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In this (veryyy chatty, veryyyyyy ADHD) episode, Sam tells a long-winded horror story about how she got financially burned this year—a product of her own failure to get educated about her finances and be in control of major decisions surrounding them. Luckily, she's learned her lesson (the hard way), but the whole drama left her with a hardcore scarcity mindset when it comes to money. So she set herself up on a self-made "program" to develop an abundance mindset, and she's bringing you along for the ride.

Listen to this episode if you're always worried about money, even if you don't really have a good reason to be.

Key moments:

01:04 A quick yap about seasonal depression and Sam’s solutions lolllll

02:21 Sam is about to be a YouTuber, mark my words

03:33 How Sam’s bulk is going

05:49 The winter uglies, feeling unmotivated, and self-loathing in the winter

07:39 A moment to speak on the state of the world

08:38 How Sam ended up with a scarcity mindset around money

17:17 The mistake that cost Sam THOUSANDS of dollars

28:47 Lessons learned

32:00 How Sam is changing her mindset from scarcity to abundance

35:41 Gratitude vs. a victim mindset and how that affects your abundance

39:21 Interrupting spirals and negative thought patterns

43:16 Generosity during financial struggle

46:40 Redefining success (you can have achievement outside of conventional reward systems)

48:43 How gathering data can help you understand patterns without emotions

52:34 Goal-setting and the accomplishment avalanche

54:36 A HUGE sign you don’t have self-belief and you have a scarcity mindset

56:14 How trust translates to abundance

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In this episode, Sam sits down with Dr. Jonathan B. Levine to learn about the second-largest microbiome in our bodies: the mouth. If you were worried about leaky gut before, you're worried about leaky *gums* now. They discuss how your oral health can not only predict, but also influence health outcomes like cardiovascular disease, gut imbalances, lifespan, and more; share the best products and protocols for taking care of your teeth and gums at home; and explore the unexpected—yet extremely powerful—connection between your mouth and sleep.

Listen to this episode if you have persistent sleep problems, gum inflammation, plaque buildup, or gut issues that you can't figure out. You might be surprised!

Key moments:

03:19 How Lenny Kravitz (rock star) became a dentist (I’m only half joking???)

07:31 How oral health impacts our longevity

10:11 Why dentistry and healthcare are separate industries

11:42 What your saliva can tell you about your overall health

11:53 The second biggest microbiome in your body

12:19 How the pH balance of your mouth affects your entire body

13:14 How to change the pH of your mouth to control health outcomes

14:00 Leaky gut’s sister disease that nobody is talking about

14:25 How gum inflammation make you sick

16:35 How your oral health affects your hormones and reproductive system

20:51 The root of all disease

24:24 The unexpected link between oral health, sleep, and longer lifespans

32:06 Does mouth taping actually work?

32:22 Why you actually grind your teeth

34:05 The metabolic impact of oral health on aging and longevity

36:34 What’s in our control vs. out of our control

38:01 The right protocol for good oral hygiene

38:48 Thoughts on the chemicals - hydrogen peroxide, fluoride, sodium laurel sulfate, etc.

41:06 The tea on tongue scraping (what’s all that white stuff???)

42:11 Fixes to common oral health problems (plaque buildup, gum inflammation, yellow teeth)

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In this episode, Sam sits down with Vienna Pharaon (@mindfulmft) to learn about core wounds—those "first time" moments when we're let down, disappointed, betrayed, or otherwise hurt—and how they show up in our adult lives and relationships. They discuss where those core wounds come from (yes, we all have them, even if we had great childhoods!), how to spot them in your patterns and reactions, and, ultimately, how to heal from them.

Listen to this episode if you've ever had a big, strong reaction to something, if you're interested in inner child work, or if you want to be a better friend, partner, and family member.

Key moments:

01:47 Freud, Attachment Theory, Object Relations, and more

04:52 Core wounds—how childhood trauma shows up in adulthood

06:11 Can my core wounds come from experiences later in life, or is it truly just childhood trauma?

07:34 The five core wounds

08:43 Descriptions of the core wounds and how they affect you in adulthood

10:15 The worthiness wound (feeling like you don’t have inherent value or worth)

11:09 The belonging wound (“nobody gets me/I don’t belong here”)

11:54 The prioritization wound (never feeling like anyone’s #1)

12:22 The trust and safety wounds (being guarded or hypervigilant/being clingy)

13:27 How we internalize pain determines which wounds we get

14:15 Why someone with a happy childhood/family still has core wounds

24:21 The 2-minute quiz that can tell you which wound you lead with

24:35 A full description of the trust wound (Sam leads with this one)

25:05 Can core wounds come from friendships or romantic relationships?

29:11 Breaking and building trust with YOURSELF

31:46 How to start doing inner child work

34:07 What if you don’t really have memories from your childhood?

38:36 What to do when other people show their core wounds

41:39 The difference between emotional maturity and emotional immaturity

43:47 The 3 steps of healing from childhood trauma

49:20 Why do emotionally intelligent women get stuck in the same dating patterns?

50:19 How to tell the difference between falling in love with someone vs. they activate a familiar wound

53:24 Why it’s easier to give love than to receive it

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In this episode, Sam opens up about her former destructive habit of overthinking everything until she's fully spiraling and catastrophizing—and then, as always, she shares how she learned how to STOP doing it. It's literally bad for our health! Also, it's not productive. But you'll learn all that in the episode.

Listen to this episode if you're a chronic overthinker.

Key moments:

06:35 What does overthinking look/feel like?

07:11 Ruminating about the past vs. worrying about the future

08:06 The consequences of overthinking

11:25 Why do we overthink everything?

13:17 Big CAPS LOCK updates!!!

14:22 The one reason we all overthink

14:53 How you can trick your brain by overthinking

15:27 Why overthinking isn’t productive

16:58 All roads lead back to fear of judgment!

17:56 Why you’re always spiraling about the worst possible outcomes instead of the best possible outcomes

18:42 Why it’s dangerous to overthink the worst possible outcomes

19:12 The physical health impact of spiraling (inflammation, immune system, etc.)

20:32 Identifying triggers and patterns for spiraling, overthinking, ruminating, etc.

22:55 Do you mostly spiral at night or when you’re alone?

24:39 Why your spirals are worse at certain times

25:06 The first question to ask yourself when you start spiraling

25:57 Catastrophizing

26:20 How to reframe your thoughts while you’re catastrophizing

26:54 What to do when you catch yourself in a negative thought loop

27:56 Using your calendar app to reduce overthinking

28:02 Venting to your friends vs. venting to your therapist

30:33 Your can/cannot list - this is SO HELPFUL

32:41 How to shift from overthinking in your HEAD to executing an ACTION IRL

33:47 Sam literally wrote you a clean, concise apology text for when you’re in an awkward situation and it’s your fault lol

34:32 Honestly the most crucial advice in any episode ever lol

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In this episode, Sam relives some moments from the first year of CAPS LOCK that really capture what the show is about. Moments that might literally make you laugh or cry (Sam does both throughout the course of this episode), moments that are profound—even some that have enormous implications, reaching far beyond our small-but-mighty audience.

The idea here is that, going into 2026, we all have different goals. We all need to hear different things in this moment to start it off on the right foot. So, as usual—take what you need, and leave what you don't.

Key moments:

01:24 Welcome to 2026!

07:07 How vaping affects your fertility and reproductive health (excerpt from episode 9, featuring Quit With Jones)

09:22 How belonging to a community affects your physical health (excerpt from episode 14, featuring Dr. Jonathan Leary of Remedy Place)

23:35 If “eat healthy” is one of your New Year’s Resolutions, listen up! (excerpt from episode 26, featuring Vanessa Rissetto, RD)

31:51 Dating for marriage in 2026 and beyond (excerpt from episode 23, featuring Lindsey Metselaar of We Met at Acme)

36:48 A surprising way that ADHD can affect your friendships and relationships (excerpt from episode 25, featuring Jennifer Salzman)

42:20 How having kids changes your body forever (excerpt from episode 33, featuring Taylor Rae Roman)

47:31 Why Gen Z is facing extremely high unemployment rates right now (excerpt from episode 48, featuring Suzy Welch)

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