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    Why Your Sex Life Isn’t Working (And How To Fix It) with Alice Child

    09/06/2026 | 1h 2 mins.
    In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence sit down with renowned sexologist and relationship counsellor Alice Child to answer one of the biggest questions facing modern couples:

    Why does intimacy break down, even in loving relationships?

    From mismatched libidos and emotional labour to communication challenges, parenting, stress, resentment and screen-time overload, Alice explains the most common reasons couples seek professional help and what actually works when it comes to rebuilding connection.

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    “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) 

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    Get in touch with us:Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069

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    The post Why Your Sex Life Isn’t Working (And How To Fix It) with Alice Child appeared first on Our Secret Spot.
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    Erotic Power, Shame & Kink w/ Eva Oh

    26/05/2026 | 53 mins.
    In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence sit down with internationally recognised dominatrix, sex educator, and somatic practitioner Eva Oh for one of the deepest and most psychologically fascinating conversations the podcast has explored yet.

    From power dynamics and long-term psychological play to shame, erotic liberation, BDSM, submission, embodiment, and human desire — Eva opens up about the hidden emotional worlds behind kink and why so many people crave control, surrender, punishment, connection, and acceptance.

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    Eva’s Links:

    IG https://www.instagram.com/youwillplease_me

    YT https://www.youtube.com/evaoh

    Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@youwillpleaseme

    Sponsors:

    “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) 

    “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20)

    New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere.

    Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox

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    Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club.

    Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS

    Want to connect with other open-minded folks?Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS.

    Get in touch with us:Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069

    Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [here].

    The post Erotic Power, Shame & Kink w/ Eva Oh appeared first on Our Secret Spot.
  • Swapping Secrets

    Reddit’s Wildest Open Relationship Stories

    13/05/2026 | 1h 4 mins.
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    Jess and Lawrence are diving into Reddit’s wildest open relationship stories — and things get messy fast.

    From ethical non-monogamy dating struggles and first-time anxiety to sex club boundaries, changing rules mid-play, safer sex debates and questionable couple behaviour, this episode unpacks the Reddit posts that made them laugh, cringe and ask: is this real or is this a troll?

    Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content!

    Sponsors:

    “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) 

    “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20)

    New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere.

    Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox

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    Reddit (Podcast)

    TikTok (Podcast)

    Facebook (Club)

    Instagram (Club)

    X (Club)

    Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club.

    Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS

    Want to connect with other open-minded folks?Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS.

    Get in touch with us:Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069

    Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [here].

    The post Reddit’s Wildest Open Relationship Stories appeared first on Our Secret Spot.
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    People, Policy and Pleasure: Deputy Lord Mayor Jess Miller explains how Sydney built safer adult spaces

    28/04/2026 | 56 mins.
    In this episode of Swapping Secrets, we explore people, policy and pleasure podcast conversations with Deputy Lord Mayor Jess Miller, unpacking the hidden history of sex-on-premises venues in Sydney and how thoughtful legislation has shaped safer adult communities.

    From the legacy of the Disorderly Houses Act to the Bodyline precedent, police discretion, planning reform, and the role of local councils, this conversation explores how rules and boundaries can actually create safer, more expressive spaces. The episode also draws powerful parallels between policy, consent, communication, and freedom — both inside adult venues and across society more broadly.

    If you’ve ever wondered how sex-positive spaces are protected, why policy matters, or what Sydney can teach the wider world about safety, autonomy and respect, this one’s for you.

    Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content!

    Jess Miller’s links:

    Instagram 

    Website

    Sponsors:

    “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) 

    “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20)

    New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere.

    Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox

    Instagram (Podcast)

    Reddit (Podcast)

    TikTok (Podcast)

    Facebook (Club)

    Instagram (Club)

    X (Club)

    Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club.

    Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS

    Want to connect with other open-minded folks?Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS.

    Get in touch with us:Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069

    Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [here].

    The post People, Policy and Pleasure: Deputy Lord Mayor Jess Miller explains how Sydney built safer adult spaces appeared first on Our Secret Spot.
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    Sex Stigma and Smart Choices with Dr. Leigh Barlow

    14/04/2026 | 1h 2 mins.
    In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence are joined by Dr. Leigh Barlow for a candid conversation about sex stigma, sexual health, STI testing, condoms, herpes, BV, and the choices that help people stay safe without shame.

    Together, they unpack why stigma around sex still exists, where sex education still falls short, and how open, informed conversations can reshape the way we think about sexual health in modern relationships and communities.

    Dr. Leigh shares practical insight into common STI myths, the importance of barrier protection, why testing should be based on risk, and how better education can help people make more confident decisions about their bodies and sexual wellbeing.

    If you’ve ever felt awkward talking about testing, disclosure, or sexual health, this episode is a powerful reminder that information, communication, and care should always come before shame.

    Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content!

    Dr. Leigh Barlow’s Links:

    Instagram

    Hey Fella

    Roid Safe

    Stigma Health

    Sponsors:

    “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) 

    “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20)

    New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere.

    Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox

    Instagram (Podcast)

    Reddit (Podcast)

    TikTok (Podcast)

    Facebook (Club)

    Instagram (Club)

    X (Club)

    Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club.

    Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS

    Want to connect with other open-minded folks?Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS.

    Get in touch with us:Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069

    Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [here].

    The post Sex Stigma and Smart Choices with Dr. Leigh Barlow appeared first on Our Secret Spot.
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About Swapping Secrets
Swapping Secrets invites you behind closed doors—into a world of open-minded love, queer glances, and unapologetic connection. Hosted by Jess and Lawrence, this podcast unveils juicy real-life stories, fierce-first tips, and playful provocations from inside the Our Secret Spot community. Whether you’re lifestyle-curious or full-time kinky, expect sharp insights, consent-driven conversations, and the kind of laughter that lasts long after the microphone turns off. Released biweekly. Tune in, subscribe, and never miss a secret.
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