In this episode of Glimmer Hunters, Renee and Emily sit down with Nikki Everett - author of Uncomfortably Comfortable, Lifeline ambassador, and passionate advocate for people living with PTSD and Complex PTSD (CPTSD).
Nikki shares her powerful story of working in palliative care, mental health and the prison system, experiencing multiple violent events, and eventually being diagnosed with Complex PTSD - a diagnosis she initially resisted. From flashbacks and dissociation to rebuilding her identity, Nikki talks honestly about what it’s like to walk “through madness to find me”.
Along the way, she explains how glimmers (those tiny moments of safety, joy or connection) became a vital part of her healing - from early morning magpies and ocean swims to journaling, plants, and Japanese philosophies like Kintsugi.
If you live with PTSD/CPTSD, love someone who does, or work in mental health, this one is a gentle but deeply validating listen.
In this episode we explore:
What Complex PTSD (CPTSD) is and how it differs from PTSD
Nikki’s experience of multiple violent incidents while working in the prison system
Dissociation, flashbacks and what’s actually happening in the brain during trauma
Naming brain parts as “characters” (Amy Amygdala, Colin Cortisol) to make trauma science less scary
How journaling unexpectedly became one of her most powerful healing tools
Discovering Kokedama and Kintsugi, and how they reshaped how she saw her “cracks”
Turning “brokenness” into a new identity - and learning to feel again after numbness
The role of glimmers in balancing triggers, negativity bias and survival mode
Reframing your story using the Hero’s Journey to move from victim to hero
Why owning your mental illness can remove shame and create deeper connection with others
Key takeaways
Knowledge is power: understanding what the brain does during triggers, flashbacks and dissociation can replace “I’m going crazy” with “my brain is protecting me”.
Tiny moments matter: glimmers in nature, animals, water and everyday life can be meaningful signposts that healing is happening.
You are not your diagnosis: Complex PTSD is not a personal failing; it’s your brain’s survival response to ongoing trauma.
Own your story: speaking openly about mental illness can remove shame - and give others permission to own their stories too.
Healing is a journey, not one magic fix: different therapies offer different “gold nuggets”; it’s okay to change approaches and advocate for what works for you.
Connect with Nikki:
Buy Nikki’s book Uncomfortably Comfortable: https://www.amazon.com.au/Uncomfortably-Comfortable-walking-through-madness-ebook/dp/B0DSLSFF4M
Learn more about Nikki & her resources: sheismental.com
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Gentle content note:
This episode includes discussion of violence, prisons, trauma, PTSD/CPTSD, nightmares and mental health struggles. Please listen at your own pace and take breaks if needed. If anything in this conversation brings stuff up for you, consider reaching out to a trusted person or mental health support in your area.
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