Reclamation Radio with Kelly Brogan MD

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Eli and Alexandra say most women's nervous systems will reject a deep, present man on sight.

Most of what gets sold as polarity work falls apart the second you bring it home, into a marriage, into parenting, or into a Tuesday night with bills to pay.

Eli Buren and Alexandra Roxo are two of the very few teachers in this space I trust to talk about masculine and feminine dynamics as something you live, not perform. Eli has been mentored by David Deida since 2004. Alexandra is the bestselling author of F*ck Like a Goddess and Dare to Feel.

I've known Eli for about a decade, and he was the one who first told me to be careful about forcing my relationship into the polished version of these teachings.

This conversation goes there. What immature masculine and immature feminine actually look like in a body. Why a deep, present man can feel disarming when your nervous system isn't trained to receive him. How rupture, repair, and trauma show up inside a real partnership with a child in the next room

There are red flags they want you to watch for in polarity teachers. We name them.
You’ll learn:
[0:00] Introduction
[10:48] Why men's awareness and presence have become urgent currencies in a virtual world
[24:39] Women reject the deep men they say they want, and Alexandra almost did too
[29:39] How leaning on your looks, job, or competency exposes your immature feminine
[35:23] Translating polarity from the retreat high into paying bills and taking out the trash
[40:06] Bank accounts and breasts: the surface level where most couples get stuck
[49:35] Words kill the polarity, and trauma imprints require more than practice
[1:02:25] What Eli transmits to his daughter through tone, touch, and humming through the belly
[1:10:24] Why "emotionally flexible" describes a mother's presence better than "regulated"
[1:18:21] The red flags Alexandra and Eli see in other polarity teachers right now
[1:23:42] Blending therapeutic somatic work with polarity practice waters both down
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Resources Mentioned:
Aware Parenting Method | Website
Find more from Eli and Alexandra:
Eli Buren | Website | Instagram
Gathering of Forces Men’s Weekend in Topenga, CA, October 2-4 | Website
Dojo of Awareness Men’s Online Practice Series | Website
Alchemy of Love (Eli and Alexandra's three-month online program) | Website
Alexandra Roxo | Website | Instagram
F*ck Like a Goddess by Alexandra Roxo | Book or Audiobook
Dare to Feel by Alexandra Roxo | Book or Audiobook

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Learn more about how you can reclaim your financial sovereignty with Infinite Banking here. 

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Bitcoin isn't an investment, it's the first real way to save money through decades.

Bitcoin is the most significant invention any of us has seen in our lifetime, and most people still think it's a scam. Scott Dedels, co-founder of Block Rewards, host of The Block Reward Podcast, and author of The Dao of Bitcoin, spent fifteen years in traditional finance before that frame collapsed for him.
I've come to notice that the people I tend to align with on medicine, history, and sovereignty often share one thing in common. They understand Bitcoin in a way that goes far past price charts.
Scott's turning point came in 2020, when the lockdowns quieted the hustle long enough for him to ask what money actually is. What he found made it impossible to keep advising clients the way he had been.
We get into why fiat currency is engineered to lose value, why saving has been replaced by investing, and why he describes Bitcoin as a fixed measuring tool for time and energy.

If the math of your life feels heavier than it used to, this conversation explains why.
You’ll learn:
[0:00] Introduction
[4:02] Why the lockdown in Canada became the spiritual inflection point for a finance bro
[9:54] The father wound at the threshold of inquiry, and why deconstructing money runs root-chakra deep
[16:03] Stockholm syndrome, the coincidence of wants, and the state monopoly on what money is
[25:42] Why inflation is state-sponsored theft of your finite time and energy
[30:10] Digital scarcity as the most significant invention any of us have been alive for
[37:19] Why Bitcoin mining is civilization-level infrastructure, not a climate disaster
[45:44] Can the state capture Bitcoin, and what gold confiscation in 1933 tells us
[55:20] Why Bitcoin is the first real innovation in timekeeping in seven hundred years
[59:51] How the mechanical clock and fiat money commoditized time, and what reversing it feels like
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Resources Mentioned:
The Price of Tomorrow by Jeff Booth | Book
Trezor (Hardware wallet for Bitcoin storage) | Website
Coinbase (Cryptocurrency exchange platform) | Website
Block Rewards (Bitcoin payroll software company) | Website
Find more from Scott:
Scott Dedels | LinkedIn
Lantern Bitcoin | Website | X
The Dao of Bitcoin by Scott Dedels | Book
Age of Time by Scott Dedels | Book
Find more from Kelly:
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Get Kelly’s new book The Reclaimed Woman here.
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Being right with your husband might be the single most corrosive thing you do in your marriage.

This episode comes out of the audacious questions women in my private containers ask me, and this one cuts straight into the psychology of why so many of us were trained to argue, observe, and keep a mental ledger from childhood.

There’s this thing I call litigator-level skills, the kind you develop growing up in a household where being right was how you avoided punishment and stayed loved. The problem is that those exact same skills poison an intimate relationship.

The victim triangle keeps people trapped in cycles of blame, defense, and scorekeeping. Intimacy cannot survive a zero-sum game, and real partnership begins where the need to win ends. Finding your husband right is less about agreement and more about releasing the reflex to make him wrong.

Beneath the need to be right is often a protector carrying an old job: preventing punishment, rejection, or loss of love. One simple parts work question can reveal what that protector is so afraid would happen if it stopped keeping score. Submission and surrender are not acts of self-abandonment. They are masteries that become available when control is no longer confused with safety.
You’ll learn:
[0:00] Introduction
[2:27] The litigator-level ledger we carry into adulthood as a trauma response
[4:13] Submission, surrender, and the sacred technology of the man-woman dyad
[6:52] How to disarm conflict by finding him right, even just for the fuck of it
[9:35] Why losing respect for your husband begins the end, usually through infidelity
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Can you really “improve” yourself?

I spent years convinced I could save the world from the bad guys, then years convinced I could save myself through deep inner work, coaching, and retreats. What I found on the other side wasn't a better me. It was a different relationship to my own badness and wrongness, and a suspicion that progress itself might be an illusion.

It’s time we unpack a few things… the good-bad split, why rejecting one pole pulls you straight toward it, and why my sovereign lawfulness journey exposed the same extractive shadow I'd assigned to the IRS.

I'll share what my daughter said that cracked my activist armor, why I now prize awareness and relaxation over certainty, and what it means to live by spontaneity, curiosity, and the principle of maybe.

If you've ever invested in fixing yourself and still touched the nihilistic question of "is this it", I made this for you.
You’ll learn:
[0:00] Introduction
[2:06] From saving the world to turning the activist lens inward
[5:54] The self-improvement double bind nobody in the wellness industry will name
[8:02] The good-bad split and why we keep attracting what we reject
[11:00] "Mama, you're afraid of so many things", the day my daughter broke the spell
[14:16] Why the IRS and the sovereignty movement carry the same vampiric energy
[18:27] What if you're not actually better than your mom?
[20:58] The villain crown practice and the power of holding "maybe"
[24:39] Why trusting your impulses matters more when money removes every constraint
[28:38] Surrender, the cosmic wink, and trading progress for presence
[33:33] Professional patients, functional medicine, and the loop that leads nowhere
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Resources mentioned:
Take a deeper dive with Kelly's Awakened Activism Masterclass.
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There are specific tools that you can use to become embodied... and I’m about to show them to you.
I want to talk about why the work of embodiment isn't softness, rose-petal baths, and endless fixation on your trauma. Most women I know are incredibly functional. They get the to-do list done, hold everything together, and then spend the rest of their lives subtly avoiding themselves through scrolling, numbing, resentment, overthinking, or exhaustion.

It’s something I’ve been circling for years through my training with David Deida, Sheila Kelley’s S Factor, and Wendy’s pole work, and it’s the most honest path I’ve found for women who are tired of living disconnected from their own bodies.

I walk you through the framework I use, which I call “the P’s,” and unpack the moment another woman gave me permission to stop shaming myself. Within a single weekend, the chronic tension and self-surveillance I had been carrying for years started dissolving in a way that felt almost biochemical.

There’s also a short breath and movement practice you can follow along with, plus the three inquiry questions I keep returning to, including the one about your own mother that almost nobody wants to answer honestly.

If you’ve been settling, ignoring the little “no,” or numbing through scrolling, this one is for you.
You’ll learn:
[0:00] Introduction
[4:34] How functional freeze, snacking, and scrolling become socially acceptable avoidance patterns
[7:03] Why chronic resentment shows up as bloating, hair loss, and fatigue
[12:27] Permission from another woman can shift your physiology in a weekend
[15:00] What Wendy, the pole teacher, taught me about the whore archetype
[18:36] How orienting your whole day around sensual pleasure rewires your life
[21:43] Why ignoring the little no is the root of our greatest suffering
[24:11] A guided breathwork practice for tracking pleasure and sexual energy
[36:57] Wearing the villain crown and what your judgment of other women reveals
[42:20] The regrettable impulse, the damaged story, and what would ruin you as a woman
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Resources mentioned:
Dr. Tom Cowan | Website
David Deida | Website
Sheila Kelley | Website
S Factor | Website
Find more from Kelly:
YouTube: Reclamation Radio with Kelly Brogan, MD
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Website: kellybroganmd.com
Join Kelly's monthly membership, Vital Life Project here.
Get Kelly’s new book The Reclaimed Woman here.

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