The Long Road

In this episode of The Long Road Podcast, Lisa sits down with Heidi McIntosh to share the story of her son, Benaiah Roi, and the profound impact of neonatal loss on her family.
After a healthy pregnancy, Heidi and her husband Caleb received unexpected news at 37 weeks that their unborn son was critically unwell. What followed was a journey of hope, fear, love, and heartbreak as they stayed in Brisbane for specialist care and welcomed Benaiah into the world.
Benaiah lived for six precious days before unexpectantly passing away due to a sepsis infection. 
With remarkable honesty and vulnerability, Heidi reflects on navigating grief as a mother, supporting siblings through loss, the challenges of life after trauma, and learning to hold both joy and heartbreak at the same time. Together, Lisa and Heidi discuss the realities of neonatal loss, the importance of acknowledging grief, and the ways families can continue to honour the children they carry in their hearts.
This conversation contains discussion of neonatal loss, infant death, grief, and trauma. Please listen at your own pace.
Resources mentioned in this episode:
• Red Nose Australia – support and resources for families affected by stillbirth, miscarriage, and newborn death.
Join A Support Group | Red Nose Australia
• Red Nose Bereavement Support Community (Facebook Group)
• SANDS Queensland (Stillbirth and Neonatal Death Support)
http://www.sands.org.au/
Books:
 - A Grief Observed – By C.S. Lewis
 - It's OK That You're Not OK: Meeting Grief and Loss in a Culture That Doesn't Understand. By Megan Devine
- How To Carry What Cant Be Fixed. A journal for Grief. By Megan Devine 
If this episode has brought up difficult emotions for you, please reach out to a trusted support person or professional support service.
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Thanks for being here,
Lisa McKelvey xx

In this episode, I’m joined by Zoe Chung, a mum to her daughter Sophia, who was diagnosed with Congenital Myasthenic Syndrome (CMS) after a complex start to life.
Zoe shares her experience navigating the NICU, receiving a rare diagnosis, and adjusting to life with a medically complex child. While still in hospital with Sophia, Zoe was also diagnosed with breast cancer, beginning treatment while continuing to care for her daughter.
This is a conversation about facing the unexpected on multiple fronts, the reality of medical motherhood, and what it looks like to keep moving forward through it all.
As always, this episode is a reminder that even in the hardest seasons, you’re not alone.
Show Links:
Very Special Kids - Providing holistic palliative care for children and young people across Victoria.
Medical Mums Australia (of kids with complex medical needs): https://www.facebook.com/share/g/18WsAxGBhu/
Zoes Instagram account 
https://www.instagram.com/zoefromtiktok?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==
Thank you for being here,
Lisa xx

Clare shares her journey raising her 5-year-old son Frank, who is deaf, and what it has looked like navigating diagnosis, early intervention, and raising him bilingually using Auslan and spoken English.
We talk about advocacy, language access, and the importance of creating a world where every child has the opportunity to thrive.
Clare is also passionate about connecting families with the deaf community and supporting parents to feel confident in their child’s journey.
Resources mentioned:
 Deaf Connect – https://deafconnect.org.au

Deaf Australia – https://deafaustralia.org.au

Expression Australia – https://expression.com.au

Follow Clare on Instagram: @raisingbilinguals
Thanks for being here,
Lisa McKelvey x

Courtney shares her journey raising her 3-year-old son Larry, who lives with cerebral palsy and complex medical needs.
We talk about advocacy, trusting your instincts, and embracing that every child develops in their own time.
Larry also has a rare genetic mutation called CBX1, and Courtney would love to connect with other families with a similar diagnosis.
Resources mentioned:
The Centre of Movement – https://www.centreofmovement.com.au

NAPA Centre – https://napacenter.org

Disability Advocacy Network Australia (DANA) – https://www.dana.org.au

Follow Courtney on Instagram: @court.a.ney
Thanks for being here,
Lisa McKelvey x

In this episode of The Long Road, I sit down with Makayla Jensen to share the story of her younger brother Beau, who survived a life-threatening drowning accident just days after his 17th birthday.
Makayla takes us back to the moment her family received the call that Beau was being given CPR, the week he spent in a coma, and the long, uncertain road of rehabilitation that followed. She speaks honestly about the fear, the waiting, and the shift from being “just a sister” to becoming part of his care and recovery.
This is a beautiful conversation about trauma, resilience, and the unseen experience of siblings when everything in a family changes overnight.
If you’ve ever wondered what that side of the story feels like, this episode is for you.
Hosted by: Lisa McKelvey
Show Notes: Bring it 4 Beau Insta Link -
https://www.instagram.com/bringit4beau?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==