Language isn’t just about words—it’s about intention. In this episode, we dive into why phrases like ‘thanks’ instead of ‘thank you,’ ‘love you’ instead of ‘I love you,’ and ‘sorry’ instead of ‘I’m sorry’ can leave relationships feeling hollow. These half-phrases might seem small, but they carry weight. I’ll share why I refuse to accept them and why you should, too. Discover how words can deepen connection, honor effort, and rebuild sincerity in a world starving for authenticity. Say it whole, or don’t say it at all.
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S06E01: Beyond the Big Milestones
Join me as I share a personal journey of shifting focus from grand, flashy achievements to the tiny, often overlooked wins that truly fuel our motivation and confidence.
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S05E20: Softening the Blow (Season Finale)
Have you ever been your own harshest critic? In this episode, we'll explore the weight of self-punishment and the liberating power of self-compassion. Join me as we journey beyond guilt and shame, and discover the gentle art of treating ourselves with kindness.
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#1: EXTROVERTED CONVOs
The series — Extroverted Convos intends to connect with a lot of people, get inside their heads/ minds, meet new people, create new bonds too and just have random conversations. This series would be published once a month. The episode has Aniebietabasi, interviewing random people in Uyo. I hope you enjoy this one😁
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S05E05: Neesh/Nitche (with Joshua Idehen)
This episode promises to be mind blowing as Valerie had a wonderful conversation with UK based performance poet and writer — Joshua Idehen. Some of his songs played in this episode; “Field Negus” and “I Got You Every Step of the Way” can be found on any of your favorite streaming platforms. Do well to also listen to his new project called ‘Best Kind of Lost’. With my heart, I hope you enjoy this episode as we enjoyed making it. Before I forget, Joshua recited a poem too😁
Close your eyes, wear your ear plugs too as you're about to dive into the mind of Valerie. I hope you enjoy your stay😁.
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