If you’re navigating a breakup, this is the reminder you didn’t know you needed. In this mini episode, Alexz Paraviainen, founder of Hustl. shares the real, raw side of heartbreak, identity loss, and healing. She opens up about the trap of obsessing over someone’s actions and why trying to understand them keeps you stuck.Instead of chasing closure, she invites you to separate the lesson from the story, and shift the focus back to your own healing. Because how someone treats you isn’t about you but how it makes you feel is where your power is.Alexz also vulnerably shares her journey with anxiety, self-inflicted pain, and suicidal thoughts and how movement and honesty became her medicine. In a world full of polished highlight reels, she talks about creating safe spaces (like her pilates studio) where you don’t have to wear a front.Whether you're going through it or coming out the other side, this episode is about taking your power back, one honest moment at a time.Listen to the full episode here -Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0gDlf1gdtuAV3Y1nAWE0V3?si=f62235d615eb43a2 Thank you for listening. Don't forget to share with your besties & tag us in your stories.Love Tori & Lily xRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2025 Notion template: https://rawreality.com.au/products/your-year-notion-templateFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/Recording Studio @zonegym_ https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/
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#161 | We Took Control of Our Lives… and Here’s Exactly How You Can Too!
We’re diving into the healthy habits that completely transformed the way we live. From ditching social media first thing in the morning (because yes, watching reels before coffee can make you lose your mind) to finding balance with an 80/20 approach to food, we’re breaking down what truly works for us.We talk about learning to shift from a pessimistic mindset to an optimistic one, setting boundaries and saying “no” without guilt, and the power of hydration, not just for your skin, but for your energy, digestion, and overall glow. It’s not about perfection or rigid routines, it’s about creating a lifestyle that actually feels good. We talk about building momentum through tiny daily choices - these are the habits that helped us feel grounded, confident, and genuinely happy. We hope you enjoy xxThankyou for listening, don't forget to share with your besties & tag us in your stories.MERCH RR x MSCR https://musclerepublic.com/collections/raw-reality-x-mscrRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2025 Notion template https://subscribepage.io/d3KHtRFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/Recording Studio @zonegym_ https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/
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Stop Focusing on Aesthetics. Start Doing This Instead.
In this mini episode, fitness influencer and sprinter Olivia May shares why chasing aesthetics won’t get you far... and what actually will. From her 5AM routine and mindset hacks to her refreshingly honest take on food, recovery, and motivation, Liv explains why your focus should be on how you feel, not just how you look.She breaks down the 1% habits that changed everything (yes, like sleep and hydration), and how viewing food as fuel, not just calories, helped her perform at her best. If you’ve ever struggled with consistency, confidence, or comparison, this one will hit.Listen to the full episode here -Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3pg5gxVKN035iOHbLY8qQE?si=d7e0a5e65d654531 Thank you for listening. Don't forget to share with your besties & tag us in your stories.Love Tori & Lily xRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2025 Notion template: https://rawreality.com.au/products/your-year-notion-templateFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/Recording Studio @zonegym_ https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/
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#160 | Transform Your Life, One Habit at a Time with Bec Stewert
In this episode we sit down with Bec Stewart to talk about the one thing that changed her life, habit tracking. We dive into the psychology behind habit formation, the power of daily non-negotiables, and how to set goals that are actually achievable while still pushing you forward. Bec also opens up about her favourite organisation strategies, how she stays calm when life feels chaotic, and the inspiration behind her ‘Future You’ concept that blew up her social media following. Bec shares how feeling stuck led her to dive deep into the science of habits and create tools to help others stay consistent where her business was formed. This episode is a reminder that your future starts taking shape the moment you begin living like the person you want to become.Thankyou for listening, don't forget to share with your besties & tag us in your stories.Find Bec below:IG @becstewart__ https://www.instagram.com/becstewart__/https://thehabittracker.com.au/Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2025 Notion template https://subscribepage.io/d3KHtRFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/Recording Studio @zonegym_ https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/
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#159 | Tori Is Officially Retired & Lily Won Her State Show!!
BESTIES, WE’RE BACK!!! After a three-week break (your girls needed it), we’ve got a LOT to catch up on. Tori has officially moved back home for good and just wrapped up her final acro competition ever - we chat about what it’s been like to close that huge chapter. Meanwhile, Lily stated her competitive season at the IFBB QLD State show, took out her Open class win (!!), and spills all the details on what went down between States and Nationals. It’s a big one, besties. Let’s catch up!Thankyou for listening, don't forget to share with your besties & tag us in your stories.Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2025 Notion template https://subscribepage.io/d3KHtRFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/Recording Studio @zonegym_ https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/
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