Danny Morel joins me on The Pocket!
This conversation goes deep into emotional wounds, fear, commitment, masculine and feminine energy, and how childhood experiences shape the way men show up in relationships. We talk about why men avoid vulnerability, how chasing success can be a form of avoidance, and what it actually takes to experience real intimacy and freedom in love.
This one is confronting, honest, and powerful.
Key Discussion Points
Why men are emotionally disconnected
How childhood wounds shape adult relationships
Fear, commitment, and avoidance in men
The difference between boy energy and man energy
What real intimacy and love actually require
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Chapters:
00:00 Why men are emotionally behind
03:10 Masculine vs feminine energy explained
07:40 Unconscious fathers and emotional suppression
12:50 Pain as the trigger for awakening
18:30 Childhood wounds and relationship patterns
23:40 Victim consciousness vs creator consciousness
28:20 Real intimacy and telling the truth
33:10 Men, commitment, and fear of freedom
37:55 The phases of love and why couples get stuck
43:20 Why dependency is not love
48:10 Knowing when it is right to commit
52:40 Awareness, healing, and transformation
57:15 Fear, courage, and emotional growth
01:01:20 Enlightenment and living without fear
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#115: Miki Agrawal: Why The Most Taboo Ideas Make The Most Money
Today's episode is with Miki Agrawal.
Miki was so amazing. She is the founder of Hiro Diapers, Tushy and Thinx, to name a few.
A leader in women's business and an inspiring, passionate voice. I loved this.
Find out how the most Taboo ideas, make the most amount of money, how women can succeed in business (and if that should be the goal), learn what soft power is, and much much more.
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#114: Michael Smoak: The Harsh Truth About Love Men Fear To Admit
Big claim: one of my favourite episodes of the year. Michael Smoak (@higherupwellness) returns to the show.
If you liked the first time Mike came on, you wont be disappointed with this one. Completely different conversation, yet an absolute banger.
Something about the synergy we have together is one I’m beyond blessed about.
This episode was all about relationships, love, overcoming hardship, the battles that a man has and so much more.
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Chapters:
00:00 A man’s biggest challenge
11:00 An explanation of a mans biology
16:00 Defining lust
20:00 What a man and women need to be intimate
29:00 Difference between confidence and ego
35:00 The difficulty of submission when you’re winning
39:00 Inaction is selfish
44:00 The new drug
53:00 Why your body is screaming at you
59:30 Impacts of suppressed emotions
1:06:00 The key to deep connection
1:14:00 Zooming out the time horizon
1:30:00 The gap between you and happiness
1:35:00 Why do we keep suffering on purpose?
1:38:20 Imposter syndrome
1:45:00 Losing someone you gave your all to…
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#113: Todd Anderson: Your Sleep Problem Isn’t Sleep
In this episode, we break down why most people don’t have a sleep problem at all…
They have a stress problem, a purpose problem, or a life-awareness problem.
Todd Anderson is one of the sharpest voices in the world of sleep, human psychology, and high performance.
He’s worked with elite athletes, Fortune 500 teams, and high performers who want to feel better, think clearer, and stop sabotaging themselves.
Key Discussion Points:
Why most sleep problems are actually stress and life-awareness problems
The fear of losing momentum and the psychological cost of high performance
Presence, flow state, and how elite performers access their best self
Childhood patterns, identity, and the hidden roots of adult stress
How to fix your relationship with sleep without becoming obsessive or rigid
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Chapters:
00:00 Why sleep really matters
03:02 The culture shift around sleep
06:18 Morning routines vs efficiency
09:41 Stress disguised as sleep problems
12:28 How life stress stacks silently
15:17 Fear of losing momentum
18:49 Childhood wiring and identity
21:47 Todd’s upbringing and purpose
24:43 Overcoming insecurity
27:36 Why most people never start
31:05 Highs, lows, and perspective
36:42 When optimization becomes harmful
41:20 Presence and flow state
47:50 Why people feel worse than they think
53:40 How Dream Recovery began
58:55 Presence as the real superpower
01:09:26 New recovery tech
01:11:10 Final reflections
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#112: Chris Petkas: Why The Most Dangerous Men Are The Most Calm
Today’s episode is with Chris Petkas, former Navy Seal turned VC investor. It was a powerful conversation around grit, determination and the willingness to fail.
Chris’ marriage with Codie Sanchez inspires me, Chris’ well rounded success inspires me and Chris’ calm nature inspires me.
I loved this conversation. We also recorded this in a horse stable just out of Austin with 5 real horses behind us.
Key Discussion Points:
Why calm men are often the most dangerous
How military training builds composure under chaos
Naivety as a superpower when starting hard things
The biggest risk in life: choosing who you marry
Jiu-jitsu, humility, and learning through losing
Patriotism, perspective, and seeing the world
Australia’s tall-poppy mindset vs America
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Chapters:
00:00 Why Calm Men Are the Most Dangerous
05:20 Military Recruitment
10:40 Naivety, Risk and Starting Before You’re Ready
15:55 Failure, Ego and Learning Through Pain
21:00 Suffering in Training vs Real Combat
26:15 Leaving the Military and Entering Business
30:30 The Competence Ladder
33:45 Long Distance Love
36:50 Choosing a Partner is your biggest risk
39:40 Building Marriage and Business Together
46:30 The Loneliness Myth
49:40 Patriotism, Perspective and Seeing the World
53:50 Australia vs America: Ambition and Tall Poppy Culture
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