Dont Make Me Call Her

Ever said "Yes" to something while your soul was screaming "No"? We’ve all been there—that sinking feeling in your stomach the moment the words leave your mouth, followed by a week of self-loathing.
In this episode of Don't Make Me Call Her, we’re getting comfortable with the most powerful two-letter word in the language. You’d think that with age and experience, saying no would become a reflex, but even I found myself backed into a corner recently. I’m sharing a personal story of a time I wasn't quick enough to react, the "self-hating" moment that followed, and how we can all avoid that trap moving forward.
What we’re unpacking this week:
The "Yes" Trap: Why we feel pressured to agree to situations we actually hate.

The Human Element: Admitting that even the "Ginja Ninja Master" gets caught off guard sometimes.

The Toolkit: Practical, useful excuses and strategies to help you decline with grace (or just firm boundaries).

Ginja Combat Zone: As your non-professional, ill-equipped agony aunt, I’m diving into a listener dilemma involving a very complicated threesome relationship... I’m saying no more!

Stop living for others and start protecting your energy. Tune in to find out how to master the art of the decline.
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New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa (or a glass of water) and let’s get into it.
If you enjoyed my chat please click ‘Follow’ on Spotify, Apple Podcast, YouTube Music and leave me a five-star review.  Lotza luv.  Thank You. 
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Hosts:  Grace Lam and Jason Capobianco
Produced by Herrrooo Production
Music by Lindsay Lai  www.lindsaylai.com

Episode 2: The Art of the Ginja Ninja—Handling Anger & The Combat Zone
How do you handle the heat when the temper flares? In this episode of Don't Make Me Call Her, the "Ginja Ninja Master" herself sits down with her most mature student, Jason, to dissect the rawest of human emotions: Anger.
We’re diving deep into the generational shift of rage—comparing the "Boomer-style" upbringing to the more empathetic, gentle parenting approach used today. Are we finally understanding our children better, or just finding new ways to vent?
In this episode, we discuss:
Battle Styles: Jason and I compare notes on how we each express (and suppress) our bad tempers.

The Evolution of Conflict: The "Old Grace Lam" used to fight and scream, but those days are over. I’m sharing the new, refined way I handle conflict now that I’m "too old" for the drama.

Management & Diversion: Practical ways to diffuse the emotion before it explodes.

A Challenge to F1 Royalty: Sir Lewis Hamilton—I’m your biggest fan, but let’s be real: I don’t think you could handle my G-ninja temper.

Stick around for this week’s Ginja Combat Zone, where we tackle a brand-new dilemma that is as fun as it is relatable. Tune in to get our perspective on staying cool when things get heated!
Follow us for more and don’t forget to subscribe!
New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa (or a glass of water) and let’s get into it.
If you enjoyed my chat please click ‘Follow’ on Spotify, Apple Podcast, YouTube Music and leave me a five-star review.  Lotza luv.  Thank You. 
Follow & talk to me on Instagram: @dontmakemecallher  @gracelamstyle  @jasoncapobiancophotography
TikTok:  @dontmakemecallher  @gracelamstyle
Hosts:  Grace Lam and Jason Capobianco
Produced by Herrrooo Production
Music by Lindsay Lai  www.lindsaylai.com

After an 11-month 'sabbatical' spent wrestling with the endless life admin of moving from Perth to Melbourne, Grace and Jason are finally back behind the mic.
In this season opener, Grace addresses the baffling rumour that she should become a life coach. (Honestly, are you lot quite alright? WhoTF wants my Chinatown advice?) Apparently, the world is crying out for some "G-Ninja x Bruce Lee" discipline, so class is officially in session.
In this episode:
The Melbourne Reset: WTF did we disappear to for nearly a year?
Liquid Boundaries: How to follow Bruce Lee’s advice to "be water, my friend" without letting people take the piss too much.
The Ginja Combat Zone: Grace dives into the first round of listener dilemmas. Real drama, no sugar-coating, and a healthy dose of "No-BS Chinatown” tactics.
New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa (or a glass of water) and let’s get into it.
If you enjoyed my chat please click ‘Follow’ on Spotify, Apple Podcast, YouTube Music and leave me a five-star review.  Lotza luv.  Thank You. 
Follow & talk to me on Instagram: @dontmakemecallher  @gracelamstyle  @jasoncapobiancophotography
TikTok:  @dontmakemecallher  @gracelamstyle
Hosts:  Grace Lam and Jason Capobianco
Produced by Herrrooo Production
Music by Lindsay Lai  www.lindsaylai.com

Herrooo my beloved (and possibly imaginary) listeners! It's time for another episode of 'Don't Make Me Call Her,' where we delve into the truly important things in life: Pet Peeves. This week, Jason and I are taking you on a whirlwind tour of our most memorable experiences living in Hong Kong and Australia.
Picture this: phone-addicted pedestrians moving at a snail pace, nail clipping on public transport (seriously WTF! Gross!), and the mega annoying symphony of cheap cars revving in the middle of the night. Can someone please explain to me the purpose of a useless leaf blower. WHY?
We’re also jet-setting to Hong Kong for 'What's For Lunch?' where I’m interrogating a friend about their midday meal. Expect cultural insights, culinary chaos, and maybe a few recipe ideas.
So be prepared for a rant-filled episode with the Capos. We’ll be back in two weeks, and don’t forget to leave your topic suggestions in the comments or take our poll below – your pain could be our gain! Cheers my wicked peeps!
If you enjoyed my chat please click 'Follow' on Spotify, Apple Podcast, Youtube Music and to leave me a five-star review. Lotza luv! Thank You!
INSTAGRAM:
@dontmakemecallher
@gracelamstyle
@jasoncapobiancophotography
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CREDITS:
Host: Grace Lam
Produced by Herrrooo Production
Music by Lindsay Lai
www.lindsaylai.com
[email protected]

Birthday brain fog is real peeps! This week on 'Don't Make Me Call Her,' I'm turning 52 and struggling to form coherent sentences thanks to perimenopause. Plus, I'm unleashing my annual rant about the 'Happy Birthday' song – you know, the one that makes me want to hide under a table? (Yes, I gagged a waitress once. It's a long story.)
I'm also celebrating Anthony Hamilton, the ultimate F1 dad - love Papa Ham! Also diving into the glorious fun of East vs. West parenting styles. And of course, 'What's For Lunch?' is back, dialing up a local friend for some midday meal inspiration. Tune in for a candid episode filled with personal 'stupid' stories, parenting insights, and a whole lot of laughter!
If you enjoyed my chat please click 'Follow' on Spotify, Apple Podcast, Youtube Music and to leave me a five-star review. Lotza luv! Thank You!
INSTAGRAM:
@dontmakemecallher
@gracelamstyle
@jasoncapobiancophotography
Follow me and talk to me on Instagram.
CREDITS:
Host: Grace Lam
Produced by Herrrooo Production
Music by Lindsay Lai
www.lindsaylai.com
[email protected]