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Lady Carnarvon's Official Podcast

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Lady Carnarvon's Official Podcast
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    Survival of the Friendliest: Lady Carnarvon talks to Rutger Bregman about the "real" Lord of the Flies and the power of kindness

    01/06/2026 | 41 mins.
    I welcome Dutch historian Rutger Bregman to the podcast after first messaging him on Instagram and we talk about what I took from his book Humankind and my own wish to bring people together to remember friendship and kindness. 
    Rutger reflects on Dutch directness and equality shaped by living with water, from the 1953 flood to the Delta Works, and shares why he writes for a general audience about big questions of human nature. 
    We discuss his challenge to the “veneer theory” and his belief in “survival of the friendlies,” alongside a real shipwreck story near Tonga where six boys survived 15 months through cooperation. Our conversation turns to bullying, family and attachment, the Second World War and Rutger’s research for Moral Ambition on how resistance spreads simply by asking others to help.
    01:10 Dutch Culture and Directness
    04:01 Water Engineering and Delta Works
    05:41 Early Civilizations and Conflict
    06:58 Why Bregman Writes Big History
    08:12 Debunking Human Nature Myths
    10:07 Cooperation at Highclere Today
    12:49 Tempest and Amoral People
    13:55 Real Lord of the Flies Story
    19:00 Bullying Attachment and Family
    21:41 Victorian Fathers Revisited
    22:40 Reform Politics And Women
    23:28 Why Study War
    24:04 Resistance Myth Debunked
    25:24 Heroes Are Asked
    27:29 Unconventional Organizers
    30:25 Kindness After Loss
    32:19 Kindness Is Contagious
    35:03 Lessons From Animals
    36:18 Veneer Theory And Dickens
    37:59 British Indirectness
    You can hear more episodes of Lady Carnarvon's Official Podcasts at https://www.ladycarnarvon.com/podcast/

    New episodes are published on the first day of every month.
  • Lady Carnarvon's Official Podcast

    The real story behind Burnt Norton: Lady Carnarvon and Caroline Montague on Writing Havens, Burnt Norton’s Past and Stories That Heal

    01/05/2026 | 26 mins.
    I’m delighted to welcome historical novelist Caroline Montague to the castle, where we talk about how writing offers a refuge from everyday life and how she protects her creative time in her office with her dogs. Caroline shares the remarkable history of Burnt Norton, its links to T.S. Eliot’s “Four Quartets,” and the dramatic tale of Sir William Kite, whose scandal, bankruptcy, and death by fire helped give the house its name, alongside stories of the “white lady” said to haunt the top floor. 
    We discuss her path from law and interior design to writing, her planning process shaped by a firm agent, shifting titles and covers, and her current rewrite of a book about a famous royal swap. We also chat about spaniels, horses and the comfort animals bring.
    00:49 Writing Routine and Space
    01:35 Career Path to Author
    02:41 Burnt Norton and TS Eliot
    04:42 William Kite House Tragedy
    07:02 Ghost Stories White Lady
    09:51 House History and Hauntings
    11:25 Plotting Process and Ideas
    13:16 Deadlines Output and Titles
    15:18 Rewriting The Hook
    16:08 Jigsaw Writing Method
    17:17 Past Healing Present
    18:17 Woods And Creativity
    18:35 Spaniel Life And Social Media
    19:59 Dressage Highs And Loss
    21:09 New Horse Gio
    22:33 Italy And Spanish Stallions
    25:08 Books Animals And Imagination
    You can hear more episodes of Lady Carnarvon's Official Podcasts at https://www.ladycarnarvon.com/podcast/

    New episodes are published on the first day of every month.
  • Lady Carnarvon's Official Podcast

    The story behind the scenes: Lady Carnarvon and Emily Howes talk about the Painter's Daughters

    31/03/2026 | 30 mins.
    I’m delighted to welcome the novelist Emily Howes to the castle to talk about her book The Painter’s Daughters, inspired by Gainsborough’s portraits of his two girls and the striking shift from their lively childhood images to a stiffer, unhappier adulthood. 
    Emily shares how she researched 18th-century Bath, its muddy, smelly, party-like medical culture, through visits and sources such as James Hamilton’s biography, Letters from Bath, and books on travel, while noting how little survives from the daughters’ own voices. 
    We discuss Molly’s documented illness and Emily’s discovery of a possible porphyria link to the Prince of Wales, as well as Gainsborough’s finances, his wife’s hidden savings, and the sisters’ relationship, which Emily likens to Downton Abbey’s sister dynamics. 
    Emily also previews her next novel, Mrs Dickens, exploring Catherine Dickens’s erasure after Dickens left her for Ellen Turner and the fate of their children.
    00:46 Why the Daughters
    03:20 Bath After Covid
    05:57 Money and Marriage
    08:18 Research and Sources
    09:27 Molly Illness Mystery
    12:21 Sisters and Downton
    16:05 Blue Boy and Imagination
    17:25 Gainsborough at Highclere
    22:23 Next Book Mrs Dickens
    24:35 Dickens Family Fallout
    27:53 Catherine After Separation

    You can hear more episodes of Lady Carnarvon's Official Podcasts at https://www.ladycarnarvon.com/podcast/

    New episodes are published on the first day of every month.
  • Lady Carnarvon's Official Podcast

    Our man in Libya and Iran: Lady Carnarvon joins Nicholas Hopton to talk diplomacy, travel and Foreign Service.

    01/03/2026 | 27 mins.
    In this episode from Highclere Castle, I sit down with Nick Hopton to talk about his book, "Marma Mia," which begins as the story of buying and restoring a holiday house in an unspoiled part of Tuscany, the Maremma and becomes a wider family and personal journey. 
    Nick shares how reading "A Year in Provence" during COVID while he was British Ambassador to Libya helped inspire him to write a feel-good book that encourages readers to discover lesser-known regions. 
    We discuss his Foreign Office career and his approach to languages, including learning Arabic across postings such as Morocco, Yemen, Qatar and Libya, along with French, Italian, Spanish, some German, and some Farsi ahead of becoming ambassador to Iran after the 2015 nuclear deal and the reopening of the British embassy. 
    Nick explains how a friend’s suggestion to look beyond Chianti led serendipitously to the first house they viewed and ultimately boughtalongside the realities of renovating abroad: high costs, practical challenges, and the highs and lows of making a place work for family life. We also talk about his unexpected love of landscaping and working with a skilled digger operator he calls “Michelangelo,” the region’s food, wine, local olive oil and its strong Tuscan accent. 
    Nick recounts a memorable moment when a friend arrived with an armed escort and the town’s mayor turned out to greet them, and he updates me on ongoing projects, including drilling a 97-meter well to reach a fresh aquifer. Looking ahead, Nick describes writing best in the relative isolation of the Italian house and shares his interest in writing more broadly about the Mediterranean, linked to his role creating a new program at the University of Cambridge Centre for Geopolitics. We touch on the Napoleonic history of the area, including the principality of Piombino and Lucca and Napoleon’s sister Elisa and end with a playful question about a dream dance guest Nick chooses Dante’s Beatrice, reflecting his early love of Dante’s poetry and its lifelong influence.
    00:00 Meet Nick Hopton & the book ‘Marma Mia’ (restoring a house in Italy)
    00:50 Inspired by ‘A Year in Provence’: writing a feel-good travel memoir during COVID
    01:59 Diplomatic life & learning languages: Arabic, French, Italian (and more)
    04:26 Why you should speak the local language (even with bad grammar)
    05:17 Falling for Tuscany’s Maremma: the serendipitous house-buying story
    07:42 Renovation reality: highs, lows, and why the Maremma stays authentic
    08:44 Landscaping obsession: diggers, Kubotas, and ‘Michelangelo’ the operator
    11:05 Food, wine & dialect: tomatoes, olive oil, and the Tuscan accent
    12:49 Small-town surprises: the ambassador friend visit and the mayor’s welcome
    13:43 The work never ends: is the villa project ever really finished?
    14:01 Digging a 97m Well & the Never-Ending House Project
    14:27 What’s Next After the Book: A Wider Mediterranean Focus
    14:58 Seeing the Mediterranean Holistically (Cambridge Geopolitics & Trade Routes)
    16:26 Duff Cooper, John Julius Norwich & Highclere’s Colorful Guests
    17:20 Writing Habits: Tuscany, Isolation, Rhythm & Beating Procrastination
    18:37 Italy, Maremma & Napoleonic History: Elisa and the Principality of Piombino and Lucca
    20:30 Diplomatic Postings & Reopening the UK Embassy in Iran (2015)
    23:09 Iran Today: Regime Weakness, Protests, and a Hope to Visit the Cradle of Civilization
    24:21 Highclere’s Library, the Book Club, and a Shared Love of Italy
    25:27 Finale: The Summer Dance Fantasy Guest—Dante, Beatrice & Vita Nova
    You can hear more episodes of Lady Carnarvon's Official Podcasts at https://www.ladycarnarvon.com/podcast/

    New episodes are published on the first day of every month.
  • Lady Carnarvon's Official Podcast

    Love changes everything at the Real Downton Abbey: Lady Carnarvon meets BGT Winner Colin Thackery MBE

    01/02/2026 | 31 mins.
    Welcome to my podcast! In this special episode, I am thrilled to welcome Colin Thackery, a Chelsea Pensioner and Britain's Got Talent winner, who has an extraordinary life story to share. Colin talks about his time in the Royal Artillery, his experience being appointed an MBE and his unexpected journey to stardom at the age of 89. We also discuss his book, 'My Story. Love Changes Everything' and his enduring love for his late wife Joan. Join us as we reflect on his inspiring journey, his military service and his newfound fame with captivating stories of bravery, love, and resilience.
    00:49 Colin's MBE Award Journey
    05:49 Life at the Royal Hospital
    09:32 Britain's Got Talent Experience
    15:44 Reflecting on Joan's Legacy
    16:12 Early Marriage and Military Life
    17:22 Family and Cultural Heritage
    18:51 Royal Artillery and Highclere Event
    22:24 Musical Journey and Britain's Got Talent
    25:09 Post-Army Career and Civilian Life
    29:05 Meeting Jo and New Beginnings

    You can hear more episodes of Lady Carnarvon's Official Podcasts at https://www.ladycarnarvon.com/podcast/

    New episodes are published on the first day of every month.
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About Lady Carnarvon's Official Podcast
My husband, the 8th Earl of Carnarvon, and I have the enormous privilege and pleasure of living in, and taking care of, my husband’s family home, Highclere Castle, which is better known to many people as the setting for the popular television programme “Downton Abbey”. Thanks to this series, our home has, over the last few years, become one of the most well-known and iconic houses in the world. My Podcast is my way of trying to share the stories and heritage of this wonderful building and estate, and all the people and animals that live and work here, so that you can get to know and love it as I do.
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