares parts of her personal story, including life in a mixed-orientation marriage and the journey of confronting childhood trauma that resurfaced later in life. We also discuss her latest book and the experiences that have shaped her passion for helping the Church develop a gospel-centered vision for sexuality.

Together, we explore the biblical picture of marriage through Ephesians 5:32, discussing how covenantal marriage reflects the profound mystery of Christ’s relationship with His Church. Laurie shares how these truths have influenced the way she disciples her own children and approaches conversations about sexuality, identity, and marriage in the home.

We also dive into practical guidance for parents who want to help their kids navigate difficult questions. Laurie explains why it’s important to fill the “narrative void” before culture does, how to respond when children ask hard questions, and why phrases like “I don’t know” can be both honest and helpful. Along the way, she offers a powerful reminder that “we will transmit what we don’t transform,” encouraging parents to address their own stories and wounds so they can parent from a place of health rather than fear. This conversation is full of wisdom, encouragement, and practical examples for parents seeking to lead their families with both truth and grace.

Laurie Krieg: Website, Podcast, Instagram + Raising Wise Kids in a Sexually Broken World

Scripture Mentioned: Ephesians 5:32 + Matthew 12:34

Books Mentioned: Raising Wise Kids in a Sexually Broken World by Laurie Krieg, An Impossible Marriage by Laurie Krieg + You and Me Forever by Francis and Lisa Chan

Intentional Motherhood Retreat: October 15-17, 2026 in Portland, OR

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Disclaimer: The information shared in this episode is based on our personal experiences and is not intended to serve as medical, psychological, or professional advice.
Parenting is about stewarding the children God has given us and helping them flourish according to how He uniquely wired them. In this episode, we discuss ADHD in kids, what it is, how it shows up, and why understanding it matters. ADHD is a neurodevelopmental condition that affects attention, impulse control, emotional regulation, memory, and executive functioning. It’s not a character flaw or intelligence issue, but a different way the brain processes information and experiences the world.
We explore how ADHD can look beyond hyperactivity, including forgetfulness, disorganization, emotional overwhelm, rejection sensitivity, and difficulty following through on tasks. We also discuss how ADHD often presents differently in girls, showing up as anxiety, perfectionism, people-pleasing, and daydreaming. Drawing from Colossians 3:21, we talk about the importance of understanding our children rather than simply correcting behaviors, helping them feel supported instead of discouraged.
We also address the hidden cost of missing ADHD. While many parents worry about labeling their child, failing to recognize what’s really going on can leave children believing they are lazy, behind, not smart enough, or simply “not good enough.” When we understand and name their struggles, we can help replace shame with understanding and equip them with the support they need to thrive.
Five Tools for Parents:
Educate: Learn about ADHD yourself, help your child understand how their brain works, and educate the important people in their life.
Advocate: Speak up for the support and accommodations your child needs, especially in environments where they may be vulnerable.
Build: Create scaffolding and systems that help your child succeed, giving them a foundation on which they can learn and grow.
Coach: Move beyond correction by teaching practical strategies and guiding your child toward what works, saying, “Not this way, but this way.”
Celebrate: Intentionally identify and affirm your child’s strengths, gifts, and progress so they learn to see themselves through a lens of capability rather than deficiency.

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Definition of ADHD: ADHD is a neurodevelopmental condition that affects attention regulation, impulse control, emotional regulation, motivation, memory, and executive functioning. It’s not an intelligence issue or a character flaw — it’s a brain-based difference in how someone processes and manages information, tasks, emotions, and stimulation. Many kids and adults with ADHD are highly creative, intuitive, energetic, and capable, but they often struggle in systems that weren’t built for how their brain works.

Scripture Mentioned: Colossians 3:21

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In this episode, we had the honor and privilege of sitting down with Chris McKenna, founder of Protect Young Eyes, father of four, and author of 5 Habits of the Tech-Ready Family. Chris shares his personal story of early exposure to pornography and how that experience eventually led him to dedicate his life to helping families navigate the realities of raising children in a digital world.

Together, we discuss why today's technology landscape presents challenges previous generations never faced, including the accessibility, affordability, and anonymity that place harmful content just a few clicks away. Chris explains what it means to be a "tech-ready" family, not by bubble-wrapping kids from technology, but by developing habits that help families wisely engage with it. We also talk about the hidden dangers within platforms like YouTube, Roblox and Snapchat, as well as the growing concerns surrounding artificial intelligence and its impact on childhood development.

Throughout the conversation, Chris offers practical guidance for parents who want to move beyond fear and toward wisdom. From setting boundaries and evaluating risk to staying deeply involved in their children's digital lives, he reminds us that the strongest protection is found in authentic relationships. Chris also challenges churches to take digital discipleship seriously and encourages parents to lead with both grace and truth. Most importantly, he leaves listeners with hope that small, intentional changes can make a lasting difference in their families.

Chris McKenna: Protect Young Eyes, Instagram, Facebook + 5 Habits of the Tech-Ready Family

Scripture Mentioned: Philippians 4:8 + John 1:14

Books Mentioned: 5 Habits of the Tech-Ready Family by Chris McKenna + The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt

Intentional Motherhood Retreat: October 15-17, 2026 in Portland, OR

Intentional Fatherhood Retreat: November 12-14, 2026 in Austin, TX

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