Love and Money Podcast

• Avoiding Financial Pitfalls in Divorce with Brooke Summerhill

  When it comes to divorce, not knowing what you don’t know can cost you a lot. Brooke Summerhill is a financial consultant who works with ultra-high-net-worth families during divorce, bringing together financial strategy and emotional insight. Her consultative approach focuses on helping women avoid costly mistakes, gain clarity, and feel empowered during the divorce process. In this episode, Brooke and Tracy dive into the most common financial pitfalls women face in divorce... and how to sidestep them with confidence. Whether you're negotiating the house, retirement, or child-related expenses, this is the conversation every woman needs before signing a settlement. Key takeaways from this episode: Why “keeping the house” could be a financial trap if you don’t run the numbers The importance of reframing language: It’s OUR retirement, OUR business What to consider before accepting promises about college or long-term support How working with a financial professional can lead to a better, more creative settlement Why your personal values should guide your financial decisions during divorce Brooke helps women build financial clarity and confidence through one-on-one consulting. To connect with her and learn more about her work at The Summerhill Firm, head here: https://www.summerhillfirm.com/

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• Rewrite Your Divorce Story with Courage and Confidence with Andrea Owen

  Divorce can shake your confidence, but what if you could rewrite your story—and come out stronger than ever? This week, Tracy Coenen sits down with Andrea Owen, an author, keynote speaker, and life coach who helps high-achieving women take control of their lives. Having been through two divorces herself, Andrea knows firsthand what it’s like to question your self-worth and wonder what’s next. She’s here to help you shift your mindset, silence self-doubt, and step boldly into your next chapter. This is a conversation about shedding shame, rewriting your story, and deciding that your next chapter is going to be your best one yet. You’ll hear about Andrea’s personal journey, the power of mindset reframes, and the one question she wants every woman to ask herself: What’s my conditioning vs. what’s my truth? What you’ll learn in this episode: Why divorce doesn’t mean failure, and how to reframe it as a powerful transformation How to rebuild your self-confidence even when you feel like you’ve hit rock bottom The emotional toll of separation and why it's totally normal to feel like a mess The dangers of toxic positivity and why ignoring your pain won’t help you heal How to stop comparing your journey to others and start owning your path The role of boundaries, self-advocacy, and asking for what you really want. Andrea shares how to stop giving your power away, start using empowering language, and surround yourself with people who actually support your growth—not reinforce your shame. How to rebuild confidence and claim your power post-divorce: Your marriage ending is not a personal failure, it’s part of your evolution. Confidence isn’t something you’re born with. It’s built through experience. Feel the feelings, then take action—rage, grief, and growth can all exist together Stop letting fear and self-doubt dictate your decisions. You are allowed to take up space, set boundaries, and ask for what you want. Andrea’s newly updated book 52 Ways to Live a Kick-Ass Life is filled with bite-sized personal development nuggets to keep on your nightstand and revisit any time you need a boost: https://amzn.to/4j7eEBr Tune in now to learn how to ditch the shame and start writing a new story—one where you are confident, courageous, and 100% in charge. #DivorceConfidence #RewriteYourStory #EmpoweredWomen

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• No Kids, No Problem? The Truth About Childfree Divorce with Dr. Jay Zigmont

  You don’t need kids to experience a complex, emotional, and expensive divorce—just ask anyone who’s been through one. In this eye-opening episode, Tracy talks with Dr. Jay Zigmont, Certified Financial Planner and founder of Childfree Wealth, about what it really means to navigate marriage, money, and divorce without children in the picture. Jay and Tracy dive into the unique challenges (and surprising advantages) that childfree individuals face during and after divorce. From planning for long-term care to rewriting financial expectations and building community, this episode is a must-listen if you’re divorced, divorcing, or simply living life on your own terms—no diaper bags required. What you’ll learn in this episode: Why divorce without kids is not always easier—and what makes it different The major financial planning mistakes childfree people make (especially during divorce) How to build your safety net and support system when there’s no “next of kin” What to do with your powers of attorney, beneficiaries, and estate plans post-divorce How childfree divorcees can avoid common traps and create a confident financial future Tracy and Jay also explore the idea of choosing whether or not to marry—and how legal, financial, and emotional considerations all come into play, especially without the “stay together for the kids” factor. Whether you’re childfree by choice or circumstance, this episode offers powerful, practical advice for owning your future, protecting yourself financially, and designing a life that fits you—not some outdated playbook. Get Dr. Jay's new book The Childfree Guide to Life and Money: https://amzn.to/3XALmD9 Your life. Your money. Your rules. Tune in now and get empowered to build your future—without apology. #ChildfreeDivorce #FinancialPlanning #DivorceSupport #NoKidsNoProblem

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• Coercive Control: The Underpinning of Abuse with Dr. Christine Cocchiola

  Abuse isn’t always physical. In fact, some of the most damaging abuse leaves no bruises—but it can destroy your confidence, your finances, and even your relationship with your kids. This week, Tracy Coenen sits down with Dr. Christine Cocchiola, trauma-trained therapist, researcher, and creator of the Protective Parenting Program. With over 20 years of experience in social work and domestic abuse advocacy, Christine brings both professional expertise and personal insight to the conversation. She’s here to expose the truth about coercive control—what it looks like, how it damages families, and how women can fight back in the face of this insidious abuse. Tune in to learn the truth about this type of abuse: What coercive control really is—and why it’s the root of all types of abuse How abusers manipulate, gaslight, and isolate their victims without ever laying a hand The devastating impact coercive control has on children—and why the “don’t put kids in the middle” advice can backfire How abusers weaponize the family court system to continue their control Why traditional therapy often fails victims of coercive control—and what actually helps Coercive control can be subtle or overt, but the goal is always the same: to dominate and diminish. Dr. Cocchiola breaks down how this abuse operates—and what you can do to protect yourself and your kids, even when the system feels stacked against you. How to protect yourself and your children from coercive control: Understand that post-separation abuse is real—and often escalates after you leave Learn how to name and validate your children’s experiences without badmouthing the other parent Shift from reacting emotionally to responding strategically—especially in court Know when to let go of the “win” to protect your peace and your children’s safety Drop truth bombs, set boundaries, and disengage—while staying grounded in reality Check out this episode to get the tools, language, and confidence to recognize coercive control, set healthy boundaries, and support your children through the chaos. Resources & Links: Dr. Cocchiola’s book FRAMED: Women in the Family Court Underworld : https://amzn.to/3ZjUHz5 Visit Dr. Cocchiola's website: https://www.coercivecontrolconsulting.com/

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• Becoming the CEO of Your Divorce with Meagan Norris

  When your marriage ends, it can feel like everything is spinning out of control. But what if you could step into the driver’s seat and take charge of your divorce like a CEO? Meagan Norris is a certified life coach and attorney who helps women stop reacting and start leading. In this episode, she joins Tracy to talk about what it really means to be the CEO of your divorce—how to show up with clarity, strength, and purpose, even when you’re scared or overwhelmed. This isn’t about having all the answers. It’s about being the one who decides what happens next. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why you don’t need to wait until you “feel ready” to take control How outsourcing decisions during divorce can backfire What it looks like to lead your legal process instead of getting dragged through it The small mindset shifts that build major confidence  How to own your power, even when you’re still grieving This conversation is for every woman who’s been told she’s “too emotional,” “too confused,” or “not strong enough” to handle her own divorce. Meagan’s here to remind you: you are already the expert on your life. It’s time to start acting like it. How to Take Control of Your Divorce Like a CEO: Ditch the shame and guilt—it’s not helping you Ask better questions (you’re allowed to be curious!) Make informed decisions with confidence—even the hard ones Build a team that supports your vision, not just your ex’s demands Remember: leadership isn’t about perfection—it’s about intention Tune in now if you’re ready to stop surviving your divorce and start leading it—with clarity, power, and purpose. Resources & Links: Check out Meagan's Advanced Divorce Academy: https://meagan-norris.mykajabi.com/ Follow Meagan on Instagram for practical mindset tools and encouragement: @meagannorriscoaching

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