Passion Struck with John R. Miles

What if you're working harder and harder—but you're still moving in the wrong direction?
Alec Litowitz learned this lesson during a mountain bike race in the Pyrenees, when hesitating before a blind downhill jump nearly sent him over the handlebars.
Years later, that same lesson became a framework for how he thinks about investing, leadership, AI, and life: You can't stay stuck between decisions when the environment is moving fast.
Alec is an investor, entrepreneur, and founder of Magnetar Capital who has spent decades making decisions in environments defined by uncertainty. In his new book, The Adaptability Quotient, he argues that the people who thrive in the next era won't necessarily be the smartest, toughest, or most resilient.
They'll be the people who can recognize when the map no longer matches the terrain—and update before reality forces them to. And that matters even more as AI changes not just the tools we use but the environment in which we think.
In this conversation, Alec and I explore:
Why working harder can make failure worse when you're moving in the wrong direction
Why intelligence and emotional intelligence aren't enough when the environment changes
Why adaptability is a meta-skill that tells you where to point your other strengths
How to recognize when your mental map no longer matches reality
Why waiting for certainty can become its own form of risk
Why AI isn't simply a tool—and how it could either expand or erode human agency
Why your values should remain stable while your strategies evolve
How to know when to change your mission without abandoning your purpose
Why feedback loops are essential to making adaptive decisions
How to stop swimming harder and start asking whether you're still headed in the right direction
Alec also shares a powerful distinction for the AI era: You can be a resistor, an adopter, or an adapter.
A resistor denies the change.
An adopter treats the new technology as a tool.
An adapter recognizes that the technology is changing the environment—and therefore changing the person using it.
That's the deeper challenge of adaptability. The question isn't simply, "How do I keep up with change?” It's: “Who do I need to become when the world I'm operating in has changed?”
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What if the things we think are helping our children succeed are actually making it harder for them to become independent?
Dr. Peter Gray has spent decades studying childhood, play, education, and human development. In his new book, Restoring Childhood, he argues that childhood has a fundamental biological purpose: gradually learning to take charge of your own life.
But modern childhood looks increasingly different. More supervision. More structured activities. More academic pressure. More résumé building. Less unsupervised play, exploration, and freedom.
And Peter believes that loss of independence has consequences—not only for how children learn, but for their agency, mental health, ability to discover their passions, and ultimately the adults they become.
In this conversation, we explore:
Why childhood is biologically designed for independence
Why free play teaches children skills adults can't simply teach them
How we gradually took freedom and independence away from childhood
Why turning childhood into résumé building can undermine agency
How parenting and schooling can suppress a child's innate sense of agency
The connection between autonomy, self-determination, and feeling that your life matters
Why children discover their passions through curiosity and exploration—not planning
How school pressure became a major source of psychological stress for young people
Why Peter challenges the idea that smartphones alone explain the youth mental health crisis
What parents can do today to give their children more independence
Peter also shares a simple question every parent can ask their child: “Are there things that you would like to do independently that you're not doing right now?”
Because restoring childhood doesn't necessarily require giving children unlimited freedom. Sometimes it starts by giving them one more opportunity to discover what they can do for themselves.
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Why What Matters Most Is Rarely the Loudest
What if the things getting the most attention in your life aren't actually the things that matter most?
We live in a world that rewards visibility. The viral headline. The impressive title. The dramatic turnaround. The big announcement. The person who creates the most noise in the room. But some of the most valuable things in life work differently.
They compound quietly.
In this episode of Passion Struck, John R. Miles explores why human beings are so easily drawn toward what is visible, dramatic, and immediate—and why that can cause us to overlook the people, decisions, relationships, and foundations that create lasting value.
The episode begins with the famous Joshua Bell experiment, in which one of the world's greatest violinists played a $3.5 million Stradivarius in a Washington, D.C., Metro station and collected just $32.17. The music hadn't changed. The context had.
John then connects this phenomenon to markets, workplaces, leadership, and his own experience at Dell, where a promising Android and cloud strategy was ultimately abandoned amid the company's dependence on Microsoft.
The deeper lesson is about salience: our tendency to notice what is flashy and immediate while overlooking what is subtle and important.
In this episode, you'll discover:
Why visibility and value are often two very different things
What the Joshua Bell experiment reveals about human attention
Why intelligent people can still get pulled toward hype and spectacle
How organizations can reward dramatic behavior while overlooking quiet contribution
What John's experience at Dell taught him about confusing legacy value with future opportunity
Why human trust, dignity, culture, and connection can be harder to measure—but enormously consequential
How conformity can cause us to abandon our own judgment when everyone else agrees
Why Alex Edmans' advice to “see the other side” is such a powerful decision-making practice
How to use John's Signal Audit to separate external applause from intrinsic value
Why real adaptability isn't always about moving faster—it can mean stopping, filtering the noise, and seeing what others are missing
The question to take with you is simple: Where are you giving your best energy to something loud while starving something quiet that actually matters?
Because the crowd will always react to what is flashy and immediate. Your job is to learn how to recognize the signal.
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What if the question you’re avoiding is the one you most need to answer?
We often think courage means doing something difficult or frightening. But Scott Simon says the place people struggle most isn't physical courage—it’s having the courage to ask and answer hard questions.
In this episode, Scott Simon and Gregory Stock bring together two decades-long bodies of work: Scott’s exploration of courage and Gregory’s groundbreaking Book of Questions, which became a New York Times bestseller and sold millions of copies.
Their new book, The Book of Questions: Courage, is built around a simple idea: the right question can take you beneath the surface of your life and reveal what you actually believe, fear, want, and value.
And sometimes, one honest question can change the direction of your life.
In this conversation, we explore:
Why asking yourself a hard question can require more courage than taking action
The question Scott says cuts directly to the core: What lie are you telling yourself to keep yourself safe that is actually holding you back?
Why great questions don't give you answers—they create space for self-discovery
How vulnerability can make people feel more connected rather than more exposed
Why one meaningful question can turn an ordinary dinner into an hour-long conversation that people remember
Why we often avoid deeper conversations even with the people we know best
What we're losing in an increasingly distracted, answer-rich world
Which questions we should deliberately refuse to outsource to AI
Why AI can provide information but still cannot tell us who we want to become
The question Scott believes everyone should ask: What is something extraordinary you've done well before you felt ready or confident?
One of the most powerful ideas in the conversation is that a good question doesn't close a conversation—it opens one. So before you move on with your day, ask yourself:
What is one question I've been avoiding because I already suspect I know the answer? That might be where your next chapter begins.
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You're smart. You're informed. So why do you still make terrible decisions?
We like to believe that intelligence and information protect us from bad decisions. They don't.
Professor Alex Edmans, Professor of Finance at London Business School and Fellow of the British Academy, returns to Passion Struck to reveal the psychological forces that can distort our judgment—from confirmation bias and anchoring to herd behavior, emotional decision-making, and our tendency to follow whatever information is most visible.
His new book, The Madness of Markets, uses financial markets to expose a much bigger truth about human behavior: the same biases that influence investors can shape the decisions we make in our careers, leadership, relationships, and everyday lives.
Even Isaac Newton wasn't immune.
In this conversation, Alex explains:
Why being intelligent doesn't make you rational
Why more information doesn't necessarily lead to better decisions
How confirmation bias makes us see evidence that supports what we already believe
Why we tend to overreact to information that's flashy, visible, and impossible to ignore
How anchoring causes the first information we encounter to influence our later judgment
Why millions of people making the same mistake can create collective irrationality rather than canceling one another out
How compelling stories can overpower better evidence
Why culture, human capital, reputation, and innovation can matter enormously even when they're difficult to measure
Why AI may change the decisions humans make without eliminating human bias
And the one question Alex believes can make you wiser: “What is the other side?”
Alex's advice extends far beyond investing. Before you change jobs, relocate, end a relationship, make a major purchase, or commit to an important belief, look for the strongest argument against your own position.
If you can't see it yourself, find someone you trust who disagrees with you and ask them to make the case. Because becoming a better decision-maker isn't always about knowing more. Sometimes it's about learning to see what you're missing.
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