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We've hit peak tip fatigue. Michael Regilio is here to explain how a century of tipping led us here — and how it can be remedied — on Skeptical Sunday!
Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and a guest break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions. This time around, we’re joined by skeptic, comedian, and podcaster Michael Regilio!
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On This Week's Skeptical Sunday:
Tipping wasn't born of kindness — it was born of swagger. In Tudor England, the wealthy pressed coins on servants to broadcast their status, a little "I'm above you" rendered in currency. From day one, the gratuity signaled hierarchy, not good service.
After the Civil War, employers dodged paying newly freed Black workers by letting customers "tip" instead. Pullman porters lived almost entirely on gratuities. Tipping became a tidy loophole for keeping labor nearly free.
The federal tipped minimum wage is $2.13 an hour, frozen since 1996. Servers can take home paychecks reading zero dollars, the tips quietly doing all the heavy lifting the law politely declines to.
By retiring the old 15% option and anchoring you at 18-22-25% during the on-screen payment process, it nudges your brain toward "generous" before the food even exists. It's behavioral economics, weaponized into a swivel screen that watches you decide.
Nobody actually likes this system, which makes it ripe for change. Europe proves restaurants flourish without it. So aim your energy at fair-wage policies rather than the person holding the iPad — they didn't build this maze, they're just surviving it.
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A rare drug reaction unraveled your mind — twice. Your grown kids know nothing of what runs in their blood. Tell them, or wait? Welcome to Feedback Friday!
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On This Week's Feedback Friday:
If you want to take a quick plane ride across the sea of Jordan’s reflections on China during his month-long trip there, you can jump to about 30 minutes, five seconds. Sheh-sheh, and enjoy!
You've wrestled inflammatory conditions your whole life, until a teenage steroid reaction detonated into psychosis. Years later, a manic episode nearly made you the accidental CEO of Best Buy. Now your kids are young adults, and you're sitting on a medical history you've never breathed a word of. Do you tell them, or wait for fate to force your hand?
10-plus years married, two kids, a well-oiled co-parenting machine, but behind closed doors, the romance flatlined years ago. Then a woman at a Vegas conference lit up something long dormant, and the texts have drifted from casual to dangerously deep. Is "emotional cheating" even real — and is this connection, or just a mirage?
Recommendation of the Week: Use this prompt (courtesy of listener Ben) with your AI of choice to prepare for layoffs and/or a job search.
You fired off a newsletter with the subject line "Saw your name in the Epstein files" — a wink, a test, a point about curiosity owing its audience real substance. Most readers howled with laughter. A furious few grabbed pitchforks. What does the split reaction — and the open-rate data — quietly reveal about how we choose to engage?
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Meet Arthur Brand, the real-life Indiana Jones of the art world who's recovered 200+ stolen Picassos, Van Goghs, and Nazi-looted treasures.
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What We Discuss with Arthur Brand:
The Dr. No delusion: Why thieves keep stealing famous paintings they can never sell — chasing a mythical billionaire collector who exists only in James Bond films — and how police exploit that fantasy by posing as the fabled buyer to lure them out.
An eight-billion-euro underworld: How art crime quietly became the world's third-largest criminal money flow, entangling mafias, terrorists, corrupt states, and even figures who tried to fund attacks like September 11th.
The forgery epidemic: Why roughly a third of all art may be fake — with some museums closer to half — and how looters double their money by slipping convincing copies in beside the genuine antiquities they dug from the ground.
How stolen masterpieces come home: Why a hot Van Gogh becomes a worthless hot potato shuffled between drug lords, and how most recoveries begin with a jealous ex, a bragging Tinder date, or a criminal desperate to offload a cursed relic.
Trust the human element: Discover how patient curiosity and plain conversation — knocking on a door, catching an offhand brag, letting people quietly do the right thing — recover treasures that badges, warrants, and Fort Knox security never could.
And much more...
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Your married brother accidentally sent you a spicy text that was very much meant for a man. Now you're stuck holding his secret. It's Feedback Friday!
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On This Week's Feedback Friday:
Your 71-year-old married brother keeps vanishing to the Southwest "for the weather" — then a text lands in your phone that's X-rated and very much not meant for you. Now you're sitting on a secret that could detonate his marriage, and every family dinner feels like a minefield. Who, if anyone, deserves to know?
You traded running your own construction company for a project-coordinator gig — and now you answer to a foreman who shows up, disappears, and cherry-picks the parts of your job he likes while ducking his own. The boss is mysteriously devoted to him. You're losing sleep. Confront the guy, go over his head, or walk?
The sweet older woman you've adopted as a grandmother just got cornered in an elevator and beaten — by a fellow resident of her retirement community, over a garden-bed dispute. She's shaken, and her attacker has a loyal pack of neighbors closing ranks. What are the real options here — press charges, sue, or leave?
Recommendation of the Week: Hung On Wood — a listener named Tony quietly handcrafts wooden cutting boards, and Jordan and Jen liked theirs enough to hype his company on air.
You've made peace with a hard truth: you can love your ailing mother and your struggling half-brother, but you can't live their lives for them. Then a post about a mistreated animal undoes you — more than your own family's pain does. What does that say about you, and why does the dog hit hardest?
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I Am Not a Robot author Joanna Stern spent a year letting AI run her life. She reveals what it's actually good for — and its hidden costs.
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What We Discuss with Joanna Stern:
How a chatbot that never tells you your ideas are dumb becomes less of a companion and more of an emotional slot machine — and why the always-available AI therapist that remembers your every 4 a.m. anxiety is both a genuine comfort and a quiet, compounding cost to real human connection.
Why you can spot exactly where AI falls short the moment it wanders into your own field of expertise — and how that very gap, between confident output and actual competence, is the most important lens for judging whether these tools are ready to replace the humans who do the work.
What it really costs to hand AI your medical results and financial data for a quick second opinion — and why stripping out your name, birthday, and identifiers matters when the convenience of instant answers quietly trades away privacy you can never claw back.
How genuinely impressive humanoid robots and robotaxis are as feats of engineering — and why the viral demos of drink-pouring androids are often a human in a VR headset puppeteering from offstage, revealing the gap between dazzling spectacle and true autonomy.
How you can learn these tools well enough to know what they're genuinely good at while fiercely protecting your own lived experience — because the messy conversations, shower-thought sparks, and uncomfortable human friction are exactly the training data no machine can hand you.
And much more...
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