Come Together with Erin + Abe Lichy

52 episodes

Is It Supposed To Be This Hard? Adult Friendships and How Things Change As We Get Older
18/05/2026 | 34 mins.
As you get older and "life starts life-ing," you might notice your friendships starting to change. And that's what we dive into this week: times when we've grown in a different direction than our friends, how we started getting more selective about our inner circle, and how we've let go of the guilt that can come with changing friendships in adulthood.
We also talk about clingy friends Abe had when he was dating Erin (which of course, Erin warned him about!), differences between guy and girl friendships, and the friends we rely on to watch our kids without worrying about whether they'll keep them alive.
And finding couple friends that both of us actually like? We get into that too.
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The '1–10 Rule' and Other Things That Have Helped Us Keep Things Spicy
11/05/2026 | 32 mins.
Everyone wants to know how to keep things spicy... and pretending there one at all might actually be the problem.
This week we get into what's worked for us — the '1-10 Rule' that that has genuinely saved us from so many stupid fights, why a little distance and independent interests can do more for attraction than any date night, and the story of how Erin told Abe to quit corporate law. (Spoiler: He did. We don't regret it.)
We also talk prenups (which is less dramatic than it sounds), non-negotiable date nights when you have small kids, and what to actually do with the two hours after bedtime.
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Looksmaxxing, Bone Smashing, and Other Things We Wish We Didn't Know About
04/05/2026 | 38 mins.
We thought Levi was doing face yoga. Actually? He was looks-maxing. And turns out he's not the only one.
We found out there's a whole subculture here — soft maxing, hard maxing, bone smashing, clip farms, and a guy named Clavicular who ODed on a live stream. We had to look up half of these words in real time. Abe knew more than he should... like usual.
We get into the bigger generational conversation, disagree about some of it, and somehow end up at dumpling hunting and no-phone clubs. Classic us.
Soft maxing is fine by the way. It's just face yoga. The rest of it, well, we'll let you decide.

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If Your Marriage Can Survive Reality TV, It Can Survive Anything
20/04/2026 | 52 mins.
We have loooooots to catch up on. Being married in public is its own thing entirely, and this week we're getting into all of it.
We go there on the Summer House drama and the Taylor Frankie Paul situation, and we have thoughts. A lot of them. What happens when you do something very high school while the whole internet is watching, why people feel entitled to your everything once you're a public person, and where the line actually is between what audiences are owed and what's still yours to keep.
If your marriage can survive reality TV, it can probably survive anything.

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There's Nothing Hotter Than a Dad Who Takes the Toddler w/ Lindsey Metselaar
13/04/2026 | 1h 4 mins.
Lindsey Metselaar has been in our lives since before she had a following, a husband, or a sleep schedule. Now she has all three, plus a 2.5-month-old. We reminisce about our extremely unproductive work era together, and then somehow spend the next hour covering postpartum bodies, C-sections, cosmetic work, the filler rabbit hole, sobriety, and why today's weed is genuinely not the same conversation it was fifteen years ago.
Abe makes his case against the filler rabbit hole. Lindsay makes her case for a "beauty broker." We cover the NICU, postpartum resentment, and why watching your husband handle a toddler and a newborn at the same time is, apparently, very attractive.

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About Come Together with Erin + Abe Lichy

Time to cut the cameras and turn ON the mic — Erin and Abe Lichy are pulling back the curtain on the wild ride of marriage, sex, business, and everything in between in Come Together.As a powerhouse couple who’ve built empires together—Erin as a serial entrepreneur, interior designer, and Real Housewives of New York star, and Abe as a sharp legal mind and founder of The Advisory—they’re the couple you want at your dinner party, the ones you want to grab a drink with, and the first ones you’ll turn to for advice.Each week, the duo will dive into the real, raw, and often unspoken realities of blending parenting, business, and love — all while keeping it real. With their signature honesty, wit, and easygoing vibe, they’re baring it all. Whether they’re talking business wins, how to keep the spark alive after nearly 15 years, or just the chaos of everyday life, no topic is off-limits. Tune in every Monday for the real secret behind what it really takes to Come Together.

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