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THIS Is Why Avoidants Prefer Casual Relationships Over Committed Ones!
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Are you confused about why your partner keeps avoiding commitment? Learn the hidden fears driving dismissive avoidants and what you can do to create clarity and deeper connection in your relationships.
In today’s episode, Thais Gibson delves into the psychology behind why dismissive avoidants prefer casual relationships over-committed ones. Learn how fears of vulnerability, emotional neglect, and subconscious conditioning contribute to their behavior, and discover actionable steps to navigate these dynamics effectively. Listen now to uncover how communication and self-awareness can transform your approach to relationships.
Timestamps
00:00:00 – Why Avoidants Prefer Casual Relationships
00:00:33 – The Frustration of Feeling Stuck in Limbo
00:01:01 – The Three Core Reasons Avoidants Avoid Commitment
00:01:22 – Understanding the Dismissive Avoidant’s Fear of Vulnerability
00:02:05 – Emotional Neglect and its Long-Term Impact on Attachment
00:03:37 – How the Subconscious Mind Drives Avoidant Behaviors
00:05:12 – Misconceptions About People-Pleasing in Relationships
00:06:16 – Why Dismissive Avoidants Fear Feeling Trapped
00:08:44 – The Role of Self-Sabotage in Avoidant Dynamics
00:10:01 – Avoidants’ Search for Perfection to Avoid Conflict
00:13:15 – How to Break the Cycle: Communication and Inner Work
00:15:25 – Final Thoughts: Finding Closure and Certainty
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THIS Is How A Fearful Avoidant Feels After A Break Up!
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In this insightful episode, Thais Gibson and Mike DiZio explore the inner world of the fearful avoidant attachment style during and after a breakup. Whether you're a fearful avoidant or someone trying to understand a partner with this attachment style, this episode sheds light on the complexities of their behavior and provides actionable strategies for healing and rebuilding trust in relationships.
Timestamps
00:00 - Intro
02:13 - How Fearful Avoidants Process a Break Up
08:02 - Reconnecting with an Ex
10:40 - Expressing Needs and Vulnerability
14:58 - Relief After a Break Up
19:33 - 14-Day Free Trial: All Access Membership Pass
20:23 - After Breaking Up with an FA
23:17 - On-Again, Off-Again Relationships
28:02 - Love Languages and Expressing Needs
37:36 - Mike and Thais’ Shares on Love Language Needs
37:36 - Translate Expectations to Needs
47:01 - When to Reconnect with an FA Ex
51:00 - How Long Does the Reconnection Last?
52:43 - How They Seem VS How They Feel
54:53 - Conclusion
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THIS Is Why Avoidants Seem Fine After A Break Up
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In this episode, we dive deep into the dismissive avoidant attachment style and uncover why they often seem cold and unaffected after a breakup. Hosts Thais Gibson and Mike DiZio share personal insights, real-life examples, and professional expertise on attachment styles, discussing the intricate dynamics behind dismissive avoidance post-breakup behavior. Learn about the emotional boomerang effect, the role of subconscious conditioning, and how different attachment styles cope with breakups.
They also explore key strategies for healing, whether you’re navigating a breakup or working toward secure attachment. If you’ve ever felt confused or hurt by a dismissive avoidant partner’s behavior—or wondered how to move on effectively—this episode provides both clarity and actionable tools.
Listen now for a compassionate, insightful conversation that sheds light on attachment styles, personal growth, and the path to fulfilling relationships.
Timestamps
00:00 - Intro
01:35 - Going through a Break Up (Mike)
04:33 - The Break Up Boomerang Effect
20:48 - 14-Day Free Trial: All Access Membership Pass
21:39 - How DAs Feel After a Break Up Over Time
38:05 - Opening Up and Getting Out of Your Comfort Zone
41:24 - Making Deeper Connections
45:24 - Why DAs Don't Appear to Struggle After a Break Up
51:28 - If You're on the Receiving End
55:28 - Conclusion
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Do THESE Things to Heal Anxiety in Relationships!
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In this episode, hosts Thais Gibson and Mike DiZio explore the journey of healing an anxious attachment style.
They break down six crucial pillars of transformation, including self-soothing, meeting your own needs, regulating the nervous system, and fostering healthy communication and boundaries.
Packed with tangible tools and relatable analogies, this deep dive empowers listeners to move from anxiety to secure attachment.
Whether you’re navigating relationships, self-growth, or emotional balance, this episode offers actionable strategies to rewrite your subconscious patterns and embrace meaningful connections.
Timestamps:
00:00 - Intro
01:59 - 6 Pillars to Become Secure
04:21 - Healing Anxious Attachment: Spend Time With Yourself
13:33 - Self-Soothing Techniques (Mike)
19:39 - Self-Soothing Techniques (Thais)
25:54 - Putting Others on Pedestals
30:22 - AquaTru
32:37 - 6 Human Needs
41:59 - Opening Up About Needs & Imbalances
43:10 - Reactive Communication
49:13 - When You Have an Unmet Need
57:58 - Conclusion
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Welcome to The Thais Gibson Podcast, where transformation happens fast and lasts a lifetime. Tune in for expert insights on breaking free from repetitive patterns, practical steps for reprogramming your subconscious mind, and empowering conversations that will inspire you to evolve into your best self across all aspects of life!