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Are you stuck in a cycle of overthinking and information overload, unsure how to move forward? In this episode, I chat with Tamsin Simmons as she shares her journey from healthcare management to becoming a leadership coach and author, emphasising the power of the experiment mindset to create meaningful change. Discover how testing small, process-focused experiments can lead you toward your true goals and improve both personal and organisational performance.
Key Takeaways
The concept of the experiment mindset and its application across areas of life
Imposter syndrome: transforming it into a growth opportunity rather than a barrier
The importance of focusing on processes over outcomes in behaviour change
The three levers of behavior change: environment, psychology, and physiology
Practical strategies for designing and running personal experiments
The pitfalls of information overload and the “procrastination tools” of consuming content without applying it
How organisational incentives and environment influence behaviour, both positively and negatively
The role of curiosity and a growth mindset in sustaining motivation and joy
The universality of the experiment mindset beyond workplace leadership, including health and personal development

Timestamps:
04:44 - Imposter syndrome: from challenge to growth tool
06:56 - How perceptions of imposter syndrome evolve with experience
09:02 - Why the experiment mindset encourages resilience and growth
11:03 - The motivation behind writing The Experiment Mindset
13:09 - Changes in leadership and organisational behaviour over the last decade
14:43 - The failures of piecemeal workplace wellness strategies
16:15 - Moving from knowledge to action: tackling the knowing-doing gap
18:42 - Why high-quality information can become a barrier when misused
20:11 - The importance of treating yourself as your own experiment
22:40 - Real-world example: personal experimentation with diet and health
26:11 - Understanding individual responses to health interventions
28:37 - Limiting biases in personal experiments and avoiding confirmation bias
30:36 - The three levers of behaviour change: environment, psychology, physiology
32:24 - How incentives and environment influence organisational and personal behaviour
34:43 - Rethinking outcome-based performance for better wellbeing and results
36:26 - The role of physiology and physical capacity in high performance
37:36 - The impact of environment on physiology and psychology
39:17 - Simple nutritional strategies for sustained energy and performance
41:16 - Designing meaningful experiments: aligning with your top-level goals
43:04 - Managing big change by setting realistic, incremental goals
45:06 - Focusing on process over outcome to foster resilience and curiosity
47:35 - The power of curiosity and scientific thinking in everyday experiments
48:04 - Applying the experiment mindset beyond work: health, relationships, and life
49:46 - Overcoming information overload and “constipation” in decision-making

Resources
Tamsin’s book The Experiment Mindset
Website: https://www.tamsinsimounds.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tamsinkate
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tamsinsimounds
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tamsinkatesimounds

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In this episode, I chat with Dr. Jeremy Thompson as we delve into the complexities of identity and mental health. We explore how early life experiences shape our self-perception and the importance of understanding one's true self. Jeremy shares insights from his extensive experience in family medicine and psychological medicine, emphasising the need to separate negative self-perceptions from one's core identity. The conversation touches on the impact of societal labels, the role of upbringing in mental health, and practical approaches to fostering a positive self-image.
Key Takeaways
Self-identity as a dynamic, compartmentalised system People’s sense of self is best understood as a mix of core positives and externalised negatives, which should be separated rather than conflated.
Childhood trauma’s impact is modifiable through focused reframing Traumatic childhood experiences leave lasting imprints, but their influence can be softened by actively re-examining and challenging negative beliefs formed early on.
Authentic self-awareness guides positive choices over societal expectations Aligning daily actions with one’s true self and natural inclinations, rather than external pressures or shoulds, promotes genuine well-being.
Labelling mental health issues risks entrenching identities over understanding Applying diagnostic labels too readily risks turning complex mental states into fixed identities, which can hinder recovery and self-growth.
Cultivating inner energy through awareness enhances alignment with true self Attuning to moments of positive energy signals alignment with your authentic inclinations, serving as a compass for satisfying pursuits.
The oversimplification of mental health through excessive diagnoses dilutes treatment efficacy The proliferation of mental health diagnoses, many wishy-washy and overlapping, obscures understanding and can lead to self-labelling that hampers progress.
The balance of nurturing positive traits while managing negatives is central to resilient identity Strong resilience arises from affirming and cultivating your best qualities while consciously managing and externalising negative forces.

Time Stamps
02:57 Understanding Mental Health and Chronic Stress
06:02 The Importance of Identity in Mental Health
08:53 The Impact of Adverse Childhood Experiences
12:08 The Mixed Bag Concept of Self-Identity
14:53 Building Positive Relationships and Resilience
18:00 The Role of Mental Health Professionals
21:08 Reflecting on Childhood Experiences
23:55 Values, Virtues, and the Real Self
28:46 Understanding Personal Desires vs. Societal Expectations
32:00 The Complexity of Human Nature and Selfishness
34:55 The Dangers of Labels and Identity
38:18 Finding Your True Self and Identity
42:31 Navigating Change and Personal Growth
46:59 The Role of Identity in Health and Well-being

Resources
Dr Jeremy Thompson’s new book: https://www.amazon.com.au/Understand-Your-Identity-Jeremy-Thompson/dp/1636986277/
Website - https://understandyourtrueidentity.com/
LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-thompson-41a47969/
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/DrJeremyThompson

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Marcus Aurelius was a Roman emperor living nearly 2,000 years ago, yet his private journal reads remarkably like modern psychological coaching. In this episode, Carly explores a powerful passage from Meditations and unpack what Stoicism, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Morita Therapy can teach us about managing difficult thoughts and emotions. If you’ve ever felt hijacked by overthinking, caught in emotional spirals, or trapped in the stories your mind creates, this episode offers a practical, stoic framework for stepping back, seeing reality more clearly, and choosing your next move with intention.
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