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Laura & Lyn
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  • Child Custody In Divorce: The 10 Most Common Questions
    In this eye-opening and practical episode,a seasoned family lawyer helps to unpack the 10 most frequently asked questions about child custody in Australia. Whether you're fresh out of a breakup, preparing for court, or trying to figure out what your rights are, this episode is packed with general education and emotional clarity every separated parent needs. From understanding how courts decide who gets custody, to navigating situations involving domestic violence, high-conflict co-parents, and parenting plans this episode helps you gain a better understanding of what's what in child custody issues.   🎧 Listen to This Episode If You... Are recently separated and unsure where to start Want to learn how to understand your parental rights in court Are co-parenting with someone difficult, absent, or controlling Are trying to protect your child from a harmful environment Need clarity around parenting plans vs court orders Are preparing to go to family court Feel overwhelmed by legal jargon and want straight answers ⚠️ Trigger Warning: This episode includes discussions about family and domestic violence. 📌 Legal Disclaimer: This podcast provides general information only and does not constitute legal advice. Every family law case is different, and you should always seek professional legal support specific to your circumstances.     📌 Episodes Mentioned in This Episode: Official Parenting Orders: Do I really need them? 🎧 https://open.spotify.com/episode/7xeIIHEDcFPKwtVZ54fM67?si=vwYKXPZHRRCISokEuc2D-Q Case Mentioned: Isles & Nelissen [2022] FedcFAMC1A 97 – an “unacceptable risk” family court case     📚 Links & Resources 🧾 Word Salad Checklist (Download) - https://www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/wordsaladchecklist   📞 1800 RESPECT – Support for family and domestic violence 📞 Lifeline (13 11 14) – Mental health and emotional support 📞 000 – In case of immediate danger     ⏱️ Timeline Summary 00:00 Introduction and Trigger Warnings 01:02 Understanding Child Custody 02:08 Immediate Steps After Separation 03:19 Consent Orders vs Parenting Plans 04:33 High Conflict Situations 05:56 What is the Best Interests of the Child 15:07 What is the difference between Legal vs Physical Custody 18:39 Domestic Violence and Custody 23:33 Surgical Risk and Legal Analogies 24:21 Can My Child Decide Who They Want to Live With? 24:26 Webinar Invitation: Empower Yourself Through Divorce 25:40 Can I Relocate with my child and Custody: Legal Insights 27:14 What can I do if my ex is Threatening of International Relocation 27:54 Joint Custody: Pros, Cons, and Realities 30:18 Proving an Ex is Unfit for Custody 31:26 How do you Modify and Enforce Custody Arrangements 33:30 How to Deal with Manipulative and Controlling Exes 34:08 High Conflict Custody Situations 36:20 Avoidant Exes and Custody Challenges 38:08 Final Thoughts and Support Resources       🔖 Hashtags (for Social Media) #ChildCustody #FamilyLawAustralia #ParentingAfterSeparation #HighConflictDivorce #CoParenting #FamilyCourt #LegalParenting #DomesticViolenceAwareness #SharedParenting #CustodyBattle #DivorceSupport #ConsentOrders #ParentingPlan #FamilyLawHelp #ProtectiveParenting     📌 Final Disclaimer: Nothing discussed in this episode should be taken as legal advice. Please speak with a qualified legal professional who understands your personal situation and jurisdiction. 🎙️ Episode Title: Top 10 Child Custody Questions Answered (What Parents Need to Know)
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  • What your Lawyer Might Forget to Tell You: Unlocking Funds Before Divorce PROPERTY SETTLEMENT is Final
    Feeling trapped in limbo while waiting for your property settlement to go through? You’re not alone — and there may be a way out. In this episode, I’m joined again by my mum, Lynette Galvin — a family lawyer with over 35 years of experience — and we’re talking about a powerful but underused legal option called early distribution of funds. This is a game-changer for anyone financially stuck during separation. Whether you’re separated under one roof, struggling to pay rent, or locked out of joint funds, this episode is full of practical ideas to help you understand some options. We’ll walk through how it works, who it can help, how to ask for it, and what to do if you’re facing financial abuse or coercive control. If even one person hears this and realizes they can ask for access to their own money — then this episode has done its job. Legal Disclaimer: This is not legal advice please see a lawyer before making any decisions. ⚠️ Trigger Warning: This episode discusses financial abuse and coercive control. If you find this triggering, please contact Lifeline on 13 11 14 or 1800RESPECT.     🎧 Listen to this episode if… You’ve separated from your partner but are still waiting for the property to be divided You’re struggling financially and wondering if you can access money now You’re living under the same roof as your ex and things are tense or unsafe You’ve heard “you just have to wait” from a lawyer or friend You’re dealing with financial abuse or coercive control You want to understand your rights and feel more empowered in the process You’re looking for a way to shift the balance in negotiations or court     ⏱️ Episode Timeline 0:00 - A warm welcome and why this episode matters if you’re stuck during property settlement 2:00 - What is early distribution of funds, and why more people should know about it 4:00 - Who qualifies? Scenarios from both wealthy and struggling couples 5:45 - Why financial abuse and coercive control may be stopping you from accessing your money 8:00 - The new definition of family violence and how it can work in your favour 10:30 - How to structure your request so it’s fair and has a better chance of success 12:45 - The mindset shift: realizing you’re entitled to ask 14:30 - What the courts consider when deciding to release funds early 16:30 - Step-by-step: how to apply and what documents you’ll need 19:45 - Going to court: what to expect, what to say, and how to prepare 23:30 - Common misconceptions and sneaky tactics to watch for 26:45 - Can superannuation be released early? (Spoiler: unlikely!) 28:00 - Risks of early distribution: What you need to know before you ask 29:30 - How releasing funds can shift power and break negotiation deadlock 31:45 - How to approach this with different ex-partner personality types in Divorce 36:00 - The quote Mum wants on a cushion: “If you don’t ask, you don’t get.”     🔗 Links & Resources 📘 Definition of Family Violence – Family Law Act (Section 4AB) 🧠 Free checklists and resources — mediation prep, disclosure, and more 🎧 Episode on Balancing the Unbalanced in family law negotiations https://open.spotify.com/episode/1YbIll7Ti69WGd9OpbmjDb?si=JlxhC1wBTkaOILAIVYdYaw 🎧 Episode on Response to Initiating Application (for court document guidance) https://open.spotify.com/episode/2JV5mcqDB7Wu6lEAFVO2w1?si=-VMYcvlpSSqxn-RrDeJgCg Definition of Family Violence https://www.austlii.edu.au/cgi-bin/viewdoc/au/legis/cth/consol_act/fla1975114/s4ab.html     📝 Closing Thoughts This episode is your reminder that you have options — and you don’t have to wait until the final property settlement to start rebuilding your life. If you’re in a tough spot financially, please talk to your lawyer about an early distribution. And if they say no, ask why. You deserve to feel safe and supported through this process. If you found this episode helpful, we’d be so grateful if you could rate, follow, and share the podcast. You never know who else out there might need this information right now. 💛
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  • Are You a Victim of FINANCIAL Abuse? Signs You Shouldn’t Ignore & What the New Laws Might Mean for You
    Are you? Learn about the signs of economic or financial abuse, hear some real-life examples of how economic abuse manifests in relationships and practical steps you can take to protect yourself and your financial future. Find out how it is legally recognized under the Australian Family Law Amendment Act 2024, and why it’s considered a form of coercive control. Also find out about the new laws effective from June 2025 and how they impact property settlements and financial disputes.  🚨 Trigger Warning: This episode discusses economic abuse and coercive control, which may be distressing for some listeners. If you need support, please contact 1800 RESPECT (1800 737 732) or Lifeline for confidential advice and assistance.     🎧 Listen to This Episode If You: ✅ Feel like your partner controls your money or financial decisions ❓ Have been told you’re “bad with money” or pressured into signing financial documents 💡 Are worried that financial abuse is continuing after separation 🛡 Want to understand how the new legal changes address economic abuse 📚 Need advice on documenting financial control and seeking help 💔 Are experiencing financial stress during or after separation DISCLAIMER: THIS IS NOT LEGAL ADVICE just a discussion about Australian Family Law and Divorce or DeFacto Separation.   Key Topics Discussed in This Episode: What is Economic and Financial Abuse? Signs and Red Flags of Economic Abuse How Economic Abuse Is a Form of Coercive Control Legal Changes: Economic Abuse Recognized as Family Violence Impact on Property Settlements and Financial Outcomes How to Protect Yourself from Economic and Financial Abuse Support Services and Resources for Victims       📌 Links & Resources Mentioned: 🔗 1800 RESPECT – Support for family and domestic violence: Website: 1800respect.org.au Phone: 1800 737 732 🔗 National Debt Helpline – Financial counselling and support: Website: ndh.org.au Phone: 1800 007 007 🔗 Men’s Referral Service – Support for men using or experiencing violence: Website: mrs.org.au Phone: 1800 943 539 🔗 Understanding Coercive Control – Australian Government Resource: Website: Australian Government Resource on Coercive Control     🎙️ Related Episodes: Recognizing Coercive Control: How to Protect Yourself https://open.spotify.com/episode/12jgZw1IwIFLK5oPlp0its?si=CvxdW85YRJ6e9pX1katgPQ Navigating Financial Disclosure in Family Court https://www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/disclosurechecklist Understanding Emotional Abuse: Signs, Impact, and Recovery https://open.spotify.com/episode/2bSCQ3JdcU4xxW7D4LJUxG?si=ujMpXOD8QzeLbeA_rlC4Ew How to Tell Your Story and Communicate Coercive Control in Your Documents https://open.spotify.com/episode/6Ci0M4DqznBf1L1kcZM3vY?si=rO-DnFixQqKTPMCbkpe3jA ⚠️ Emergency Contacts & Support Services: 💜 Women’s Shelter Service: Call 1800 811 811 ⚖️ Legal Aid: Visit Legal Aid Website 📞 Lifeline (24/7 Crisis Support): Call 13 11 14 👨‍👦 Mensline Australia: Call 1300 789 978 👧 Kids Help Line: Call 1800 551 800 🚨 National Domestic Violence Hotline (1800 RESPECT): Call 1800 737 732 🖤 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline: Call 1800 019 123     ⏳ Episode Timeline: 00:00 Introduction to Economic Abuse 00:24 Recognizing the Signs of Economic Abuse 01:09 Trigger Warning and Support Resources 01:57 Understanding Economic Abuse in Family Law 02:28 Examples of Economic Abuse 04:23 Subtle Forms of Financial Control 12:12 Post-Separation Financial Abuse 15:25 Questions to Identify Financial Abuse 21:30 Coercive Control and Financial Dependence 24:29 Understanding Coercive Control and Financial Abuse 25:34 Real-Life Examples of Financial Abuse 27:06 Legal Definitions and Changes in Family Law 30:37 Proving Financial Abuse in Court 32:03 Steps to Escape Financial Abuse 40:39 Support and Resources for Victims 42:53 Encouragement and Final Thoughts     Are You a Victim of FINANCIAL Abuse? Signs You Shouldn’t Ignore & What the New Laws Might Mean for You  
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  • Divorce Myths That Could Cost You – Debunked!
    Think you know what divorce looks like in Australia? Think again. In this episode, we're busting some of the most common myths that trip people up emotionally, financially, and legally during separation and divorce. Whether you’re at the start of your journey or knee-deep in negotiations, these misunderstandings could be holding you back or costing you big. Join Laura and her mum, Lynette Galvin — a family lawyer with 35+ years of experience — as they unpack 13 myths they hear all the time, including ones that cause fear, confusion, and prevent people from getting what they’re entitled to. From custody myths to super splitting, property settlement fears and bad legal advice — this episode is your reality check. DISCLAIMER: THIS IS NOT LEGAL ADVICE just a discussion about Australian Family Law and Divorce or DeFacto Separation.     🎧 Listen to This Episode If You: ✅ Are worried that leaving the house means losing it in the property split ❓ Think child support covers all expenses 💡 Believe the court always favours mothers in parenting cases 🛡 Are avoiding legal advice to “save money” 📚 Think you have to wait until your divorce is final to sort out property ⚖️ Are scared to date during separation because it might “hurt your case” 🧠 Just want to stop second-guessing everything your ex or their lawyer is telling you     📌 Links & Resources Mentioned: https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/DatingPost40 📝 Dating After Divorce Survey – Help us shape resources for separated parents:  🎧 Related Episodes: Equalising Super: Is It Fair or a Financial Trap? Not yet released Is It Emotional Abuse? Recognising Coercive Control https://youtu.be/PHfhLZXlUc8?si=l2U3B8hOKhKlr2v- How to Prepare for Mediation Like a Pro https://youtu.be/JYqqDyWa5ns?si=IEdr3tdQnF4fLMnE 💻 Search Our Full Podcast Library – https://www.thedivorcecourse.com.au     ⚠️ Emergency Contacts & Support Services: 💜 Women’s Shelter Service: Call 1800 811 811 ⚖️ Legal Aid: Visit Legal Aid Website 📞 Lifeline (24/7 Crisis Support): Call 13 11 14 👨‍👦 Mensline Australia: Call 1300 789 978 👧 Kids Help Line: Call 1800 551 800 🚨 National Domestic Violence Hotline (1800 RESPECT): Call 1800 737 732 🖤 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline: Call 1800 019 123     💬 Final Thoughts: No matter where you’re at in your divorce journey, understanding the truth behind these myths can empower you to make better decisions and avoid costly mistakes. Don’t let fear, bad advice, or outdated beliefs hold you back. 👉 Hit play now and take the guesswork out of your separation. 🎧     ⏳ Episode Timeline: 00:00 Introduction to Divorce Myths 01:38 Myth 1: Property Settlement Timing for Divorce in Australia 02:42 Myth 2: Do Family Courts Favour Mothers for Custody 04:33 Myth 3: Ownership and Coercive Control in Divorce 06:38 Myth 4: Equalizing Superannuation in Divorce 07:45 Myth 5: Dating After Separation can it affect your divorce or custody? 10:19 Myth 6: Can you Settle Divorce Without Court 11:58 Myth 7: Leaving the House and Kids during divorce 16:47 Myth 8: Not getting legal Advice Saves Money in Divorce 19:08 Myth 9: Property Settlements Are always 50/50 22:45 Myth 10: Child Support Covers All Expenses 24:07 Myth 11: Do Family  Lawyers Know Everything 30:20 Conclusion and Resources   Divorce Myths That Could Cost You – Debunked! Episode 189  
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  • Is Your Ex Hiding Assets? How to Uncover the Truth in Divorce Disclosure
    💰 Is your ex hiding assets? Are they draining joint accounts, concealing super, or transferring money to family and friends? You're not alone, and there are legal ways to uncover what's yours. Learn about the most common ways people try to hide assets in divorce, including trust funds, cash jobs, disappearing assets, and hidden overseas accounts. Find out how the Australian Family Court courts handle these cases, what legal tools you can use to track down missing assets, and what to consider doing before mediation or family court. If you’re frustrated by a lack of financial disclosure or suspect your ex is hiding money, this episode is a must-listen. 🚨 Disclaimer: This podcast provides general legal education for Australia and is not a substitute for independent legal advice. Always consult a qualified lawyer for guidance tailored to your situation. 🎧 Listen to This Episode If You: ✅ Believe your ex is hiding assets or not fully disclosing their financial situation ❓ Have noticed money disappearing from joint accounts 💡 Suspect your ex is hiding superannuation, cash jobs, or business earnings 🛡 Want to know what legal steps you can take before mediation or court 📚 Wondering how courts handle trusts, business assets, or overseas properties ⚖️ Are frustrated with non-disclosure and want to know what the courts will do about it Key Topics Discussed in This Episode: 1️⃣ Draining Joint Accounts: Can You Get the Money Back? 2️⃣ Superannuation & Hidden Retirement Funds 3️⃣ Trust Funds, Businesses & Company-Owned Assets 4️⃣ Cash Jobs & Undeclared Income 5️⃣ Selling Assets for Cheap to Friends & Family 6️⃣ Disappearing Assets: What If They Just Vanish? 7️⃣ Hiding Money & Property Overseas 8️⃣ What If Your Ex Refuses to Do Financial Disclosure?   📌 Links & Resources Mentioned in This Episode: 📜 Superannuation Information Request (Form 6) – ATO Superannuation Search 📜 Family Court Superannuation Search via Comm Courts Portal – Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia 📜 📜Disclosure Checklist - https://www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/disclosurechecklist   🎙 More Podcast Episodes You’ll Love: Untangling Valuations: How to Find Out What Assets Are Worth https://youtu.be/pkNKwBXMu9I?si=Lq2Q0UvXh_AVHcJH DIY Disclosure: What to Do If Your Ex Won’t Provide Financial Records https://youtu.be/c273nHUN9DE?si=nshmPtJwqkdk8hAO Avoiding Traps: Why You Should Never Negotiate Percentages Before Knowing the Property Pool https://youtu.be/D8xj-52q9ZE?si=N_-NKmXlszdXa-Rb ⏳ Episode Timeline: 00:00 Introduction: Uncovering Hidden Assets in Divorce 00:14 Common Tactics for Hiding Assets 01:40 Legal Rights and Draining Joint Accounts 04:29 Superannuation and Hidden Funds 06:55 Trust Funds and Corporate Veils 08:41 Valuing Businesses in Divorce 12:25 Cash in Hand and Undeclared Income 15:21 Selling Assets to Friends 16:04 Burnt Leg and Old Cars 16:27 Valuing and Insuring Classic Cars 17:01 Court's Approach to Asset Distribution 18:57 Handling Disappearing Assets 19:48 Hiding Assets Overseas 22:37 Non-Disclosure Issues 28:04 Child Support and Hidden Assets 29:32 Final Thoughts and Legal Advice Emergency Contacts: 💜 Women’s Shelter Service: Call 1800 811 811 ⚖️ Legal Aid: Visit Legal Aid Website 📞 Lifeline (24/7 Crisis Support): Call 13 11 14 👨‍👦 Mensline Australia: Call 1300 789 978 for confidential support for men 👧 Kids Help Line: Call 1800 551 800 for young people needing help 🚨 National Domestic Violence Hotline (1800 RESPECT): Call 1800 737 732 🖤 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline: Call 1800 019 123  
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This Mother and Daughter duo discuss and cover the legal stages and steps that you will face on your way to freedom through divorce. These are practical and real discussions with Lyn Galvin a family lawyer of 35 years experience and her daughter Laura a divorced mother of three. Laura helps turn her mother's lawyer jargon into something everyone will understand. Lyn shares all her tips and practical advice on separating. Through this podcast they aim to help you through your Australian divorce or de-facto separation to make it more cost effective and less stressful. instagram @thedivorcecourse
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