Dont Make Me Call Her

This week on Don't Make Me Call Her, Grace and Jason tackle ageism — or as Grace calls it, the moment society decides you've expired like a carton of milk, except milk doesn't come with 20 years of experience and better judgment. Somewhere between "overqualified" and "not a culture fit," an entire generation quietly got filed under "no longer relevant," and nobody even had the decency to say it to their face.
The two get into it — the very specific flavour of ageism that hits women a decade before it hits men, and why "seasoned" apparently means something different depending on gender. Quite frankly Gen X are saying 'We are too old for this shit! Period!'
New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it.
If you are a small business owner with less than 4500 Instagram followers, DM me to get a small business shout-out!
For ‘What Would Grace Do?’ segment, don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice.
Hosts:  Grace Lam and Jason Capobianco
Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats  @gracelamstyle  @jasoncapobiancophotography
TikTok:  @dontmakemecallher  @gracelamstyle
DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You. 
Produced by Herrrooo Production
Music by Lindsay Lai  ⁠⁠www.lindsaylai.com⁠⁠

This week Jason puts Grace in the hot seat, grilling her with listener questions — most of which boil down to some version of "how do I become as fierce as you?"
Grace tells it how it is with no filter, no PR training, no agent whispering in her ear to be more likeable. We get into the actual logistics of clapping back. Jason, meanwhile, plays the calm one, gently suggesting that maybe not every interaction requires a Chinatown-level response.
If you've ever replayed an argument in the shower four hours later and thought of the perfect comeback way too late, this episode is basically a public service.
For ‘What Would Grace Do?’ segment, don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice. If you are a small business owner with less than 4500 Instagram followers, DM me to get a small business shout-out!
DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You. 
New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it.
Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats  @gracelamstyle  @jasoncapobiancophotography
TikTok:  @dontmakemecallher  @gracelamstyle
Hosts:  Grace Lam and Jason Capobianco
Produced by Herrrooo Production
Music by Lindsay Lai  ⁠⁠www.lindsaylai.com⁠⁠

How the f#ck do these people keep finding me? This week on DMMCH, we're getting into the two schools of clap back: the Ginja-Ninja full Chinatown way — blunt, immediate, and leaving zero room for interpretation — versus Jason's "chill like a monk" way of dealing with idiots. As much as we want to spread kindness, some people do deserve a reminder of how to behave better.
This week I'm digging into a few of my most memorable (and deeply satisfying) clap back moments — real ones, real people, no regrets. We're talking the art of the quick response, when silence is actually the weapon, and why Jason's zen approach works for him but would never survive a day in the Grace inbox.
For ‘What Would Grace Do?’ segment, don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice. If you are a small business owner with less than 3000 Instagram followers, DM me to get a small business shout-out!
DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You. 
New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it.
Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats  @gracelamstyle  @jasoncapobiancophotography
TikTok:  @dontmakemecallher  @gracelamstyle
Hosts:  Grace Lam and Jason Capobianco
Produced by Herrrooo Production
Music by Lindsay Lai  ⁠⁠www.lindsaylai.com⁠⁠

People get offended by everything these days—and we’re over it. In today’s episode of DMMCH, we’re discussing why direct communication is being labeled as "rude" and how to find the middle ground when the world feels like it’s becoming increasingly fragile. We’re talking about the cultural clash of directness, the struggle of being "too blunt" in a "soft" society, and how to stop catering to everyone else’s fragility. If you’re tired of the constant eggshell-walking, hit play.
What’s your take? Are we too sensitive, or has the world just changed? DM us your thoughts or drop a comment on our socials—we want to hear your side.
For ‘What Would Grace Do?’ segment, don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice. If you are a small business owner with less than 3000 Instagram followers, DM me to get a small business shout-out!
DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You. 
New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it.
Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats  @gracelamstyle  @jasoncapobiancophotography
TikTok:  @dontmakemecallher  @gracelamstyle
Hosts:  Grace Lam and Jason Capobianco
Produced by Herrrooo Production
Music by Lindsay Lai  ⁠⁠www.lindsaylai.com⁠⁠

Let’s be real: our communication skills have hit rock bottom. We are currently living through the Great Email/Text/DM Apocalypse, where we’re expected to be available 24/7, yet somehow, nobody actually knows how to have a conversation anymore.
In this episode, we’re calling out the digital madness. We’re breaking down the massive generational gap—from the Gen X “I’ll get to it when I get to it” cool, to the Millennial “I’m experiencing a full-blown existential crisis because you left me on read,” all the way to the Gen Z/Alpha approach where if it isn’t a 15-second video, it basically didn’t happen.
When did we decide that voice notes and cryptic emojis were better than just hearing a human voice? If your house is on fire, pick up the damn phone and call. If not? Then wait your turn. Jason and I also discuss how to set boundaries and stop being a slave to your inbox and why "I'll reply when I'm good and ready" is the most underrated power move of 2026. Let's create more in-person connection people! This ain't Covid era anymore.
For ‘What Would Grace Do?’ segment, don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice. If you are a small business owner with less than 3000 Instagram followers, DM me to get a small business shout-out!
DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You. 
New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it.
Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats  @gracelamstyle  @jasoncapobiancophotography
TikTok:  @dontmakemecallher  @gracelamstyle
Hosts:  Grace Lam and Jason Capobianco
Produced by Herrrooo Production
Music by Lindsay Lai  ⁠www.lindsaylai.com⁠