Win the Day

"The price of anything is the amount of life you exchange for it." — Henry David Thoreau
Have you ever tied your self-worth to your career success?
In our fast-paced world, it’s one of the most dangerous traps there is...
Brooke Taylor built her career in the high-pressure hallways of Silicon Valley. Yet, despite the external validation, Brooke found herself trapped in a cycle of "manic ambition" and severe burnout.
It was a profound personal crisis that forced her to dismantle her own definition of achievement.
Today, Brooke is the secret weapon for elite executive women at the world’s most influential organizations, including Goldman Sachs, McKinsey, and Uber.
Her new book Healing the Success Wound has just been released.
In this episode:
• How to build a world-class career without destroying your life in the process.
• Where your Success Wound comes from—and the exact process to heal it.
• Why high achievers mistake success for self-worth.
• How to maintain a high-performing career without turning your home life into a second job.
Let’s WIN THE DAY with Brooke Taylor!
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🎬 Episode website (including 4K video, full transcript, best quotes, etc.): https://jameswhitt.com/294-win-the-day-podcast-brooke-taylor
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📚 ‘Healing the Success Wound’ by Brooke Taylor
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Timemarkers:
00:00 Meet Brooke Taylor: how to untangle your self-worth from your career KPIs
1:45 Interview starts
2:06 Why high achievers tie their self-worth to achievement
3:53 How childhood praise creates a lifelong need for external validation
5:22 Burnout: what high-functioning addiction actually looks like — and Brooke Taylor’s journey with alcoholism
7:32 How to recognize rock bottom in a successful career
8:55 Why addiction isn't about the substance — and what recovery really treats
10:12 How to stop negative self-talk: build self-worth, not confidence
12:27 How to make faster decisions (and stop worrying about not having all the information)
14:06 How to journal daily: the exact prompts that James Whittaker uses to win the day
16:25 How to know if you're on the right career path: 3 signs
18:01 How to find your zone of genius (better than StrengthsFinder)
20:09 How to find fulfillment in a job you can't quit yet
21:28 Secrets carry energy – stop carrying yours (advice from Dr. Gabor Maté)
22:42 Imposter syndrome, perfectionism, and burnout: the real root cause
25:44 Will healing burnout make you lose your competitive edge?
28:01 How to switch off work mode when you get home
30:24 Success wound: The more you achieve, the happier you are
32:00 Harvard Psychologist: How to manage stress and anxiety with one simple question
33:31 Solve burnout by fixing this one thing in your daily routine
35:38 Work-life balance for dual-income parents with young kids
39:29 What women need in the workplace
41:40 Career vs kids: How to decide when you want both
46:32 Why you should never compare your ambition with others
48:54 Affirmation for your worst day (success comes from being, not doing)
50:48 Rocket Round
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PS — Enjoyed this episode? You'll love this one, too:⁠⁠ ⁠⁠
Episode 282: The ROI of Calm with Sunaina Sinha

"We do not remember days, we remember moments." — Cesare Pavese
How much of your life have you forgotten?
In our fast-paced, stressed-out world, all the days blur into one.
But what if you had a way to leverage every impactful moment you have into the ultimate compass for your decision making?
All of a sudden the dream life you want becomes a reality.
Onward,
James
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✍️ Journaling app: Day One
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“Until death, all defeat is psychological.” — Marcus Aurelius
How can you make good decisions for your future, especially in a world of noise, overwhelm, and pressure?
Our guest Jon Fussell (known as “Fuss”) is a retired Navy SEAL Lieutenant Commander. Over a 20-year military career, he led the most elite special mission units on hundreds of direct-action combat missions across eight deployments.
Fuss served in tactical leadership roles on SEAL Teams 3, 4, 10, as well as SEAL Delivery Vehicle Team Two. He then served as a Troop Commander at the Naval Special Warfare Development Group (SEAL Team 6).
Today, as founder of Patriot Leadership Development, Fuss uses real-world battlefield scenarios to teach executives how to navigate intense ethical dilemmas and maintain operational clarity under immense pressure. 
In this episode:
• How to install a culture where "calm is contagious", in the office or at home. 
• The exact framework elite teams use to remain at the top of their game.  
• How to make decisions under pressure that maximize your organizational velocity.  
• The best lessons from a 20-year career in the most elite special forces.
Let’s WIN THE DAY with Jon Fussell!
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🌎 Jon Fussell LinkedIn
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Timemarkers:
00:00 Meet Jon Fussell: the retired Navy SEAL Lieutenant Commander teaching leadership under pressure
1:35 Interview starts
1:48 How wrestling with an older brother forged a warrior mindset
2:58 Why 9/11 and a family military legacy led to the SEAL teams
4:50 The mindset to make it through Navy SEAL training (BUD/S)
6:12 Why the biggest, toughest-looking guy often quit first
6:55 The brotherhood forged in BUD/S — and how 178 candidates became 28 SEALs
9:22 Why quitting can never be an option in your mind
10:44 How bad corporate ethics training sparked Jon Fussell’s new mission
12:52 Mentors from Jon Fussell’s military career
13:35 Leaving SEAL Team 6 for corporate America
17:21 Inside the Benghazi case study: training leaders through life-and-death calls
18:58 The truth about leadership in the military
20:08 What it was like to see SEAL Team 6 in action for the first time
22:53 What to do when a teammate's moral compass fails
26:29 What happens when you retire from SEAL Team 6 — and making peace with identity after an elite career
30:38 How a Navy SEAL would fix our broken political system
35:14 The one habit that separates high-performing teams from average ones
37:35 What special forces operators do before an operation
41:05 How people can make good decisions under pressure
43:42 The daily rituals that keep a former SEAL close to peak performance
45:40 Rocket Round
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PS — Enjoyed this episode? You'll love this one, too:⁠⁠ ⁠Episode 250: Masters of Uncertainty with Rich Diviney

"Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes... including you." – Anne Lamott
I'm back from a 10-day trip to Fiji! It was a lot of fun, but also reminded me of something important.
In this minisode, we'll go through why knowing how to disconnect (even when you're disconnecting) is so important, and something simple to set a better example for those around you.
Onward,
James
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"Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate." — Carl Jung
Today we’re sitting down with Rich Christiansen who I’ve become a great admirer of for his values blueprint, family philosophy, and general approach to building a life and career you love. 
In our first conversation, Episode 230, Rich introduced the Legado Family Framework—specifically the rites of passage he designed for his children to build resilience, financial independence, and ensure the continued success of his family for generations to come.
In today’s episode:
• How to determine your values—and live by them
• Why most people never reach their full potential
• What it means to live a life of alignment
• How you can be the catalyst for generational wealth and success for your family.
Let’s WIN THE DAY with Rich Christiansen!
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🎁 Get your free Values Blueprint video course
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Timemarkers:
00:00 Meet Rich Christiansen: the Values Blueprint and building a lasting family legacy
1:49 Interview starts
3:00 The "5-year-old dragon": how childhood trauma quietly runs your life
4:25 Why even Oprah, presidents, and world leaders ask "Am I enough?"
6:55 Why the family unit is falling apart — and how to rebuild it
10:16 How to define your values (and why you must know what you stand against)
12:15 The "trick questions" that reveal who really shares your values
15:08 Why saying no is the real key to success
15:56 How to teach a 16-year-old their values when no one ever modeled it
18:09 Why you should never preach values — you create lived experiences instead
20:08 The Pumpkin Patch story: how Rich Christiansen taught his grandkids 5 life lessons without saying a word
27:48 How to build rites of passage that shape who your kids become
30:12 Why your personal, family, and business values must all align: the 4 loops you need for a life of flow
32:54 Why value-screening matters more than hiring someone smart and likable
35:40 Three ways to repair a relationship when preaching isn't working
37:23 The danger of false praise (and what genuine affirmation looks like)
39:22 How to know when you've got the right values in place
41:08 How to build a "superpower" marriage instead of constant friction
44:26 How to repair a strained relationship with your child (or parent)
47:33 Why love without consequences isn't really love
49:15 Why we're all coping — and how to support someone without carrying them
51:22 Rocket Round: Rich Christiansen on Qigong, grandparenting, and being remembered
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PS — Enjoyed this episode? You'll love this one, too:⁠⁠ Episode 230: Face Your Dragons with Rich Christiansen