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What if fear isn’t actually the thing keeping you stuck?
Sometimes fear looks responsible.
We research a little more.
We wait for better timing.
We tell ourselves we need more clarity.
We keep preparing.
But eventually, preparation can stop helping us move forward and start protecting us from having to act.
In this episode of Your Thoughts, Your Reality, Michael Cole sits down with Clifford Sosamon, a Marine Corps veteran, entrepreneur, writer, leadership speaker, creator of the Action Under Friction Method, and host of the Tailgate Chat podcast.
Cliff served six years on active duty in the Marine Corps, including deployment to Haiti and Marine Security Guard assignments in Bangkok and Rio de Janeiro. After leaving the military, his path moved through business, nonprofit leadership, operations, veteran advocacy, entrepreneurship, and his own difficult transitions.
Together, Mike and Cliff explore Fear — The 9th Silent War and a question many veterans and high performers need to ask themselves:
Am I really waiting because I’m not ready—or am I waiting because taking action would force me to face uncertainty?
Cliff talks openly about what happened when he took off the uniform.
For a Marine, service is more than a job. The identity, community, mission, structure, and camaraderie become deeply ingrained. Cliff describes leaving active duty as almost hanging his identity in the closet along with the uniform.
He eventually found purpose again through veteran service organizations and helping other veterans. But when that role later ended, he found himself back in what he describes as a dark valley.
That experience taught him an important lesson:
When your identity becomes completely attached to a role, transition becomes much harder when the role disappears.
But this conversation goes even deeper into the ways fear prevents us from building what comes next.
Cliff calls one of those patterns productive hesitation.
You may look extremely busy. You may be researching, planning, learning, organizing, tweaking, or preparing.
But nothing is actually moving.
Cliff shares how this showed up when launching businesses, beginning his podcast, and writing his book. At one point, only about ten pages into writing, he spent an entire day researching literary agents.
It felt productive.
But it wasn’t moving the book forward.
He experienced the same pattern while launching a staffing company with his wife. Instead of filing the LLC, finding an office, or getting clients, he spent days developing the perfect acronym for the company name.
The work itself wasn’t useless.
The timing was.
That is where productive preparation can quietly become avoidance.
This conversation directly connects to several of The 10 Silent Wars:
Fear — The 9th Silent War: “What am I avoiding because I’m afraid of failure, rejection, success, or uncertainty?”
Identity — The 1st Silent War: “Who am I when the role I built myself around changes?”
Mission — The 2nd Silent War: “What am I moving toward now?”
Control — The 4th Silent War: “Am I trying to eliminate every unknown before I allow myself to act?”
Direction — The 8th Silent War: “Do I need the entire roadmap—or just enough direction to take the next step?”
Cliff breaks down his Action Under Friction Method into a practical process.
First, acknowledge what is happening.
Say it.
“I’m hesitating.”
“I’m afraid this will fail.”
“I’m afraid people will reject me.”
“I’m afraid this might actually succeed and I won’t know how to handle what comes next.”
Then understand where the friction is coming from.
Finally, move forward.
Not by solving the entire problem.
By taking one step.
That first imperfect action creates information, confidence, and clarity that another week of thinking may never provide.
Mike and Cliff also discuss why capable people can know exactly what they need to do and still freeze under pressure. The brain can create entire future scenarios around rejection, conflict, embarrassment, and failure—many of which never actually happen.
Sometimes the most useful question is simply:
Is what I’m telling myself actually true?
And Cliff gives listeners a practical challenge they can use immediately.
Write down the thing you have been avoiding.
Then answer:
What is the benefit of moving it forward?
What is the cost of not moving forward?
What action will I take?
When will I complete it?
How will I hold myself accountable?
You do not need to become fearless first.
You need to learn how to move while the friction is still there.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why fear can disguise itself as preparation and productivity
What Cliff means by productive hesitation
How military transition can disrupt identity, mission, and belonging
Why fear of failure, rejection, and even success can stop capable people
How Cliff’s Action Under Friction Method helps identify what is really creating resistance
Why waiting for complete clarity can keep you stuck
How taking action can actually create the clarity you were waiting for
Why imperfect execution often teaches more than endless preparation
How to recognize when you are researching instead of progressing
A simple exercise you can use today to turn hesitation into action
Before moving on, ask yourself:
Am I waiting—or am I acting?
And if you already know what the next step is, you probably don’t need another week to think about it.
Take the step.
Start by connecting with the Your Thoughts, Your Reality community and explore more conversations around The 10 Silent Wars:
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Learn more about Clifford Sosamon, the Action Under Friction Method, and his Execution Under Pressure work:
👉 https://executionunderpressurespeaker.com/
Listen to the Tailgate Chat podcast:
👉 https://tailgatechatpodcast.com/
And when you’re ready to go deeper and create meaningful change in your mindset, identity, and direction:
👉 https://empowerperformancestrategies.com/
Because your thoughts shape your reality…
And sometimes the thing standing between you and the next chapter isn’t fear itself.
It’s waiting for the fear to disappear before you move.
#Fear #TheNinthSilentWar #CliffordSosamon #ActionUnderFriction #ExecutionUnderPressure #MilitaryTransition #Veterans #Leadership #FearOfFailure #PersonalGrowth #The10SilentWars #YourThoughtsYourReality
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What happens when you spent decades being the person who had to be ready for what could go wrong—and suddenly, nobody needs you to carry that responsibility anymore?
The radio gets quieter.
The routine changes.
The emergencies belong to someone else.
But your brain may not immediately understand that the mission has changed.
In this episode of Your Thoughts, Your Reality, Michael Cole sits down with Judy Crockett, who spent 33 years with Utah State University Public Safety and served as the university’s emergency manager. Her career included emergency preparedness, campus alert systems, critical-incident planning, and helping people prepare for the moments nobody ever wants to happen.
Today, Judy is a Certified Brain Health Trainer and Neuroencoding Specialist, founder of the Thrive Tribe, and is building a new mission focused on helping first responders protect their brain health and prepare for life beyond the role.
Together, Mike and Judy explore Identity — The 1st Silent War and a transition many veterans, first responders, and public-safety professionals understand:
Who are you when people no longer need you in the same way they once did?
For years, Judy would walk into work thinking about the worst-case scenario.
Could today be the day of an active shooter?
Were the alert systems working?
Was everyone prepared?
Even the sound of opening her morning Diet Coke became connected to the beginning of that state of readiness.
Then she retired.
The responsibility stopped almost overnight—but the conditioning did not.
Judy describes retirement as a genuine grieving process. She loved public safety, the camaraderie, the mission, and knowing that what she did mattered. When it disappeared, she had to learn something that became central to her transition:
Being needed and being valued are not the same thing.
Leaving the role did not diminish her value.
But emotionally understanding that took time.
This conversation connects directly to several of The 10 Silent Wars:
Identity — The 1st Silent War: “Who am I when the role that defined so much of my life is gone?”
Mission — The 2nd Silent War: “What gives me something meaningful to move toward now?”
Connection — The 3rd Silent War: “Who are my people when the professional relationships and camaraderie change?”
Control — The 4th Silent War: “Can I recognize a potential threat without feeling responsible for controlling it?”
Direction — The 8th Silent War: “How do I intentionally prepare for the next chapter before the old one ends?”
One of Judy’s biggest messages is simple:
Do not wait until retirement to start thinking about what comes next.
Have something that pulls you forward.
It does not have to be another career. It could be volunteering, learning something new, physical activity, a hobby, time with family, or discovering a new way to use the strengths you spent decades building.
Judy also talks about the hidden cost of constant preparedness.
She shares a moment at the Pro Bowl when, instead of enjoying some of the best football players in the world, she found herself focused on a fight developing in the crowd.
Her public-safety brain was still working.
The skill was not necessarily the problem.
The challenge was learning when it was appropriate to use it—and when it was safe to come back to the present.
Mike and Judy discuss practical ways to interrupt those automatic patterns, including recognizing automatic negative thoughts, asking whether a thought is actually true, changing physical state, movement, breathing, smiling, getting outside, and intentionally redirecting attention.
Judy’s approach is not about erasing the awareness that made someone effective in public safety.
It is about learning that awareness does not always have to become alarm.
And when the professional touchpoints disappear, connection becomes even more important.
That is part of why Judy created the Thrive Tribe—a place centered around connection, growth, self-care, and having people who support one another through life’s transitions.
Because rebuilding identity is not always about finding another title.
Sometimes it is about finding your people again.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why retirement from public safety can feel like grieving a loss
How being needed can quietly become tied to identity
Why your value does not disappear when your professional role ends
How decades of preparedness can follow you into retirement
The difference between useful awareness and constantly anticipating danger
Why preparing for transition should begin before your final day on the job
How learning, movement, sleep, nutrition, and connection can support your next chapter
How Judy challenges automatic negative thoughts
Why maintaining relationships matters when professional touchpoints disappear
How the strengths built in one mission can become part of an entirely new one
If something in this conversation resonated with you, take a minute before moving on.
Ask yourself:
If the alerts stopped tomorrow, what part of me would still know who I am?
And if you are approaching retirement or another major transition, ask one more:
What am I building now that will give me something meaningful to move toward then?
Start by connecting with the Your Thoughts, Your Reality community and explore more conversations around The 10 Silent Wars:
👉 https://yourthoughtsyourreality.com/
Watch the full conversations and subscribe to the Your Thoughts, Your Reality YouTube channel:
👉 https://www.youtube.com/@YourThoughtsYourReality
Learn more about Judy Crockett, her brain-health work, the Thrive Tribe, and the programs she is building for first responders:
👉 https://brainthrivezone.com/
👉 judy@thebraincommander.com
And when you’re ready to go deeper and create meaningful change in your mindset, identity, and direction:
👉 https://empowerperformancestrategies.com/
Because your thoughts shape your reality…
And when the alerts stop, your value, experience, and ability to make a difference do not stop with them.
#Identity #TheFirstSilentWar #JudyCrockett #FirstResponders #PublicSafety #Retirement #MilitaryTransition #BrainHealth #ThriveTribe #EmergencyManagement #The10SilentWars #YourThoughtsYourReality
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What happens when the uniform comes off—but the part of you that wants to serve is still there?
Military life gives you a mission, a team, structure, and a reason people are counting on you.
Then transition comes, and nobody hands you the next set of orders.
For a married couple who have both served, the question becomes even more interesting:
How do you build the next mission together without trying to recreate the life you just left?
In this episode of Your Thoughts, Your Reality, Michael Cole sits down with Air Force veterans Justin and Misty Williams, husband and wife and founders of Bombshell Suds Company.
Justin served more than 20 years in Air Force Security Forces, including about a decade as a military working dog handler. Misty is an Air Force veteran and registered nurse whose healthcare background helps shape the couple’s approach to skin care, ingredients, health, and function.
Together, Mike, Justin, and Misty explore Mission — The 2nd Silent War and what happens when purpose is no longer assigned to you.
For Justin, retiring from the military itself was not the hardest part.
The bigger question was:
“What now?”
Misty found another way to serve through nursing, fitness, and helping others. Justin found himself searching for what would pull him toward the next chapter.
That distinction becomes one of the strongest themes in this conversation.
There is a difference between doing something because you have to and finding something you genuinely get to do.
Justin describes Bombshell Suds as something that can keep him up late and get him up early without feeling like another obligation. What began after seeing handmade soap at a Texas market and thinking, “I bet I can make this,” gradually became something much bigger.
They experimented.
They changed formulas.
They worked on longevity, dry skin, scents, and the experience of actually using the product.
Then customers began coming back.
Families started referring other families.
And what started as an idea began feeling like a mission.
This conversation directly connects to several of The 10 Silent Wars:
Mission — The 2nd Silent War: “What are we choosing to build now that nobody else is assigning the mission?” 
Identity — The 1st Silent War: “Who are we after military service becomes part of our past rather than our daily role?” 
Connection — The 3rd Silent War: “How do we stay connected as spouses while also becoming business partners?” 
Control — The 4th Silent War: “What can we actually control when entrepreneurship is unpredictable?” 
Direction — The 8th Silent War: “How do we know when we’ve found something worth moving toward?” 
Justin and Misty also get honest about something many couples who work together understand:
Marriage does not have rank.
The work ethic, persistence, and “no quit” mentality they developed through military life have helped them tremendously as entrepreneurs.
But some military habits do not belong at home.
Misty jokes that Justin cannot “pull rank” on her, and they discuss the importance of remembering that your spouse is not one of your troops or employees.
For them, working together requires communication, flexibility, asking for help, and recognizing that both partners will not always be operating at 100%.
Sometimes one person carries more.
Sometimes the other does.
The mission still belongs to both of them.
Misty also brings another perspective into the conversation through nursing: you cannot serve everyone else indefinitely while completely neglecting yourself.
She sees what can happen when people spend years pouring into everyone around them while ignoring their own physical, mental, and emotional health.
Self-care is not separate from mission.
It is part of maintaining the person responsible for carrying it.
Justin and Misty ultimately describe their next chapter in a simple way:
Their commitment to service did not disappear.
The mission changed.
Instead of serving inside a military organization, they are building something of their own—one product, one customer, one family, and one bar of soap at a time.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
 Why transition can be less about leaving the military and more about finding what comes next 
 How Justin and Misty experienced military transition differently 
 What it feels like when a new purpose begins pulling you toward it 
 How Bombshell Suds grew from an experiment into a family mission 
 Which military habits helped them become stronger business partners 
 Which military leadership habits absolutely do not belong in a marriage 
 Why communication matters when spouses live and work together 
 How Misty’s nursing experience shapes their approach to health and self-care 
 Why entrepreneurship requires focusing on what you can actually control 
 How service can remain part of your identity even when the mission itself changes 
If this conversation resonated with you, ask yourself:
What are we building now?
Maybe your next mission is not a business.
Maybe it is your family, your health, your marriage, your community, or an idea you cannot seem to stop thinking about.
Pay attention to what keeps pulling you back.
There may be a reason.
Start by connecting with the Your Thoughts, Your Reality community and explore more conversations around The 10 Silent Wars:
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Watch the full conversations and subscribe to the Your Thoughts, Your Reality YouTube channel:
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Support Justin and Misty’s dual-veteran, family-run business and learn more about Bombshell Suds Company:
👉 https://bombshellsudsco.com/
And when you’re ready to go deeper and create meaningful change in your mindset, identity, and direction:
👉 https://empowerperformancestrategies.com/
Because your thoughts shape your reality…
And sometimes your next mission is not something you are given.
It is something you choose to build together.
#Mission #TheSecondSilentWar #JustinWilliams #MistyWilliams #BombshellSuds #VeteranOwnedBusiness #MilitaryTransition #VeteranEntrepreneurs #MilitaryFamily #Entrepreneurship #The10SilentWars #YourThoughtsYourReality
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What happens when the version of you that keeps everyone safe starts costing you the people you love?
For men in policing, military service, first response, and other high-pressure careers, control, vigilance, emotional restraint, and the ability to stay composed under pressure can become part of who you are.
Those traits may make you exceptional at the job.
But what happens when they never switch off?
In this episode of Your Thoughts, Your Reality, Michael Cole sits down with Chris Chandler-Yates, a former New Zealand police officer who spent seven and a half years in law enforcement, including nearly four years in protection services.
Burnout and PTSD eventually forced Chris to confront what the job had changed—not only in his health, but in his identity, his behavior, and his marriage.
Today, Chris is a men’s coach, speaker, and host of Motivated Masculine Men, where he focuses on burnout, relationships, purpose, and healthier definitions of masculinity.
Together, Mike and Chris explore Identity — The 1st Silent War and a question that goes far beyond leaving a uniform or badge behind:
Which parts of the person you became still serve you—and which parts are hurting the life you were trying to protect?
Chris speaks openly about how quickly policing began changing him. He remembers becoming more reactive, increasingly hyperaware, emotionally shut down, and constantly prepared for something to go wrong.
Eventually, things deteriorated to the point that he nearly cheated on his wife and told her he wanted a divorce.
Instead of walking away, his wife challenged him to get help.
A counselor recognized burnout and probable PTSD and encouraged him to step away. What followed became part of Chris’s rebuilding process: a three-month, roughly 8,000-mile motorcycle journey designed to help him reconnect with himself.
That trip became more than an escape.
It became an opportunity to ask:
Who am I underneath the cop?
Chris describes how policing taught him to switch into a particular persona—the person who needed to remain alert, controlled, and capable when everyone else was moving away from danger.
Mike and Chris discuss the importance of learning how to intentionally “switch off” that identity when the shift ends. Chris shares examples of officers using physical anchors—zipping up a vest, tying boots, or entering the station—to signal when the professional role begins and ends.
Because the goal is not to eliminate the warrior.
It is learning when you need him.
This conversation directly connects to several of The 10 Silent Wars:
Identity — The 1st Silent War: “Who am I beyond the badge, uniform, or role?” 
Control — The 4th Silent War: “Can I stop trying to control everything around me just to feel safe?” 
Connection — The 3rd Silent War: “Can I communicate honestly enough to stay connected to the people I love?” 
Emotional Armor — The 7th Silent War: “What protected me on the job but keeps me closed off at home?” 
Trust — The 5th Silent War: “Can I safely open up, ask for help, and let someone see what I’m carrying?” 
One of the strongest themes in this episode is communication.
Chris describes trauma like putting rotten fruit into a box and hiding it away. You may surround it with good memories and keep functioning, but if you never deal with what is inside, eventually it begins affecting everything around it.
For Chris, asking for help was not about becoming weaker.
It was about becoming a better husband, a better man, and a healthier version of himself.
He and Mike also talk candidly about marriage and why real connection often requires taking off the emotional “vest” and allowing yourself to be vulnerable.
Chris credits brutal honesty and communication as major reasons his marriage survived some of its darkest moments.
His message to men is simple:
You can still be strong.
You can still protect.
You can still run toward danger when everyone else is running away.
Just don’t lose yourself in the process.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
 How high-pressure careers can quietly become part of your identity 
 Why traits that make you effective professionally can damage relationships at home 
 How burnout and PTSD began showing up in Chris’s behavior and marriage 
 What his 8,000-mile motorcycle journey helped him rediscover 
 How intentional anchors can help separate work identity from home identity 
 Why risk-taking can become a way of trying to feel something again 
 How unprocessed trauma can begin affecting every other part of life 
 Why asking for help is an act of courage rather than weakness 
 How honest communication can rebuild connection in a relationship 
 Why healthy masculinity includes knowing when to put the armor down 
If something in this conversation sounded familiar, don’t just move on.
Ask yourself:
What part of the person I became to survive am I still carrying into places where I no longer need it?
Then do what Chris says changed everything for him:
Communicate.
Start by connecting with the Your Thoughts, Your Reality community and explore more conversations around The 10 Silent Wars:
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Watch the full conversations and subscribe to the Your Thoughts, Your Reality YouTube channel:
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Learn more about Chris Chandler-Yates and the Motivated Masculine Men podcast:
👉 https://motivatedmasculinemen.com/
And when you’re ready to go deeper and create meaningful change in your mindset, identity, and direction:
👉 https://empowerperformancestrategies.com/
Chris’s motto is “Train hard, test easy.”
Because life will continue to test us—and sometimes real strength means training ourselves not only to put the armor on, but to know when it is finally safe to take it off.
#Identity #TheFirstSilentWar #ChrisChandlerYates #MotivatedMasculineMen #PTSD #Burnout #HealthyMasculinity #FirstResponders #Veterans #Relationships #EmotionalArmor #The10SilentWars #YourThoughtsYourReality
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When did you first start questioning whether you were good enough?
For many people, that story begins early—through grades, sports, appearance, approval, responsibility, or trying to become the version of ourselves we believe others will accept.
Over time, those messages can become part of our identity until we stop asking who we are and start measuring ourselves by how well we perform.
In this episode of Your Thoughts, Your Reality, Michael Cole sits down with Laura Ollinger, a teen and parent well-being coach, motivational youth speaker, mom of four teens, National Board Certified Health and Wellness Coach, Neuroencoding Specialist, and host of the Positively Healthy Mom podcast.
Together, Mike and Laura explore Identity — The 1st Silent War and one of the most important questions we can ask:
Who gets to decide who you are?
Laura shares the idea behind her signature message, The Decider, and how her own personal work led to a powerful realization:
“I’m the decider of my worth.”
That idea becomes the center of this conversation.
Mike and Laura discuss how self-doubt can form, how achievement can become tied to identity, and how parents can unintentionally reinforce the belief that worth is something that must be earned.
They also explore the difference between praising outcomes and recognizing effort, courage, growth, and willingness to try.
Because when someone only feels seen after the grade, the goal, the win, or the accomplishment, they can begin to believe:
“I matter when I perform.”
This conversation directly connects to several of The 10 Silent Wars:
Identity — The 1st Silent War: “Whose voice gets to define who I am?” 
Self-Worth — The 6th Silent War: “Is my value based on what I accomplish?” 
Connection — The 3rd Silent War: “Do I still belong when I disappoint someone?” 
Control — The 4th Silent War: “Can I allow someone I love to make their own choices?” 
Direction — The 8th Silent War: “Am I learning to make decisions for myself?” 
Mike and Laura also discuss the fine line between protection and control.
Technology, monitoring, rescuing, and trying to prevent every mistake can come from love—but they can also unintentionally communicate:
“I don’t trust you to figure this out.”
Laura explains the importance of autonomy support: giving teens and young adults age-appropriate opportunities to make decisions, experience consequences, and build confidence through real-life problem solving.
Because confidence does not come from never failing.
It comes from discovering:
“I made a mistake—and I can handle what comes next.”
The conversation also goes deeper into generational patterns.
What did you have to do growing up to receive attention, praise, acceptance, or love?
What did your family teach you about success, failure, image, responsibility, and worth?
And which of those messages might you be carrying forward without realizing it?
Laura’s message is not about blaming yourself or your parents.
It is about awareness.
Once you recognize the patterns that shaped you, you can decide which ones you want to keep—and which ones stop with you.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
 When self-doubt and identity struggles can begin developing 
 What Laura means by becoming “The Decider”
 Why self-worth and achievement can become dangerously connected 
 How praising effort and courage can build healthier confidence 
 Why over-rescuing can undermine resilience and independence 
 How autonomy support helps teens learn to trust themselves 
 How family patterns shape identity across generations 
 Why perfectionism, anxiety, procrastination, and shutdown can be connected 
 How open-ended curiosity can create more connection than criticism 
 Why meaningful change can start with one small action 
If this conversation made you recognize something in yourself, your children, or the way you were raised, don’t use that awareness as another reason to judge yourself.
Use it as information.
Ask yourself:
Whose voice has been deciding who I am—and is it time for me to become the decider?
Start by connecting with the Your Thoughts, Your Reality community and explore more conversations around The 10 Silent Wars:
👉 https://yourthoughtsyourreality.com/
Watch the full conversations and subscribe to the Your Thoughts, Your Reality YouTube channel:
👉 https://www.youtube.com/@YourThoughtsYourReality
Learn more about Laura Ollinger, The Decider, her teen and parent coaching, school speaking, and the Positively Healthy Mom podcast:
👉 https://positivelyhealthycoaching.com/
And when you’re ready to go deeper and create meaningful change in your mindset, identity, and direction:
👉 https://empowerperformancestrategies.com/
Because your thoughts shape your reality…
And sometimes the first step toward becoming who you are is deciding that your worth is no longer up for debate.
#Identity #TheFirstSilentWar #LauraOllinger #TheDecider #SelfWorth #ParentingTeens #TeenMentalHealth #Confidence #EmotionalRegulation #Neuroencoding #The10SilentWars #YourThoughtsYourReality
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