This week, Syd returns to the podcast with B~Love to delve into a discussion inspired by the movie "Sinners." Their conversation begins by exploring the complexities of controlling temptation, examining the internal and external factors that influence our desires and choices. They then shift their focus to the dynamics of dating younger people, considering the potential benefits and challenges that can arise in such relationships. Finally, Syd and B~Love discuss the various perks and advantages of being committed to one person, highlighting the emotional security, deepened connection, and shared experiences that often come with long-term monogamy.
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53:25
Which Friends Messed Up the Group Chat
Syd joins B~Love this week, and they launch into a discussion about the value of preparation in their lives, exploring how they each approach planning and organization. This leads to a candid moment where an "off-mic conversation" comes into the spotlight, revealing a discussion about honesty and seeing things clearly, even when it's uncomfortable. They then delve into the delicate territory of relationship red flags, debating whether or not to support a friend's decision to bring a new, potentially fleeting partner to an event. The conversation shifts to the balance of having fun on guys/girls trips while maintaining respect and connection with their partners at home. They also tackle the common challenge of handling arguments with a spouse before joint events or tasks, seeking strategies for constructive conflict resolution. A listener writes in with a "What Would India Do?" scenario, describing discomfort with their wife's flirty male coworker who acted inappropriately at her birthday party despite prior conversations. Syd and B~Love dissect the situation, exploring the husband's perspective and considering what they would do in both the husband's and the wife's shoes. Finally, they share a "RelationTIP" based on a survey that reveals seven out of seven guys prioritize niceness and friendliness in a partner, emphasizing the importance of basic kindness in relationships.
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52:26
We Need a New Mattress
India Marie is back, and she and B~Love jump right into a fun recap of their weekend adventures! They share laughs and stories about their time out and about.
Then, they get real about how their individual entrepreneurial journeys have shaped and changed their relationship dynamic. They discuss the challenges and triumphs of building their own businesses while supporting each other.
Switching gears to a more domestic (and relatable!) topic, they chat about the need for a new mattress and take a hilarious trip down memory lane, reminiscing about the story behind their very first mattress purchase. Get ready for a lighthearted and entertaining episode filled with relationship insights and funny anecdotes!
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54:56
Postpartum Loneliness
B~Love welcomes back Syd, who shares an honest and vulnerable account of her life with two children after the birth of her son, Weston. Syd opens up about her feelings of anxiety and loneliness, emphasizing the crucial role of a supportive husband and a strong community in navigating the challenges of motherhood. This episode offers a raw and relatable perspective on the realities of postpartum life, offering comfort and encouragement to those experiencing similar emotions.
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59:36
Seven Years of Different Parenting Styles
B~Love and India Marie are back with a dose of relatable relationship realness! They start by recapping their recent date night, sparking a conversation about the importance of consistent date nights and the ever-present question: "When are YOU planning the next one?" B~Love playfully puts India Marie on the spot!
Then, they dive into the wonderful world of having a seven-year-old. They share hilarious and heartwarming stories from their son Blake's recent 7th birthday celebration, reminiscing about how birthday parties have drastically changed since their own childhoods.
Finally, they tackle the always-interesting topic of parenting styles. B~Love and India Marie candidly discuss their differences in approach and how they navigate raising their children together, offering insights into finding common ground and supporting each other as parents. Tune in for laughs, relatable moments, and a glimpse into their family life!
She & I is a podcast brought to you by husband and wife tandem, Barrett (B~Love) and India Newsome. We open up the doors to our relationship to give you all a glimpse of how we have managed to keep our relationship healthy over the years. By no means is our relationship perfect, but we work through whatever issues we have to come out on the other side. Enjoy listening to She & I!
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