In episode 87 of the Schein On Podcast, Evan dives into a profound discussion with Dr. Brad Reedy, renowned family therapist and co-founder of Evoke Therapy Programs. The episode explores the importance of understanding oneself, the transformative power of therapy, and how the hero's journey framework can reframe life's challenges, including divorce. Additionally, Evan and producer Dave discuss their personal takes on Opening Day, share insights on popular shows like 'White Lotus,' and debate the value of law firm swag.
00:00 Introduction to Self-Discovery
00:08 Podcast Opening and Episode Overview
00:52 Guest Introduction: Dr. Brad Reedy
01:15 Casual Conversation: Baseball and Personal Anecdotes
05:18 Discussion on Divorce and Relationships
09:37 Parenting Post-Divorce
13:46 Overrated or Underrated Segment
18:18 White Lotus Discussion
21:42 Interview with Dr. Brad Reedy
23:20 Embracing Resistance in Therapy
24:46 Mentors and Their Impact
26:19 False Heroes and Misguided Pursuits
27:34 Modern Therapy's Shortcomings
29:42 Connecting Past Trauma to Present Issues
32:06 The True Nature of Healing
34:12 The Role of Forgiveness in Therapy
35:56 Divorce as a Catalyst for Growth
39:01 The Hero's Journey Framework
41:03 Unresolved Childhood Trauma in Breakups
44:24 The Importance of Self-Knowledge
48:07 Famous Quotes and Their Insights
58:57 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
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1:00:13
Sexuality & Relationships with Dr. David Ley
Evan leads a deep dive into the complexities of sex addiction and human sexuality with clinical psychologist and sex therapist Dr. David Ley. The conversation dispels myths, addresses misconceptions about sex addiction, and explores the nuances of intimacy, relationships, and pornography. The episode also features the lively 'Overrated or Underrated' segment and a discussion on AI's impact on child exploitation. Additionally, Dr. Ley provides professional insights on maintaining realistic expectations in relationships and discusses the potential benefits and ethical dilemmas associated with artificial intelligence in combating sexual offenses.
Topics
00:38 Diving into Divorce and Relationship Insights
02:00 March Madness and Bracket Strategies
04:46 Red Sox and Yankees Rivalry
06:40 The Docket: Sharing Truth After Divorce
14:07 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Fun Topics
26:17 Interview with Dr. David Ley on Sex Addiction
30:05 The Harmful Effects of the 'Sex Addiction' Label
30:45 Sex Addiction in the Courtroom
31:31 Misconceptions About Sex Addiction Treatment
33:26 Moral Judgments and Sex Addiction
35:53 Pornography and Its Misunderstood Impact
37:07 The Role of Sex Education
39:06 Pornography in Relationships
45:09 The Myth of Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction
46:40 The Complexity of Human Sexuality
01:01:36 AI and Child Exploitation
01:10:17 Final Thoughts and Reflections
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1:12:09
Navigating the Dating Jungle with Laurie Gerber
Featuring renowned life coach and relationship expert Laurie Gerber, the episode delves into handling breakups, dating post-divorce, and the importance of honesty and self-discovery. Highlights include Gerber's advice on the pitfalls of rushing into new relationships, the significance of personal growth, and practical tips for modern dating. The show also covers current events, such as celebrity divorces, and explores topics like the resurgence of vinyl records and the impact of one's career on relationships. Throughout the episode, engaging segments like 'Overrated or Underrated' and 'They Said It' add variety and depth to the conversation, making it a must-listen for anyone interested in love, relationships, and personal development.
Topics
00:14 Podcast Introduction and Season Overview
00:26 Discussing Divorce and Relationships
02:40 Celebrity Divorce News
06:24 TV Show Trailer Review
09:08 Impact of Careers on Relationships
13:26 Overrated or Underrated Segment
22:55 Interview with Laurie Gerber
39:01 Understanding Compatibility in Dating
39:56 Efficiently Ending a Relationship
41:27 The Six Key Compatibility Factors
45:37 Importance of Family and Political Views
50:12 Common Dating Mistakes After 50
59:46 The Role of Social Media in Dating
01:02:30 Quotes and Reflections on Love
01:10:42 Conclusion and Resources
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1:12:45
The Evolution of Marriage Law with Prof. Alison Lefkovitz
Evan sits down with Alison Lefkowitz, professor at the New Jersey Institute of Technology and author of 'Strange Bedfellows: Marriage in the Age of Women's Liberation, Politics, and Culture in Modern America'. They discuss the historical and modern challenges of marriage laws, the shifts in gender roles, and how technology is reshaping relationships. The episode also features segments on notable cultural perspectives on relationships, as well as a fun 'Overrated or Underrated' segment covering topics from depositions to fanny packs.
Topics
00:00 Introduction to Marriage Laws and Social Safety Nets
00:58 Episode Introduction and Guest Announcement
01:10 Discussion on Marriage Law and Social Change
01:48 Weather Talk and Personal Updates
02:43 Docket Item: Divorcing Over Taylor Swift
05:07 Docket Item: Living with Post-Divorce Anger
08:58 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Lifestyle Topics
17:44 The Fanny Pack Debate
20:48 Introducing Alison Lefkovitz
22:22 The Evolution of Marriage Laws
24:01 Technology's Impact on Modern Marriages
25:23 Masculinity, Femininity, and Legal Rulings
36:30 Pop Culture and Marriage
38:49 The Future of Marriage
44:13 They Said It: Fun Segment
50:23 Conclusion and Farewell
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51:43
Love and Divorce with Dr. Galena Rhoades
An insightful conversation on the complexities of relationships and divorce featuring Dr. Galena Rhoades, a leading psychologist and research professor at the University of Denver. The episode covers a variety of topics including the science behind what keeps couples together, the importance of commitment and communication, and the controversial topic of infidelity and its recovery process. The podcast includes engaging segments like 'Overrated or Underrated' and 'They Said It,' where Evan and producer Dave delve into trending topics and quotes about relationships. Dr. Rhoades offers research-backed truths and practical advice, making this a must-listen for anyone interested in understanding the dynamics of love and divorce.
Topics
01:35 February Excitement and Super Bowl Talk
03:01 Valentine's Day Discussion
04:12 Docket Items: Divorce and Cheating
06:26 Bill Gates' Divorce Regret
12:10 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Fun Topics
22:03 Interview with Dr. Galena Rhoades
26:27 Research on Cohabitation and Divorce
28:00 The Sliding vs. Deciding Theory
30:04 Designing the Ideal Psychological Study
31:38 Healing After Betrayal in Relationships
33:49 The Phases of Recovery from Infidelity
38:53 The Myths of Love and Relationships
41:49 Impact of Family Background on Relationships
44:14 Key Components of Thriving Relationships
47:45 Insights from 'Fighting for Your Marriage'
50:35 Analyzing Historical Relationships
52:52 They Said It: Reflections on Love and Commitment
57:40 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
The podcast that explores high-profile divorces and much more. From Attorney Evan Schein and Berkman Bottger Newman & Schein LLP. Evan Schein is a partner with the firm and leads the firm’s litigation practice. More info at www.berkbot.com. A production of pod617.com, the Boston Podcast Network.