Being Human

• Episode 219: A Secular Therapist Asked for My Take

  What happens when someone outside the faith asks for your honest take on one of today’s most controversial issues? In this episode, Dr. Greg shares a conversation with secular therapist and podcast host Stephanie Winn, who came with real curiosity: What does Catholic psychology say about gender ideology? Even without sharing the same faith background, Stephanie engages deeply—and the result is a rich dialogue that offers clarity, compassion, and truth.   Key Topics: How to speak about gender truthfully and compassionately Why Catholic anthropology offers clarity in a confused culture The psychological roots of gender confusion and identity struggles The difference between repression and integration in Catholic psychology A merciful, hopeful vision of healing for those struggling with gender and identity wounds   Timestamps: 00:00 – Introduction and Why a Secular Therapist Wanted a Catholic Take 08:00 – Can Faith, Reason, and Science Really Work Together? 19:35 – Making the Leap of Faith When Understanding Falls Short 25:35 – The Scandal of Psychology: No Answer to “What Is a Person?” 29:58 – Fractured Identity: Dr. Greg Reflects on His Parents’ Divorce 31:16 – Stephanie Reflects: I Didn’t Know My Struggles Were from a Father Wound 35:13 – Lack of Compassion Is Missing from Religious Approaches 38:42 – Using the Blueprint to Help Those Suffering with Gender Issues 46:44 – Digging into the Causes of Gender Identity Struggles   Learn More: Check out You Must Be Some Kind of Therapist Podcast, hosted by Stephanie Winn LMFT For the second half of this conversation, listen to Ep. 218: A Conversation with a Secular Therapist: Unveiling the Blueprint of the Human Person Love and Responsibility by Karol Wojtyla (Pope John Paul II) Need help? Schedule a free CatholicPsych consultation to learn more about the daily accompaniment of Mentorship. Want to help? Learn more about our Certification in Professional Accompaniment. Follow Us on Socials: Instagram | Facebook | YouTube | Twitter (X) | LinkedIn

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• Episode 218: My Conversation with a Secular Therapist: Unveiling the Blueprint for the Human Person

  What happens when a Catholic psychologist and a secular therapist sit down for a conversation? In this compelling discussion, Stephanie Winn (host of You Must Be Some Kind of Therapist) and Dr. Greg explore the intersection of faith and psychology, offering a bridge between faith and reason. Together, they unpack how a relational understanding of the person can lead to healing and wholeness in a culture grappling with identity and meaning.   Key Topics: The five relational marks that shape human identity How relationships form, wound, and ultimately heal us The significance of objective truth, goodness, and beauty in psychology The Catholic understanding of atonement, healing, and personal growth A fresh, merciful perspective on purgatory and the communion of saints   Learn More: Check out You Must Be Some Kind of Therapist Podcast, hosted by Stephanie Winn LMFT Previous episodes unpacking the blueprint of the human person: Ep. 2: The Human Blueprint Ep. 183: The Lead Domino Effect: Transformation Begins with a Blueprint We’d love to hear your feedback! Email us at [email protected]. Need help? Schedule a free CatholicPsych consultation. Want to help? Learn more about our Certification in Professional Accompaniment.   Follow Us on Socials: Instagram | Facebook | YouTube | Twitter (X) | LinkedIn

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• Episode 217: Did You Know There Are 5 Anxiety Languages?

  You’ve heard of the 5 Love Languages—now meet the 5 Anxiety Languages! In this episode of Being Human, Dr. Greg Bottaro introduces a groundbreaking way to understand anxiety: The 5 Anxiety Languages. Just like understanding love languages helps us express love, your Anxiety Language reveals how you instinctively process stress, uncertainty, and fear. Which anxiety language do you speak? Tune in to find out.   Key Topics: Why anxiety feels different for everyone—and why that matters. The 5 Anxiety Languages explained: Reactive, Activated, Minimizing, Withdrawing, and Impulsive. How these Anxiety Languages show up in your day-to-day life. Why Jesus’ command to “be not afraid” isn’t just a spiritual ideal—it’s psychologically practical. How understanding anxiety as a “language” can help you break unhealthy patterns. Faith-based, practical steps to navigate anxiety and find peace.   Timestamps: 00:00 – Everybody has some level of anxiety 03:02 – Anxiety is not what you think 05:54 – The 5 Anxiety Languages: What’s your predominant language? 07:18 – Reactive Quick-tempered, snappy, stressed-out under pressure. 12:02 – Activated: Always “on,” overachieving, constantly in motion. 14:34 – Minimizing: Saying “I’m fine” even when the house is on fire. 17:27 – Withdrawing: Avoidance, procrastination, or retreating inward. 22:02 – Impulsive: Jumping from thing to thing, seeking distraction (and the ADHD overlap). 24:53 – Review and Close   Learn More: Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CatholicPsychInstitute Catholic Mindfulness Program – Dr. Greg Bottaro’s mindfulness approach integrating Catholic faith and psychology. Daily Catholic Accompaniment – CatholicPsych’s approach combines faith and psychology, offering personalized mentorship to transform your daily challenges. Blog article: Is Mindfulness safe for Catholics to practice? Coming soon: “What Is Your Predominant Anxiety Language?” Quiz We’d love to hear your feedback! Email us at [email protected]. Need help transforming anxiety into peace? Schedule a free CatholicPsych consultation.   Follow Us on Socials: Instagram | Facebook | YouTube | Twitter (X) | LinkedIn

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• Episode 216: Breaking the Cycle of Pain: How to Heal from Childhood Wounds

  We all had bad parenting in some way—but now what? No parent is perfect, and childhood wounds don’t just disappear when we grow up. Whether you struggled with criticism, emotional neglect, control, or a lack of support, those experiences shape your self-worth, relationships, and faith. In this episode, Catholic psychologist Dr. Greg Bottaro explains how faith and psychology help rewire false beliefs, break destructive patterns, and heal childhood wounds. Key Topics: How bad parenting affects adult relationships & self-worth. The difference between healing and “just forgiving”. How to honor parents while setting healthy boundaries. Rewiring false beliefs about your identity through faith. How to break the cycle and parent differently.   Timestamps: 00:00 – Introduction 03:21 – How bad parenting impacts children’s sense of identity 07:00 – Breaking the cycle: Understanding toxic family patterns 11:55 – How faith rewires false beliefs about your identity 13:44 – Learning self-stewardship and true self-care 17:12 – Correcting distortions of value learned from bad parenting 18:47 – Final encouragement to self-stewardship   Learn More: Episode 215: When Are Parents Toxic? with Noelle Mering Catholic Mindfulness Program – Dr. Greg Bottaro’s mindfulness approach integrating Catholic faith and psychology. Need support navigating a difficult family relationship? Schedule a free CatholicPsych consultation.   Follow Us on Socials:  Instagram | Facebook | YouTube | Twitter (X) | LinkedIn

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• Episode 215: When Are Parents Toxic? Navigating Toxic Family Relationships

  Toxic parents? Difficult family relationships? Can Catholics set boundaries and follow God’s commandment?  Is it ever okay to step back from a parent-child relationship? Dr. Greg Bottaro and Noelle Mering explore the balance between honoring parents and protecting mental, emotional, and spiritual health. In a culture where cutting ties is increasingly normalized, does it truly lead to healing? This episode dives into forgiveness, boundaries, and finding peace in difficult family relationships. If you’ve ever wrestled with family wounds or guilt over boundaries, this conversation offers a powerful blend of faith and psychology. Key Topics: The difference between normal family conflict and toxic relationships. Catholic teaching on honoring parents vs. setting healthy boundaries. How the “No Contact” movement is reshaping family relationships—for better or worse. How to forgive without enabling harmful behavior. The psychological impact of unhealthy family ties—and the path to healing. Timestamps: 00:00 – Welcome & Episode Overview 03:30 – Impact of Woke Ideology 05:50 – Raising Children to be Faithful Catholics 08:45 – Protecting Children from Harmful Ideology 13:20 – How to Best Help Struggling Kids 15:21 – Are Your Parents Actually Toxic? 30:18 – When is “No Contact” Justified? (Or is it a cultural overreaction?) 36:07 – The 4th Commandment: Honoring vs. Obeying 44:30 – Setting Boundaries as a Catholic 52:49 – Final Thoughts & Encouragement Learn More: Awake, Not Woke  – book by Noelle Mering Theology of Home – co-directed by Noelle Mering & Carrie Gress Theology of Home (4 volumes)  – books by Noelle Mering & Carrie Gress Ethics and Public Policy Center – where Noelle co-directs EPPC’s Theology of Home Project Need support navigating a difficult family relationship? Schedule a free CatholicPsych consultation. The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt Bad Therapy by Abigail Shrier Follow Us on Socials: Instagram | Facebook | YouTube | Twitter (X) | LinkedIn

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