Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice

Fear of abandonment can quietly run your life, shaping how you think, how you react, and how safe you feel in your relationships. In today’s episode, we’re getting very real about what fear of abandonment actually looks like in adulthood and how it shows up differently depending on your attachment style. Whether you identify as anxious, avoidant, or disorganized, this episode will help you understand the roots of these patterns, why they feel so intense, and how they may be sabotaging your ability to experience deep, secure connection.
Inside the episode:
How fear of abandonment develops and why it’s so closely tied to insecure attachment styles
The key ways anxious, avoidant, and disorganized attachment express fear of abandonment in adult relationships
Why this fear keeps you stuck in fight-or-flight—and what becomes possible when you begin healing it

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We’ve all been there… they say all the right things, they sound so sure, and you let yourself believe this time will be different… until months (or years) later, it falls apart. In today’s episode, I’m walking you through what actually needs to be true for someone to be genuinely ready for secure, healthy love and this applies not only to the person you’re dating, but to you, too. This is about protecting your time, your energy, and your heart, and learning how to spot readiness early instead of realizing it far too late.
Inside the episode:
How to tell the difference between someone who wants a relationship and someone who actually has the capacity for secure love
The five non-negotiables that must be present for a relationship to grow instead of slowly draining you
Why emotional availability, healed attachment wounds, and feeling safe in closeness matter more than chemistry ever will

This is one of those episodes I wish I could send back in time to my younger self and one you might want to share with someone you love.
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In this final episode of our Parent Wound & Your Attachment Style series, we’re talking about what inner child healing really is and why insight alone isn’t enough to create secure attachment. If you’ve done the self-work, listened to the podcasts, and still feel stuck in the same relationship patterns, this episode will help you understand what’s actually missing. True healing happens when we teach the nervous system that it’s safe now, and today I’m walking you through how inner child work, mother wounds, father wounds, and secure attachment all connect.
Inside the episode:
What inner child healing truly involves - nervous system rewiring, emotional regulation, re-parenting yourself, and building earned secure attachment
How mother wounds and father wounds show up in adulthood, shaping your relationship with emotions, self-worth, feedback, and love
The three requirements for becoming securely attached, including creating safety in your body, developing self-trust through re-parenting, and choosing emotionally available relationships

This episode is about moving out of survival mode and into safety, not just in your thoughts, but in your body. When you heal your inner child at a nervous system level, your patterns begin to change, your standards rise, and secure relationships stop feeling unfamiliar and start feeling natural.
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In this episode of Let’s Get Vulnerable, we continue our 3-part series The Parent Wound & Your Attachment Style by exploring how the father wound shapes the way you experience love, intimacy, and self-worth. I’m breaking down how emotional absence, inconsistency, criticism, or unpredictability from a father figure wires your nervous system and becomes the blueprint for the partners you choose, the dynamics you repeat, and what feels “normal” in love. If you’ve ever found yourself overgiving, avoiding closeness, or feeling unsafe with emotionally available partners, this episode will help you understand why and what actually heals it.
Inside the episode:
What the father wound is and why it shapes love so deeply, including how approval, protection, and being chosen become core attachment needs
How the father wound shows up in anxious, avoidant, and disorganized attachment, influencing who you’re attracted to and why certain relationships feel familiar
What it takes to heal the father wound, from grieving what you didn’t receive to updating your relationship model and learning to choose emotionally available partners

This work is about understanding your patterns without shame, reconnecting to your sense of worth, and rewiring what love feels like in your body. You are not broken—your nervous system learned what it needed to survive, and it can learn something new.
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🔗 Additional Episode Links:
Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz → https://drmorgancoaching.com/quiz
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In today’s episode, I’m opening up a brand-new series that I felt deeply called to create, Parent Wound and Your Attachment Style. We’re starting with the mother wound and how early caregiving experiences shape your attachment style, your nervous system, and the way you show up in romantic relationships. If you’ve ever noticed yourself spiraling in dating, pulling away when things get close, or repeating painful relationship cycles, this conversation will help you understand why and more importantly, remind you that these patterns are not permanent. This episode is about awareness, compassion, and reconnecting to the part of you that deserves safety, attunement, and secure love.
Inside the Episode
How the mother wound forms and how emotional attunement, comfort, delight, and repair shape your internal working model of love
The connection between the mother wound and anxious, avoidant, and disorganized attachment styles in adult relationships
Why self-soothing, self-compassion, and emotional regulation are learned and how these patterns can be rewired through healing and support

This episode is Part 1 of a 3-part series. In the next episode, we’ll explore the Father wound and how it influences attraction, safety, and self-worth. In Part 3, we’ll bring it all together with inner child healing and the path to becoming securely attached.
🔗 Additional Episode Links:
Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz → https://drmorgancoaching.com/quiz
Follow me on IG → @drmorgancoaching
Grab my book: Grab my best selling book Love Magnet