#112: Owning Your Story: Breaking Generational Patterns with Lael Stone with Lael Stone - Speaker, Educator and Author
What if the real reason family conflict keeps repeating isn’t about money, land, or even succession — but the unseen stories we’ve been carrying for generations?In this powerful conversation, Ben Law sits down with Lael Stone — educator, counsellor, author, and co-founder of Woodline Primary School — to unpack how unexamined imprints from our past quietly shape how we parent, lead, and communicate.From unspoken family expectations to generational beliefs about work, money, and self-worth, Lael shows how we can rewrite the stories that keep us stuck — so we don’t hand them down to our kids.They dive into what “owning your story” really means, why forgiveness and grace are essential to healing old wounds, and how emotionally intelligent families break free from the patterns that sabotage trust and unity.If you’ve ever thought, “I sound just like my parents,” or wondered why the same family issues keep resurfacing, this is an episode you’ll want every generation to hear.KEY THEMESThe invisible imprints we inherit from our family of originWhy awareness, not blame, is the key to breaking patternsHow to deal with conflict constructively — without blowing up or shutting downThe role of grace and forgiveness in family healingHow your personal growth impacts the next generation-----------------------Ben spent over 20 years working with successful business owners and farming families which allowed him to unearth the timeless principles on how to successfully grow, protect and maintain wealth.If you want to learn the principles of how to grow your family’s wealth throughout the generations, then you might consider joining The AgriCoach Podcast each fortnight for more Wealth & Wisdom.Disclaimer: The information contained in this podcast is general in nature and for education purposes only. It is not financial advice. It is not legal advice. No one should act on the information without appropriate specific advice for your particular circumstances. Ben Law is a former financial advisor but is no longer licensed and cannot and will not give you specific or personal advice in this podcast. The Financial Bloke Group Pty Ltd accepts no responsibility for any loss or damage occasioned by any person acting or refraining from action as a result of reliance on the information in this podcast.https://thefinancialbloke.com.au/
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MINI: Trust The Effort. Let Go Of The Outcome.
What if the secret to lasting success in farming, family, and life isn’t about controlling every detail — but about knowing when to let go?In this mini episode, Ben Law shares the mindset he’s seen in the most successful farming families over the last 25 years: do your absolute best, then release the outcome. From the paddock to the boardroom, the lesson is the same. You can prepare the soil, sow the seed, and spray the weeds — but you can’t control the rain.Ben unpacks how clinging too tightly breeds stress, brittleness, and unhappiness — while the families who thrive are the ones who work hard, set clear standards for “their best,” and then trust the process. You’ll hear practical ways to build this mindset: defining your best, dropping perfection, reframing setbacks, and zooming out when small problems feel overwhelming.This isn’t fluffy theory. It’s the quiet confidence that keeps high-performing families resilient, future-focused, and — let’s be honest — happier.So, where in your life are you gripping too tight right now? And what would change if you trusted your effort and let go of the rest?-----------------------Ben spent over 20 years working with successful business owners and farming families which allowed him to unearth the timeless principles on how to successfully grow, protect and maintain wealth.If you want to learn the principles of how to grow your family’s wealth throughout the generations, then you might consider joining The AgriCoach Podcast each fortnight for more Wealth & Wisdom.Disclaimer: The information contained in this podcast is general in nature and for education purposes only. It is not financial advice. It is not legal advice. No one should act on the information without appropriate specific advice for your particular circumstances. Ben Law is a former financial advisor but is no longer licensed and cannot and will not give you specific or personal advice in this podcast. The Financial Bloke Group Pty Ltd accepts no responsibility for any loss or damage occasioned by any person acting or refraining from action as a result of reliance on the information in this podcast.https://thefinancialbloke.com.au/
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#111: When Success Becomes Your Prison with Jean-Marc Barbeau - Qualified Chartered Accountant and NLP Master Coach, Better Business Freedom
What if the very habits that made you successful are now the biggest things holding you back?In this episode of The Agricoach Wealth & Wisdom Podcast, Ben sits down with Jean-Marc Barbeau, turnaround strategist and founder of Better Business Freedom. Jean-Marc shares his journey from climbing the corporate ladder in London to redefining what true success and freedom mean — and why too many business owners (and farming families) fall into the trap of working harder instead of working smarter.Together, Ben and Jean-Marc tackle the “frog in boiling water” problem, the danger of being trapped by past success, and the waiting-for-later myth that robs families of joy in the present. You’ll hear stories that bring these lessons to life — from the “Waterboy” who stopped carrying buckets to build a pipeline, to families wrestling with how to let go of control across generations.If you’ve ever wondered how to avoid burnout, create real freedom, and lead your family or business into a stronger future, this conversation will give you practical perspective and a challenge to rethink what prosperity really means.-----------------------Ben spent over 20 years working with successful business owners and farming families which allowed him to unearth the timeless principles on how to successfully grow, protect and maintain wealth.If you want to learn the principles of how to grow your family’s wealth throughout the generations, then you might consider joining The AgriCoach Podcast each fortnight for more Wealth & Wisdom.Disclaimer: The information contained in this podcast is general in nature and for education purposes only. It is not financial advice. It is not legal advice. No one should act on the information without appropriate specific advice for your particular circumstances. Ben Law is a former financial advisor but is no longer licensed and cannot and will not give you specific or personal advice in this podcast. The Financial Bloke Group Pty Ltd accepts no responsibility for any loss or damage occasioned by any person acting or refraining from action as a result of reliance on the information in this podcast.https://thefinancialbloke.com.au/
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MINI: Try Hard Not To Offend But Try Harder Not To Take Offence
What tears farming families apart usually isn’t the big blow-ups. It’s the quiet termites — the little digs, careless words, and unspoken grudges that eat away at trust. In this mini-episode, Ben Law unpacks a principle that can transform family dynamics: “Work hard not to offend — and even harder not to be offended.”You’ll hear why truth-telling without timing and respect backfires, how carrying offence poisons family businesses across generations, and when offence is not only justified but essential. Ben draws on lessons from the Stoics, Lincoln, and decades of coaching rural families to show why thicker skin, forgiveness, and deliberate communication are the backbone of high-performing families.If you’ve ever wondered how to balance honesty with harmony in your family or business, this episode will challenge the way you handle conflict — and give you a practical standard to measure your words and reactions against.-----------------------Ben spent over 20 years working with successful business owners and farming families which allowed him to unearth the timeless principles on how to successfully grow, protect and maintain wealth.If you want to learn the principles of how to grow your family’s wealth throughout the generations, then you might consider joining The AgriCoach Podcast each fortnight for more Wealth & Wisdom.Disclaimer: The information contained in this podcast is general in nature and for education purposes only. It is not financial advice. It is not legal advice. No one should act on the information without appropriate specific advice for your particular circumstances. Ben Law is a former financial advisor but is no longer licensed and cannot and will not give you specific or personal advice in this podcast. The Financial Bloke Group Pty Ltd accepts no responsibility for any loss or damage occasioned by any person acting or refraining from action as a result of reliance on the information in this podcast.https://thefinancialbloke.com.au/
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#110: Lock It In: Protect Your Price and Your Profit with Ripley Atkinson - StoneX Australian Livestock & Commodities Manager
What if you could take the wild swings out of cattle prices and bring real certainty into your operation?In this episode, Ben Law sits down with Ripley Atkinson, livestock risk management specialist at StoneX. Ripley grew up on a mixed farm in Tamworth, worked across NT stations, MLA, and now helps producers and feedlots across Australia use structured tools to lock in margins and plan with confidence.Together, they break down how risk management works in plain language — from the cotton industry’s long history of hedging to how Australian beef producers can now access similar tools through swaps and structured contracts. You’ll hear how locking in even part of your herd at a set price can reduce volatility, strengthen bank relationships, and give you peace of mind when the market moves.Whether you’re running a feedlot, backgrounding cattle, or breeding for processors, this conversation shows practical ways to protect your margins and take more control of your financial future — without getting lost in the jargon. If you’ve ever wondered how top operators smooth out the highs and lows of the cattle market, this episode gives you the roadmap.Disclaimer:The views, opinions of the presenters are solely their own and do not in any way reflect the views, opinions, endorsements or recommendations of STONEX. STONEX is the trade name used by STONEX GROUP INC. and all its associated entities and subsidiaries. StoneX Group Inc. provides financial services worldwide through its subsidiaries, including physical commodities, securities, exchange-traded and over-the-counter derivatives, risk management, global payments and foreign exchange products in accordance with applicable law in the jurisdictions where services are provided.Information and material presented is for educational purposes only and does not constitute any form of investment advice nor an offer or solicitation to invest in any financial instrument.This information provided is prepared by STONEX and is intended for general circulation. It does not take into account the specific investment objectives, financial situation or particular needs of any particular person. You should take into account your specific investment objectives, financial situation or particular needs before making a commitment to invest, including seeking advice from an independent financial adviser regarding the suitability of the investment, under a separate engagement, as you deem fit.Representations of past performance are in no way an indication of future performance and such representations have not been verified by StoneX. No representation or warranty is given as to the accuracy or completeness of the information or material presented.The presentation herein is not directed to, or intend-----------------------Ben spent over 20 years working with successful business owners and farming families which allowed him to unearth the timeless principles on how to successfully grow, protect and maintain wealth.If you want to learn the principles of how to grow your family’s wealth throughout the generations, then you might consider joining The AgriCoach Podcast each fortnight for more Wealth & Wisdom.Disclaimer: The information contained in this podcast is general in nature and for education purposes only. It is not financial advice. It is not legal advice. No one should act on the information without appropriate specific advice for your particular circumstances. Ben Law is a former financial advisor but is no longer licensed and cannot and will not give you specific or personal advice in this podcast. The Financial Bloke Group Pty Ltd accepts no responsibility for any loss or damage occasioned by any person acting or refraining from action as a result of reliance on the information in this podcast.https://thefinancialbloke.com.au/
About AgriCoach Wealth & Wisdom Podcast by The Financial Bloke
Wealth & Wisdom: For Farming Families Who Want More Money matters — but wisdom is what makes it last. For Australia’s most successful farming families, financial growth is only part of the picture. True, lasting success means aligning your wealth with your values, nurturing strong family relationships, and building a legacy that endures for generations. Join Ben Law, The Financial Bloke and founder of Agricoach, Australia’s leading coaching business for high-performing rural families, as he shares the insights, stories, and strategies that matter most. With over two decades of experience advising and coaching some of the country’s most successful agricultural families, Ben now dedicates his work to helping others do the same — through the High Performing Families Accelerator and this powerful podcast. On the Wealth & Wisdom podcast, you’ll hear from industry experts, thought leaders, and inspiring rural voices. Together, you’ll explore what it really takes to grow, protect, and transition wealth — without sacrificing family harmony or personal fulfillment. Whether you’re preparing for succession, investing off-farm, managing family dynamics, or shaping the next generation of leadership, this podcast is your trusted source of clarity, strategy, and perspective. Smart decisions. Stronger families. A legacy worth leaving. Welcome to Wealth & Wisdom — tune in and grow with us.
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