As we wrap the Year of the Snake, this episode feels like the perfect reset.
I’m joined by Hillary McVeigh—former lawyer turned Human Design teacher and intuitive guide—for a grounded conversation about what happens when your life looks “successful” on paper, but your body is screaming no.
Hillary shares her journey from burnout, panic attacks, and a workplace that slowly drained her life force… to rebuilding a career that feels aligned, sustainable, and deeply fulfilling. We unpack the difference between clarity and certainty, why burnout isn’t always about workload, and how Human Design can act as a practical framework for self-awareness, decision making, and working in a way that actually suits your energy.
If you’re at a turning point—career-wise or just internally—this one will land.
Why so many of us choose careers at 17/18 with zero intuition in the room
The hidden signs of misalignment: dread, anxiety, loss of joy, and “the colour leaving your life”
Burnout as a misalignment signal, not a personal failure
The role of conditioning: people-pleasing, overachieving, proving yourself, and external validation
How Hillary began “deconditioning” (awareness, somatic work, inner child + shadow work)
Why rest can feel terrifying—and why it’s often the turning point
The mindset shift: rest as a success strategy, not a weakness
The difference between your intuition and your inner critic (this is gold)
A simple body-based check-in: expansion vs constriction
Why you don’t need more certainty—you need more self-trust
A practical Human Design overview: the energy types and how they influence work and direction
The closing message for anyone in a transition: let life mirror what you’re ready to see
“Burnout isn’t always from overwork. It’s often from working out of alignment.”
“Your intuition won’t attack your insecurities. It’s just a clean ‘no’—not available.”
“Clarity isn’t certainty. If you wait for certainty, you’ll wait forever.”
“Your subconscious only cares if you’re safe—your life force wants you thriving.”
If you’re ending the year feeling tired, foggy, flat, or like you’ve outgrown the way you’ve been working—consider this your permission slip to stop forcing it.
Repost note (Year of the Snake context):
This is a beautiful listen for anyone ready to shed old identities, stop proving, and move into a new season with more self-trust, nervous system regulation, and alignment.
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