EP 46: Fear, Ego and Career Transitions: The Mindset for Starting Over with Liam Davies
Episode SummaryIn this episode, I sit down with my husband, Liam — a former Navy Clearance Diver turned construction project leader — to talk about fear, ego, adaptability, and the art of starting over. From maritime counter-terrorism to managing multimillion-dollar infrastructure builds, Liam shares the mindset lessons he’s carried from an elite military unit into everyday life and leadership.We unpack what “knowledge dispels fear” really means, how to drop the ego when you go from expert to beginner again, and why planning (not panic) is the secret to successful career transitions. Plus, a surprise visit mid-recording from a giant goanna that perfectly proves our point about staying calm under pressure!Whether you’re navigating a career change or learning to embrace discomfort in growth, this conversation will leave you reflecting, laughing, and maybe even rethinking how you handle fear and change.Key TakeawaysKnowledge dispels fear: The more you understand, the more confident you become — whether that’s diving, jumping from planes, or starting a new career.Drop the ego: Every transition means being the new person again. Ask questions, stay humble, and learn fast.Plan before you leap: Big change works best when you build a bridge, not a cliff jump — start studying or networking before you quit.Sustainable performance matters: From ice baths to sleep, recovery practices are key — even for elite teams.It’s about the people: Whether under the sea or on a worksite, the best experiences come down to the team beside you.Memorable Moment“When you transition careers, no one expects anything of you — and that’s the best time to learn. There’s more opportunity at the bottom of the mountain than the top.”Timestamps00:00 — What a Navy Clearance Diver actually does02:30 — The mindset of adaptability and ownership04:00 — “Knowledge dispels fear”: facing the unknown05:00 — Dropping the ego and learning again09:00 — Recognising complacency and finding growth11:30 — From burnout to sustainable performance15:00 — Managing five generations at work22:00 — Adapting leadership styles across ages24:00 — How to plan a successful career change27:00 — Using your network to find your next opportunity29:00 — The hardest parts of starting over33:00 — Sacrifice, relocation, and proving yourself37:00 — Why people matter more than place40:00 — Final wisdom: Enjoy the process