Elysia Krstevski - "This is why I started the SEEN. HEARD. LOVED. campaign"
DISCLAIMER: This episode contains discussions of domestic violence, which may be distressing or triggering for some listeners. Please take care while listening.
This is a story I’ve rarely shared, one that’s stayed with me for years.
I once hired a woman who, at first glance, looked like she’d come off the streets but she was kind, brilliant, and incredible at her job. Over time, she opened up about being in an abusive relationship and later admitted she was homeless, living in a shelter. I didn’t know how to help, but I knew we had to try.
As a team, we supported her. We helped her find a safe home, and slowly, her life began to change. She was happy.
Then one day, she didn’t show up. No message. No call. We went to her house and saw her cat distressed in the window. We called the police. When they entered, they found she had passed away. Her death remains a mystery, and the grief has never left me.
This experience is part of what drives Meke Baby and A Double Life. We want to honour and support the unseen mothers—those facing crisis alone. We’re using our platform to raise awareness and ask for your help, so no one in that position feels invisible again.
If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence (DV), it's important to access the resources and support available.
Here are important details regarding 1-800 RESPECT, which is the national sexual assault and domestic violence counseling service in Australia:
1-800 RESPECT Details
Phone Number: 1-800-737-732 (1-800 RESPECT)
Website: 1800respect.org.au
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Lili Greer - "He made her clean up the tiles with her blood on them"
DISCLAIMER: This episode contains discussions of domestic violence and murder, which may be distressing or triggering for some listeners. Please take care while listening.
If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, support is available.
1-800 RESPECT
Phone Number: 1-800-737-732 (1-800 RESPECT)
Website: 1800respect.org.au
At just 13 years old, Lili Greer lost everything. Her mother, Tina Greer, vanished in 2012. The victim of a violent and controlling relationship. Tina was just 32, only eight days away from her 33rd birthday.
For the past 13 years, Lili has lived without answers, carrying not only the weight of her mother’s disappearance but also the trauma that came before it.
Determined to honour her mother’s memory and fight for justice, Lili founded The Tina Greer Project, created to shine a light on Tina’s story and to confront the broader national crisis of domestic violence, homicide, and missing persons.
After a successful campaign for a coronial inquest, the Project is now focused on advocacy, education, and driving real systemic change.
Because relying on the system to fix itself is no longer an option. The time for action is now.
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Simone O'Brien "They gave me a 3-5% chance of survival"
Simone shares her powerful and emotional story of surviving a horrific domestic violence attack. After meeting a man online while raising three children and working two jobs, what began as a charming relationship quickly turned controlling and manipulative. Despite early red flags, Simone stayed until she finally ended the relationship—only for him to show up days later and brutally assault her in her home. Left with a shattered arm, brain injuries, and just a 3–5% chance of survival, Simone was placed in an induced coma. After years of surgeries and recovery, she now bravely speaks out to raise awareness about domestic violence and the importance of trusting your gut.
If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence (DV), it's important to access the resources and support available. Here are important details regarding 1-800 RESPECT, which is the national sexual assault and domestic violence counseling service in Australia:
1-800 RESPECT Details
Phone Number: 1-800-737-732 (1-800 RESPECT)
Website: 1800respect.org.au
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Elysia K and Carly D - "Postpartum anxiety can happen to 1 in 5 mothers"
Postpartum anxiety can affect anyone, regardless of their background or success. Carly worked with a highly accomplished businesswoman known for her control and ability to handle anything. But after the life-changing experience of motherhood, she was taken completely by surprise when postpartum anxiety developed.
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Madelyn Carafa - "Motherhood cracked me into a million pieces"
Motherhood isn’t about comparison, as Madeline says, “Your hard is your hard.” It reshaped her identity, but over the years, she’s been finding her new self.
The challenges you face as a parent aren’t permanent, they’re all part of the journey.
0:00 – Your heart is your heart—it doesn’t have to be anyone else’s.
1:00 – Motherhood cracked me into a million pieces.
2:00 – Picking up those pieces and finding the new me.
3:00 – The power of stillness and perspective.
4:00 – This season is hard, but it’s not permanent.
5:00 – Gratitude filled my entire body.
6:00 – Dropping my son to a daycare he loves.
7:00 – My daughter was thriving, and I was doing work that fueled my soul.
8:00 – Carrying guilt during my second pregnancy.
9:00 – Sleep deprivation and dark thoughts.
10:00 – My breaking point: an emergency surgery.
11:00 – Sitting in the darkness while holding gratitude.
12:00 – My parents’ support was a turning point.
13:00 – Simple acts of self-care started to rebuild me.
14:00 – Gratitude and perspective became my superpowers.
15:00 – Returning to myself through small, intentional moments.
16:00 – My son’s anaphylactic reaction—another challenge.
17:00 – Sleep deprivation changed who I was.
18:00 – The turning point at 12 months—finding hope.
19:00 – Letting go of expectations that didn’t serve me.
20:00 – Gratitude for a thriving family and a fulfilling career.
21:00 – It’s okay to feel the hard moments deeply.
22:00 – Finding the new version of yourself as a mother.
23:00 – Self-care is essential—it shapes who you become.0:00 – Your heart is your heart—it doesn’t have to be anyone else’s.
1:00 – Motherhood cracked me into a million pieces.
2:00 – Picking up those pieces and finding the new me.
3:00 – The power of stillness and perspective.
4:00 – This season is hard, but it’s not permanent.
5:00 – Gratitude filled my entire body.
6:00 – Dropping my son to a daycare he loves.
7:00 – My daughter was thriving, and I was doing work that fueled my soul.
8:00 – Carrying guilt during my second pregnancy.
9:00 – Sleep deprivation and dark thoughts.
10:00 – My breaking point: an emergency surgery.
11:00 – Sitting in the darkness while holding gratitude.
12:00 – My parents’ support was a turning point.
13:00 – Simple acts of self-care started to rebuild me.
14:00 – Gratitude and perspective became my superpowers.
15:00 – Returning to myself through small, intentional moments.
16:00 – My son’s anaphylactic reaction—another challenge.
17:00 – Sleep deprivation changed who I was.
18:00 – The turning point at 12 months—finding hope.
19:00 – Letting go of expectations that didn’t serve me.
20:00 – Gratitude for a thriving family and a fulfilling career.
21:00 – It’s okay to feel the hard moments deeply.
22:00 – Finding the new version of yourself as a mother.
23:00 – Self-care is essential—it shapes who you become.
Everyone has a story that has shaped them into the person they are today.
“A Double Life” raises awareness about the unseen challenges faced by parents, especially women, breaking down societal stereotypes and expectations. Through storytelling, education, and empowerment, we highlight resilience and courage while creating a supportive community for individuals navigating adversity and juggling multiple responsibilities.
Please be advised that the following content may contain triggering topics such as child loss, suicide, domestic violence, drug use, and other sensitive themes. Viewer discretion is advised and it is recommended that individuals who may be triggered by such subjects proceed with caution or seek support if needed. Your mental health and well-being are important, and we encourage you to prioritise self-care while engaging with this content.
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