Wine with Wita

Hey everyone,
This week, I share a heartfelt solo episode on what it really means to create a village when raising a child with additional needs.

We unpack the reality that so many parents face after a diagnosis. Feeling lost, overwhelmed, and unsure where to turn for the right information and support. Because often, it is not just the diagnosis that is hard. It is the loneliness that can come with it.

This episode is a gentle reminder that you were never meant to do this alone. The right people, support, and shared experiences can completely shift the journey.

I talk about: 
💫 Why finding people with lived experience is so powerful 
💫 The emotional impact of feeling unheard or misunderstood 
💫 How a strong support network creates clarity and confidence 
💫 The difference between information and true understanding 
💫 Practical ways to start building your own village 
💫 Why connection can change the way you move forward

A reassuring reminder that there are people out there who understand. And when you find your village, everything starts to feel a little lighter.

Lots of love,
Rita
P.S.: follow me on Instagram for more tips, insights and updates.
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Disclaimer: the purpose of this podcast is to provide information. You must not rely on the information on this podcast as an alternative to speech and language therapy. You must always consult with a Speech Pathologist, GP and/or paediatrician if you have any concerns about your child's communication and/development.

Hey everyone,

This week, I am joined by Jordan Lee Ikitule, founder and CEO of ASD Dads and Ausim Kids Clothing, for a powerful conversation about fatherhood, community, and advocacy in the autism space.
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Jordan shares the deeply personal journey that led him to create ASD Dads after his own son was diagnosed with autism. What began as a simple post online quickly grew into a nationwide movement supporting fathers, mothers, and whānau raising children with autism.
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We also explore the importance of community, the challenges many fathers face when navigating an autism diagnosis, and how shared stories can create powerful support networks for families who often feel alone.
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In this episode, Jordan shares:
* The moment his son was diagnosed and the challenges that followed
 * How a single post online led to the creation of ASD Dads NZ
 * The mission behind building a support network for fathers and families
 * The events and initiatives created to raise awareness and bring families together
 * How Run 4 Autism is helping fund speech therapy and support services
* The expansion of ASD Dads internationally, including Japan and Australia
 *The creation of Ausim Kids | Autism Apparel – Love, Accept, Protect, using clothing and QR code safety technology to raise awareness and help keep autistic children safe
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A powerful conversation about turning personal experience into purpose, and how one father’s journey is now helping thousands of families feel seen, supported, and connected.
Click the links below to learn follow Jordan's ventures!
-Ausim Kids Clothing​
-Express Yourself NZ​
-Jordan's Insta​
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Lots of love,
Rita
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P.S.: follow me on Instagram for more tips, insights and updates.
This episode of Wine with Wita is proudly sponsored by Mindd Health and the Mindd International Forum, Australia’s leading conference for families and professionals supporting children with developmental differences.
I’ll be part of the panel this year, sharing practical strategies to support communication and engagement in children.
Listeners can use code SHAMOUN26 for 15% off registration. Grab your spot today via ⁠⁠https://mif26.mindd.org/mif26-registration-community/⁠
Disclaimer: the purpose of this podcast is to provide information. You must not rely on the information on this podcast as an alternative to speech and language therapy. You must always consult with a Speech Pathologist, GP and/or paediatrician if you have any concerns about your child's communication and/development.

Hey everyone,
My conversation this week with Lauren Tench is raw and powerful, in honour of Endometriosis Awareness Month.
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Lauren is 31, a mum of two, and has undergone 13 surgeries and a hysterectomy while living with endometriosis. She shares what it has been like navigating chronic pain, being dismissed in the medical system, and fighting to be heard.
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This episode is not just about a diagnosis. It is about advocacy, resilience, and what it means to keep showing up for yourself when others doubt your pain.
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In this episode, Lauren shares:
💫 What endometriosis really feels like beyond “bad period pain”
💫 Being dismissed and gaslit as a teenager
💫 The emotional toll of infertility fears and pregnancy after loss
💫 Why hysterectomy is not a cure
💫 The importance of finding doctors who truly listen
💫 What real support from partners and family looks like
💫 The one word she lives by: unstoppable
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A courageous and deeply important conversation that reminds us that women’s pain deserves to be believed, and that awareness begins with how we listen.

Follow Lauren here!​
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Lots of love,
Rita
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P.S.: follow me on Instagram for more tips, insights and updates.
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​Disclaimer: the purpose of this podcast is to provide information. You must not rely on the information on this podcast as an alternative to speech and language therapy. You must always consult with a Speech Pathologist, GP and/or paediatrician if you have any concerns about your child's communication and/development.

Hey everyone,

This week, I am joined by Ativalu Lisati, professional rugby league player for the Melbourne Storm, for a heartfelt conversation about family, communication, and advocacy.

​Ativalu shares what it means to be an uncle to his autistic nephew, how he has learned to understand his unique way of communicating, and how this journey has changed the way he sees the world.
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We also explore the cultural side of autism, including denial, language barriers, and the importance of raising awareness within Pacific Islander communities. A powerful reminder that connection does not always need words.
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In this episode, Ativalu shares:

💫 What he noticed first about his nephew’s communication and routines
💫 Why he sees autism as difference, not something to fear
💫 How he supports his brother and family through challenging moments
💫 The impact of cultural beliefs, denial, and language barriers
💫 Why awareness matters in Pacific Islander communities and multicultural families
💫 How he wants to use his platform in the NRL to create change
💫 The one word he is choosing to live by right now: faith
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A meaningful conversation that highlights the power of family support, cultural understanding, and advocacy that feels real, grounded, and human.
Learn more about Ativalu Lisati here!​
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Lots of love,
Rita
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P.S.: follow me on Instagram for more tips, insights and updates.
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​Disclaimer: the purpose of this podcast is to provide information. You must not rely on the information on this podcast as an alternative to speech and language therapy. You must always consult with a Speech Pathologist, GP and/or paediatrician if you have any concerns about your child's communication and/development.

Hey everyone,
This week, I share a heartfelt solo episode for parents who have ever quietly wondered if they have failed their child.
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We unpack the heavy weight of parental guilt, especially after a diagnosis or when health concerns evolve. Sometimes it is not about failure at all. It is about not having the right information at the right time. And when we know better, we can do better.
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This episode is a gentle reminder to release self-blame, lean into compassion, and recognise that learning and adjusting is part of the journey.
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I talk about:
The emotional weight of saying “I feel like I’ve failed”
 Why not knowing is not the same as failing
Airway health, early intervention and trusting your instincts
Trial and error in therapy and finding the right fit
 The pressure parents carry after a diagnosis
 Giving yourself grace while advocating for your child
Why this journey is not a straight line
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A reassuring reminder that you have not failed your child. You are learning, advocating, adjusting and showing up. And that is what truly makes the difference.
Lots of love,
Rita
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P.S.: follow me on Instagram for more tips, insights and updates.
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​Disclaimer: the purpose of this podcast is to provide information. You must not rely on the information on this podcast as an alternative to speech and language therapy. You must always consult with a Speech Pathologist, GP and/or paediatrician if you have any concerns about your child's communication and/development.