The Deep Dish

Melissa and Courtney talk with Jen Wilkin about how seeing the parallels between the beginning of life and its end can help us care for aging loved ones with compassion and honor. They discuss how our culture’s prioritization of self-sufficiency poorly prepares us for the day when we’ll need to accept help. They share their stories of caring for aging parents and talk about how they’re seeking to number their own days aright as they age.
Resources Mentioned:
Dust to Dust by Jen Wilkin
We Shall All Be Changed by Whitney Pipkin
Being Mortal by Atul Gawande
Related Resources:
5 Ways to Honor an Aging Loved One (Even When It’s Hard)
The Joy of Caring for Aging Parents
Caregivers Suffer from Dementia Too
Honor Your Father and Mother
Discussion Questions:
1. Have you ever cared for someone during a season of significant need, or have you received that care? How did the experience shape your understanding of dependence on others?
2. Why can it be difficult to receive help from others, even when we know we need it? What does our reluctance to depend on others reveal about us?
3. Our culture often measures a person's worth by his or her productivity or abilities. How does the gospel challenge those assumptions, especially as we age?
4. When we think about the possibility of losing some of our independence and abilities as we age, what truths about God and our identity in Christ give us hope?
5. How can churches help ensure that older adults (especially those without children or nearby family) are known and cared for?
6. What practices or habits do you want to cultivate to help you age well, both physically and spiritually?



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Melissa and Courtney discuss how to cultivate discernment when seeking advice. They talk about how sometimes we think we need information when what we really need is relationship. They discuss what kind of advice they like to get from the internet or Chat GPT, why they don’t recommend it for wisdom issues such as marriage and parenting, and why we should not let advice from AI or influencers replace wise counsel from the body of Christ.
Resource Mentioned:
Kitchen Table Counseling Within Your Local Church
Related Resources:
Let’s Talk: Finding a Mentor and Being a Mentor
Want to Grow in Wisdom? You Need Gospel Friends.
Why AI Parenting Advice Falls Short
Don’t Treat AI as Your Pastor
Discussion Questions:

1. When you face a difficult decision or struggle, where do you typically turn for advice?
2. How do you discern whether online advice is helpful or unwise?
3. What makes advice offered within a personal relationship different from advice taken from an online blog or influencer or generated by AI?
4. How might repeated exposure to ideas about marriage, parenting, or relationships on social media influence our thinking without us being aware of it?
5. What do we lose when we turn to online sources for counsel instead of investing in relationships with people who know and love us?
6. Who in your life knows you well enough to speak honestly into your decisions and loves you enough to do so? How can you cultivate those kinds of relationships?
7. How would you like to grow in your ability to offer wise counsel to others?

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Melissa and Courtney talk with Randy Alcorn about what we can and can’t know about the life to come. They talk about the importance of understanding the new earth and its continuity with this world and they discuss what we know about the state of those who die in Christ before they receive resurrected bodies. Randy explains why he wrote a whole book about animals in heaven, and why questions about animals bring into focus key aspects of the new creation.
Resources Mentioned:
Heaven by Randy Alcorn
All God’s Creatures by Randy Alcorn
Related Resources:
Will You Be Bored in Heaven?
Heaven and the New Earth
Where Is God When Your Dog Dies?
Discussion Questions:
1. Prior to listening to this episode, what did you tend to picture when you thought about heaven? What has influenced your understanding of what heaven will be like?
2. What surprised you in this conversation? Is there anything about heaven that you find difficult to understand or believe?
3. What are some things in this life that you deeply enjoy? How does your enjoyment of those things make you long for a renewed creation?
4. How does the promise of a renewed creation give you hope when confronted with aspects of this world that feel broken?
5. How does spending time thinking about the life to come help us live more faithfully today?
6. What aspect of the new heavens and earth are you most looking forward to, and why?

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In this live recording from TGCW26, Courtney and Melissa talk with Nancy Guthrie and Jen Wilkin about how to persevere in faith for the rest of your life.They make the point that we shouldn’t give up on something just because it is hard, and they discuss how to cling to faith through suffering, prosperity, and even when our Christian heroes fail. Listen to and be encouraged by the Bible promises that keep these four women anchored in the faith.
Resources Mentioned:
Revelation (Bible Study) by Jen Wilkin
Nancy Guthrie and the Reformation of Women’s Ministry
12 Faithful Women
Verses to Anchor Endurance:
2 Corinthians 12:9
Isaiah 58:11
Romans 8:32
1 Corinthians 10:13
Discussion Questions:
1. Share a time when you had to persevere through something difficult. What helped you keep going?
2. When you think about following Christ for the long haul, what encourages you? What intimidates you?
3. How is enduring in seasons of comfort or prosperity different from enduring through suffering or hardship?
4. Who are the people God has placed in your life to help you endure? Or who might be encouraged by your faithfulness?
5. Have you ever started to become cynical because of disappointment, suffering, or watching other Christians fail? What helped you resist that temptation?
6. What do you think it means to move from simply praying for something to praying into a situation—bringing every part of it before the Lord while learning to trust his will?
7. What promises from Scripture have anchored your faith during difficult seasons?

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Melissa and Courtney talk with Jen Wilkin about their mutual love of children’s books and why reading to children can be a key part of discipleship (as well as a delight!). They talk about what books they loved as children as well as the ones they read to their own kids. They consider the benefits and limitations of children’s Bibles, and discuss why they’ve written books for kids.
Books Mentioned:
The Book of Virtues
The Chronicles of Narnia
Are You My Mother?
Go, Dog, Go!
The Little Rabbit Who Wanted Red Wings
Arlo Takes Off
Caddie Woodlawn
B is for Betsy
Betsy-Tacy Books
Chronicles of Pydain (Includes Black Cauldron)
The Dark is Rising Sequence
Hannah Coulter
The Jesus Storybook Bible
Andy and His Big Question: A Story About How God’s Love Always Comes First
Made Like Me: A True Story from the Beginning of Everything
His Grace Is Enough
Count It All Joy
Related Resources:
How Storytime Shapes Your Children
Parents: Use Children’s Literature to Point Toward Christ
Classic Christian Picture Books Every Family Should Read
A Complete Classical Christian School Reading List: Grades 1-8
Discussion Questions:
1. What was a favorite book you remember reading as a child? Why did you enjoy it, and how did it influence you?
2. We often think of books as a source of entertainment or education. How can they also be a form of discipleship?
3. What are some books you've enjoyed reading with the children in your life? What virtues have you seen those stories promote or cultivate?
4. How can we prioritize reading with the children in our lives, even after they become independent readers? Why is reading together so important relationally?
5. When choosing books for your children (or yourself), what do you tend to prioritize (educational value, enjoyment, literary quality, or something else)?
6. With so many books available, how do you find quality options for your family (and yourself) and discern what’s worth spending your time reading?

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