ADHD Mums

• 3. SCHOOL SERIES - Burnout Starts in the Classroom — And Follows Them Home

  If your child’s after-school meltdowns seem to come out of nowhere — they don’t. They’re just not being seen. In this second episode of the School Series, Jane is joined again by neurodivergent educator and mum Millie Carr to unpack how burnout builds silently in classrooms and explodes at home. From sensory overwhelm and executive dysfunction to chronic invalidation and misread behaviour — this episode doesn’t just name the problem. It helps you understand what to look for, what schools can do differently, and what you can shift at home without burning yourself out too. This is a must-listen for any parent hearing ‘they’re fine at school’ while watching their kid unravel every night. 💡 What We Cover: The difference between academic fatigue and neurodivergent burnout What school-based nervous system overload actually looks like How masking, people-pleasing and perfectionism disguise distress Why executive dysfunction + sensory chaos = a ticking time bomb The impact of chronic invalidation on self-esteem and identity Interoception struggles — why neurodivergent kids often don’t see their own crash coming Simple school accommodations that reduce burnout without being performative How parents can build structure and regulation into home life without adding pressure 🎧 Related episodes with Millie Carr: SCHOOL SERIES - When School Becomes the Trauma — What No One Tells ADHD Parents Listen in Spotify Listen in Apple How to Tell Your Child About Their Diagnosis: Essential Do's and Don'ts. Listen in Spotify\ Listen in Apple Camouflaging ADHD and Autistic Traits in Girls Listen in Spotify Listen in Apple The Neurodiverse Classroom Listen in Spotify Listen in Apple 🔗 To find out more about Millie Carr or purchase her books please click on her website or check out her IG 🔗 Sign our Change Petition here 🎧 Listener Questions please send here 🔗 Free Guides and Resources here This episode isn’t about blaming teachers—it’s about exposing the system that’s letting everyone down, especially our neurodivergent kids. If you’ve ever been told ‘they’re fine at school’, you need to hear this. Hit play. Share with a friend. And let’s stop gaslighting ourselves about what’s really going on in classrooms. JOIN THE COMMUNITY: Connect with other ADHD mums in our Facebook group – no question too small, no meltdown too messy. FOLLOW FOR MORE: Daily ADHD mum content on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, and YouTube. LEAVE A REVIEW: Love this episode? Your review helps other mums find support that actually makes sense. COLLABS: Want Jane to speak or collaborate? Email [email protected]. MORE RESOURCES: Still questioning ADHD or autism? Access recommended self-assessments and tools here.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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• 2. SCHOOL SERIES When School Becomes the Trauma — What No One Tells ADHD Parents

  If your child holds it together all day at school only to fall apart the second they get home—this episode is for you. In this brutally honest conversation, Jane is joined by teacher, parent, and neurodivergent advocate Millie Carr to unpack the invisible trauma happening behind ‘good behaviour’ in classrooms. From silent shutdowns to explosive rage, masking to misdiagnosis, we explore how the school system is inadvertently breaking the very kids it's meant to support—and what parents can do about it. 💡 What We Cover: What school-based trauma really looks like (it’s not always loud) Why girls and fawn-type students are flying under the radar The link between masking, people-pleasing, and identity loss How chronic invalidation chips away at kids’ mental health Why ‘good girl’ praise can be just as damaging as discipline The high cost of being the “perfect” student RSD (Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria) and the hidden social toll of school What schools and parents can do to build trust and repair harm 🎧 Related episodes with Millie Carr: How to Tell Your Child About Their Diagnosis: Essential Do's and Don'ts. Listen in Spotify\ Listen in Apple Camouflaging ADHD and Autistic Traits in Girls Listen in Spotify Listen in Apple The Neurodiverse Classroom Listen in Spotify Listen in Apple 🔗 To find out more about Millie Carr or purchase her books please click on her website or check out her IG 🔗 Sign our Change Petition here 🎧 Listener Questions please send here 🔗 Free Guides and Resources here This episode isn’t about blaming teachers—it’s about exposing the system that’s letting everyone down, especially our neurodivergent kids. If you’ve ever been told ‘they’re fine at school’, you need to hear this. Hit play. Share with a friend. And let’s stop gaslighting ourselves about what’s really going on in classrooms. JOIN THE COMMUNITY: Connect with other ADHD mums in our Facebook group – no question too small, no meltdown too messy. FOLLOW FOR MORE: Daily ADHD mum content on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, and YouTube. LEAVE A REVIEW: Love this episode? Your review helps other mums find support that actually makes sense. COLLABS: Want Jane to speak or collaborate? Email [email protected]. MORE RESOURCES: Still questioning ADHD or autism? Access recommended self-assessments and tools here.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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• 1. Season 3 Starts Here: No More Explaining – ADHD Tools That Actually Work

  You’ve read the listicles. You’ve sat in the paediatrician’s office explaining what your child’s meltdown actually meant — again. You’re not confused. You’re exhausted. Season 3 is here — and it’s not about awareness anymore. It’s about tools, systems, scripts, and sustainable change. This season, Jane is done explaining ADHD to the masses. If you’re an ADHD mum, late-diagnosed woman, or raising neurodivergent kids in a system that’s already failing you — this season is built for you. This opener is sharp, validating, and cuts straight to what’s coming, why it matters, and how ADHD Mums is shifting focus to create real support. Spoiler: it started with one burnt-out night, one whiteboard, and the lowest-effort dinner plan that worked like magic. 💡 What We Cover: Why Season 3 ditches the awareness fluff and starts with real-world strategy The ADHD Mum Hack that came out of a PMDD spiral and whiteboard panic How a low-energy dinner framework led to the most helpful ADHD tool Jane’s made yet What 3 years of DMs, reviews, and survey data revealed about what ADHD mums actually want The burnout no one saw coming, and how Jane nearly stopped the podcast altogether What’s changing: solo Thursdays, guest Tuesdays, and no more overexplaining Upcoming series on hormones, medication, school trauma, and misdiagnosis Why ADHD Mums is building a system for us — not just hoping the current one catches up 🎧 Related episodes: Ep 64 – PMDD, PMS & Emotional Burnout Spotify: Listen Here on Spotify Apple: Listen here on Apple Ep 25 - Feeling like PMS is taking over your life? It might be PMDD Spotify: Listen Here on Spotify Apple: Listen here on Apple 🛒 Shop the resources – adhdmums.com.au/shop 💬 Join the ADHD Mums Facebook Group – click Don't Miss Out On the most current information on ADHD Meds & the NDIS. Subscribe to the mailing list here 🎧 Listen Now If you’ve ever thought, ‘I know what ADHD is — what I need is help actually managing my life’, this episode is your sign to stop apologising and start rebuilding.Hit play. This is your season. #ADHDMumsPodcast #NeurodivergentMums #ADHDParentingTools #BurnoutSupport #PMDDandADHD #ExecutiveDysfunction #RSDInMothers #MentalLoadMums #ADHDSeason3 #ADHDAustralia #LowEnergyParenting #InvisibleLoadADHD JOIN THE COMMUNITY: Validation, dark humour, and strategy — not tips and vibes. Come hang with us on Facebook. FOLLOW FOR MORE: Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, YouTube — because multitasking is the only way we exist. LEAVE A REVIEW: Help another exhausted, brilliant ADHD mum find this and feel seen. Reviews matter more than you think. COLLABS: To book Jane or pitch a media/story idea: [email protected] TOPICS COVERED IN THIS EPISODE: ADHD burnout, PMDD and ADHD, neurodivergent parenting support, ADHD mums podcast, emotional regulation, ADHD tools for mums, late-diagnosed ADHD women, ADHD low-energy hacks, executive dysfunction management, ADHD daily survival, ADHD women hormones, school trauma ADHD, ADHD parenting podcast, ADHD menu planning, Jane McFadden podcast, ADHD validation, realistic ADHD supportSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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• 88. Mothers Day: I Made the Lunches, Booked the Table, and Still Felt Invisible

  You made the reservation. You packed the gifts. You wiped the tears, booked the table, and still felt… like no one saw you. If Mother’s Day makes you feel flat, ragey, or quietly devastated—you’re not ungrateful, you’re unsupported. In this raw solo episode, Jane shares the truth about what ADHD mums, solo parents, and neurodivergent women are really navigating on the day that’s supposed to be for them. This isn’t about handmade cards and breakfast in bed. This is about emotional labour, unmet needs, and the silent heartbreak of being overlooked on the one day you were told you’d be celebrated. 💡 What We Cover: Why so many mums dread Mother’s Day—and it’s not ‘ingratitude’ Survey results from 100+ ADHD Mums on how the day actually goes What invisible emotional labour looks like (and why it stings most on Mother’s Day) The loneliness of solo parenting, co-parenting, or being in a relationship and still doing it all Scripts and strategies to set boundaries, ask for what you need, or say no The complex grief that can rise: for the mum you had, the mum you wanted, or the mum you thought you'd be Seven key reminders for emotionally overloaded mums this Mother's Day How to validate yourself when no one else does—and why your kids will remember even when it feels like they won’t 🔗 Resources & Links: 🎧 Related episodes: 7 Brutally Honest Reasons ADHD Mums Stay Silent About the Mental Load [Part 2] Listen on Spotify Listen on Apple How to Handle Family Criticism About ADHD: Boundaries and Keeping Your Sanity Listen on Spotify Listen on Apple 💬 Join the ADHD Mums Facebook group: Click here If Mother’s Day makes you feel like disappearing, this episode is your reminder: you are not invisible, you are just unsupported—and that is not your fault. Hit play. Send this to a mum who needs to feel seen this weekend. #ADHDMumsPodcast #MothersDayBurnout #InvisibleLoad #MentalLoadMatters #ADHDParenting #NeurodivergentMums #EmotionalLabour #ADHDFatigue #SoloMumSupport #ADHDandGrief #RealMotherhood #ADHDMumPodcast JOIN THE COMMUNITY: You don’t have to smile through it. Join our Facebook group for real talk and support. FOLLOW FOR MORE: Find Jane on Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, and YouTube. Because sometimes you just need someone to say what you're thinking—out loud. LEAVE A REVIEW: Your review helps more exhausted, ragey, overextended mums find this podcast. Share the episode. Rate it. Let’s raise the volume on what really matters. COLLABS: To collaborate or invite Jane to speak, email [email protected]. TOPICS COVERED IN THIS EPISODE: Mother’s Day and emotional labour, ADHD mums and mental load, invisible labour, solo mum burnout, co-parenting struggles, grief on Mother’s Day, unmet expectations, neurodivergent parenting challenges, ADHD and sensory overwhelm, ADHD mum shutdown, rage and resilience, ADHD women and shame, emotional validation for mothers, complex motherhood, real talk Mother’s Day, ADHD self-compassion, masking on holidays, self-advocacy for mums, survival-mode parenting, ADHD parenting community See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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• 87. Season 2 RECAP: The Year ADHD Mums Stopped Apologising

  If you made it through Season 2 while juggling meltdowns, meds, late-night Googling, school chaos, and trying to figure out dinner while being told to ‘get off your phone’—you’re not just surviving. You’re reshaping the narrative. In this raw and honest wrap-up, Jane reflects on what really went down in Season 2: the burnout, the backlash, the breakthroughs, and the moments that made her want to walk away. From NDIS implosions to medication shortages, from massive listener growth to imposter syndrome and award snubs—this one lays it bare. This is a thank you, a debrief, and a reminder: you’re not alone, and Season 3 is just getting started. 💡 What We Cover: Why ADHD Mums doesn’t ‘pause for the season’—because the chaos doesn’t either Medication shortages, government silence, and the reality of parenting without support Burnout, surgery, ARFID, and behind-the-scenes pressure that almost ended the podcast What worked, what tanked, and why the DV mini-series didn’t land (even though it mattered) Why she kept going: DMs, community wins, and the power of knowing someone needed it The rise of $10 kits and what the audience really asked for: practical strategies, not fluff The message to women navigating neurodivergence without validation: build anyway 🎧 Listen Now 1. Burnout, Pain & Weird Symptoms? The ADHD Link No One Told Us About (My Lipodema Operation episode) Listen here on Spotify Listen here on Apple 2. Does ADHD Medication make you feel withdrawn, sad or sensory sensitive? Listen Here on Spotify Listen Here on Apple 🔗 Resources & Links: 🎧 Most downloaded episodes of Season 2 – Top 10 Recap Blog 📥 Downloadable Kits & Guides – Go Here 💬 Facebook Group: Join ADHD Mums #ADHDMumsPodcast #NeurodivergentParenting #ADHDMedicationCrisis #ARFIDParenting #BurnoutAndRecovery #NDAdvocacy #ExecutiveDysfunction #PerimenopauseADHD #RageAndMasking #MentalLoadForMums #WomenWithADHD #Season2Recap JOIN THE COMMUNITY: Have questions or want to connect with other ADHD mums? Join our supportive Facebook group here and dive into the conversation. No question is too small, and I love answering in a group format! FOLLOW FOR MORE: Get daily tips, insights, and relatable content for ADHD mums by following me on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok or YouTube COLLABS: Want to pitch an idea, book Jane, or collaborate? Email [email protected] MORE RESOURCES: Still unsure if ADHD or autism applies to you or your child? Take my recommended self-tests here. TOPICS COVERED IN THIS EPISODE: ADHD mums podcast recap, burnout parenting, ARFID and ADHD, medication shortage Australia, ADHD and DV, imposter syndrome ADHD, ADHD misdiagnosis women, NDIS changes 2024, ADHD rage and masking, executive dysfunction, perimenopause ADHD, navigating school with ADHD kids, ND community support, practical ADHD strategies, low-energy parenting, advocacy and neurodivergence, ADHD mum communitySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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