Self Obsessed

hey girlies, i lost the outro clip during filming, so that’s why the ending is a little abrupt 😭 but i hope you guys still enjoyed the video. let me know your favorite part in the comments 💌

becoming the IT girl starts with realizing you were never missing “it” you just needed to stop searching for it in trends, attention, or other people’s validation. in this video, we’re talking about what it really takes to become her through mindset shifts, self trust, and the daily habits that shape the way you move, present yourself, and create your life. this is for the girl who knows she is meant for more, is outgrowing old versions of herself, and is learning how to stop shrinking, stop trying to fit in, and fully step into her own energy 🩷

♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:
00:00 Introduction
01:18 Chapter 1: Redefining the "It Girl" (The New Mindset)
08:22 Chapter 2: The Transformation

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watch this when you want to give up and need a reminder that this difficult season of your life is not where your story ends. in this episode, we’re talking about feeling stuck, unmotivated, behind, or like nothing is working even though you’re trying your best. this is for the girl in a slump or in the messy middle who wants to keep going, trust her journey, and stay committed to becoming the woman she knows she can be. if you’ve been feeling discouraged, let this be the video you return to when you need perspective, comfort, and a push to keep going.

♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:
00:00 Introduction
01:06 Closest to Change
03:15 The Messy Middle
04:24 Brain vs Comfort
05:23 Hindsight is Clarity
06:22 Future You Begs to Not Give Up
07:29 Nothing Is Permanent
09:00 Outgrowing Yourself
09:33 You Are Doing Better Than You Think
10:55 Baby Steps Only
12:05 Future Self Thanks You
14:50 Final Reminders

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hi girlies! guess what... it’s my 400th video! 🎉 i’m so grateful for your continued support and love through the years ❤️ and since you have also come a long way in your self-love journey, give yourself a pat on the back for your consistency because that’s a big deal.

to celebrate my 400th video, we’re talking fake friends and why they’re not always obvious. i’m breaking down the signs of toxic friendships and jealous friends like constant comparison, “i could never” comments, disrespect disguised as jokes, gossip, and the weird energy when you’re winning. if you’re outgrowing friends or going through a friendship breakup, i’ll share how to protect your peace with self-love, boundaries, self-respect, aligned values, and slowing down who you trust because you deserve friendships that feel safe, supportive, and aligned with the woman you’re becoming.

♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:
00:00 Introduction
01:48 Chapter 1: Signs You Have a Fake Friend
09:23 Chapter 2: Getting the F*ck Over It
14:04 Chapter 3: Protecting Yourself
20:12 Final Reminders

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if you’ve been feeling stuck, here are 8 harsh truths i wish someone told me sooner. in today’s video, we’re breaking down mindset, limiting beliefs, and why the version of “reality” you’re living in is often shaped by old stories and identity patterns. i’m also sharing why discomfort, embarrassment, and imposter syndrome are actually signs you’re growing, and how choosing self-respect over people-pleasing and family expectations is what builds real confidence and higher standards. if your glow up or personal growth feels stagnant, this video is for you 🤍

♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:
00:00 Introduction
01:37 Harsh Truth #1: Dating Is On You
03:54 Harsh Truth #2: Reality Is A Choice
05:58 Harsh Truth #3: Run Toward Fear
07:52 Harsh Truth #4: Alignment Over Popularity
11:53 Harsh Truth #5: Adversity Has Purpose
13:42 Harsh Truth #6: Pick Your Struggle
16:20 Harsh Truth #7: Self-Love Sets Limits
18:20 Harsh Truth #8: Stop Living For Others
22:14 Final Encouragement

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Music Used:
*my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!

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it’s that time again, girlies!!! 💌✨ girl talk: valentine’s edition!!! in today’s episode, we’re having a cozy one-on-one bestie chat where i’m answering your juiciest dating questions, relationship dilemmas, situationship scenarios, and more. plus, i’m sharing self-love tips, confidence mindset shifts, and actionable steps you can actually apply to your self-love journey all year round. so grab your favorite beverage, a little snack, get comfy and let’s get into it. 🤍

♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:
00:00 Introduction: Happy Valentine's!
00:55 Relationship & Dating
19:46 Self-Love
28:52 Final Thoughts

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For business enquiries please contact: [email protected]

Music Used:
Epidemic Sound*my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!