We’ve spoken with thousands of blokes, and the same reasons for avoiding therapy keep popping up. On this episode, we say the quiet part out loud: why men don’t book in, why some first sessions fall flat, and why it often feels like therapy wasn’t designed with blokes in mind.We dig into the big blockers... relatability in a female-dominated field, fear of judgment, not knowing what actually happens in the room, and the belief that “talking about feelings” won’t fix real-world problems. Then we get practical: how to pick a therapist who fits your style, what a first session really looks like, and bloke-friendly alternatives if the couch isn’t your thing.Whether you’ve never tried therapy, had a shocker first run, or you’re the partner/mate trying to help a bloke take the next step... this is a straight-up, no-fluff chat designed to make the whole thing less weird and more useful. Not an anti-therapy rant, just a map that actually helps men get help.
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#075: Living With PTSD: One Cop’s Way Back
Meet Jamie, the ex-cop who was medically discharged after a PTSD diagnosis. The uniform came off, but the echoes stayed... panic, sleepless nights, and the weight that doesn’t clock off. We sit down with the bloke behind the badge: the partner, the mate, and the man learning how to live when the chaos stopped.This episode digs into what many blokes don't talk about... the maze of psychologists and doctors, the ups & downs of medication, and the power of sitting with other veterans who actually get it. Jamie talks about how a boat became his anchor - clear lines of sight, known surroundings, and nature doing its quiet work.
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#074: The Bloke Behind The MK4 Scary Supra
You might know Aaron for his 1996 Toyota Supra - better known as the Scary Supra - one of the wildest builds in Australia’s car scene. The car turns heads everywhere it goes… but that’s only the surface. We sit down with the man behind it: the stepdad, the partner, and the bloke who had to face a past where he wasn’t the man he wanted to be.This episode digs into what most fellas never put on Instagram: building a blended family, the hard yards of taking accountability, and how your definition of happiness shifts as you grow. Aaron opens up about mistakes, lessons, and the moments he realised the real rebuild wasn’t under the bonnet... it was in himself.Whether you’re into cars, navigating stepdad life, or just trying to figure out the man you want to become… this episode is a raw look at the roads we all travel.See more from Scary Supra: www.instagram.com/scarysupra
You might know Matty “Bombs” for Australia’s biggest golf swing. On the long-drive grid he’s a world champ for launching nukes... but that’s only the highlight reel. We sit down with the man behind it: the partner, the new dad, the step-dad... navigating a premmie birth with just 10 weeks notice and the wild life that real life throws at us all.This episode digs into what most blokes never talk about out loud: the fear, the fatigue, and the friction of step-parenting, plus the weight of old wounds that don’t vanish when you hit it 400 yards. Matty opens up about childhood trauma and how a guy who thought therapy wasn’t for him finally gave it a crack,and why it changed everything. Practical tools, hard truths, and a fresh take on strength that goes way beyond the swing.Whether you’re a new parent, a step-dad in the trenches, or a bloke who’s been putting off getting help… this episode is a good look at the daily things some of us are facing.Find more from Matty at www.instagram.com/mattybombs
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#072: AI In 2025: Cop Out or Cheat Code
AI is everywhere... so do you use it, or does it use you? In this one, the boys scrap over dependency, pressure to keep up, and whether leaning on a bot makes you soft. Rob isn’t shy about hating how much Matty uses AI… until talk turns to self-development: prompts, planning, learning faster, doing the hard work smarter. Half conspiracy and speculation, half straight talk every bloke should hear. Perfect if you haven’t jumped on the bandwagon yet, or you’ve only dipped a toe and want real ways it can make life easier without losing your edge.
Better Bloke is brought to you by a bunch of average guys on a mission to improve the mental and physical well-being of Aussie blokes. Matty and Rob give their two cents on what makes a better bloke and are joined by some heavyweights along the way. Between these blokes, and you legends tuning in, we're going to tackle some issues, unravel the complexities and reduce the head noise along the way.
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